A good-looking person will indeed make others look at him more.
However, no matter how good-looking they are, "aesthetic fatigue" will occur when two people get along for a long time.
What is truly enduring is never appearance, but the charm engraved in a person’s bones and soul.
Duras In " Lover ", there is a passage that reads:
"You were still very young at that time, and everyone said you were beautiful. Now I am here to tell you specifically. For me, I think You are more beautiful now than when you were young. Compared with your appearance at that time, I love your tortured appearance now.” Compared with you then, you who have gone through the baptism of many years now are more charming and full of charm.
In an intimate relationship, what kind of girl is more attractive?
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She has an independent personality
We often say: Girls must have an independent personality and take control of their own lives. What does the sentence
mean?
What kind of girl can be called an independent personality?
The simplest explanation is:
Even if she loves a boy deeply, she will not become a love brain, will not give up her job, will not lose her circle of friends, and will not get tired of being around a boy all the time.
is a girl with independent personality. She has her own career, her own interests and hobbies, and her own firm ideals and pursuits.
In other words: She will not put all her focus and time on love.
After all, besides love, there are many worthwhile things to do in life.
Love is the icing on the cake for life; with love, your life will be better; but without love, you will not feel life is boring.
Girls with independent personalities often have this attitude in love:
When we are together, she is very gentle and kind, and can give boys a lot of emotional comfort and value;
When we are not together, she becomes very She is independent and will not cling to boys. Both of them have their own things to be busy with.
She can separate love and life, and will never pin her hopes and life on a man, even if she loves this boy very much.
Why are many girls nowadays not willing to be “full-time wives”?
It’s because she wants to seize her own life instead of relying on her partner.
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She has stable emotions
A girl with stable emotions is also very attractive.
Because a person can control his own life, then he is really not simple.
Primary emotional stability:
Do not lose your temper at will, and do not vent your negative emotions on the other person.
For example:
A girl will separate work and love. If she is wronged at work, she will not vent all her temper on her boyfriend, but will seek help from her boyfriend.
Intermediate emotional stability:
will not make trouble unreasonably, and is willing to sit down and communicate with boys peacefully.
Advanced emotional stability:
is willing to express her thoughts promptly and reasonably. Whether it is grievance, anger, dissatisfaction or doubt about the relationship between two people, she is willing to communicate with her boyfriend.
Actually, boys don’t like girls who are “too domineering”.
There is such a consulting case:
A boy shared with me his experience of falling in love with his girlfriend, which sounded suffocating.
At 2 o'clock in the morning, his girlfriend said she was hungry and asked him to go out to buy food. At that time, the boy came home from overtime work and had just slept for less than 3 hours.
In order to buy what he wanted to eat for his girlfriend, he drove outside for more than an hour and it was already 4 o'clock when he got home.
He wanted to go to sleep for a while and get up early to go to work the next day, but his girlfriend pestered him to eat supper together.
He disagreed, and his girlfriend said: "You don't love me anymore." There are many similar vexatious behaviors like
.
Moreover, girls will always use words like "You don't love me anymore, let's break up" to threaten boys into submission.
In the end, the boy couldn't bear this kind of relationship and couldn't tolerate being with a person who didn't grow up, so he decisively broke up.
People have certain limits on their ability to accept negative emotions.
When this limit is exceeded, people can no longer accept the negative emotions from their partners.
At this time, conflicts are inevitable.
Therefore, in intimate relationships, emotional value is really important.
What is high emotional value?
Pleasure, sense of achievement, joy, these are all high emotional values.
But if in a relationship, all you feel is low emotions and low value, the relationship will only go in a worse direction.
Today’s topic:
What kind of girls do you think are more attractive?
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