text丨Tao Xiaojing
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-01-
Many men are powerless when it comes to getting a woman, especially a middle-aged woman.
A middle-aged woman seems to be in a state of indifference. No matter how you treat her, she will still remain in a calm state, as if she is no longer interested in feelings.
The man tried very hard, but failed to make the middle-aged woman make waves, so he backed down.
I can understand men’s frustration, but I want to ask men, is there happiness in this world that can come without hard work?
Never give up easily in anything you do. If you can't even persist at the very least, don't expect a woman to be moved by you or be attracted to you.
It is true that middle-aged women are not that easy to get, but it does not mean that she has no desire for love.
A middle-aged woman longs to be loved. Because she has seen and experienced too many joys and sorrows, she has become very realistic.
It’s not like she hasn’t experienced the kindness of men. If you just want to get her by being nice to her, you won’t gain much.
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For love, middle-aged women are eager, but she is even more eager to get the satisfaction she wants through love.
If you really want to get a middle-aged woman, then you must learn to start with her needs and use satisfaction in exchange for her love.
I hope you can understand that it is useless to treat a middle-aged woman, but giving her these things can get twice the result with half the effort.
Give her money
Women in this world are very realistic, especially those middle-aged women who have lived half their lives.
After half a lifetime, women have discovered that although money is vulgar, it is the guarantee of life. Whether it is life or relationships, money is inseparable.
Affected by this kind of thinking, middle-aged women pay more and more attention to money. If you want to get her, giving her to him is one of the best ways.
It is not that a middle-aged woman has not experienced the kindness of a man, but this kind of kindness cannot make a qualitative change in her life, so she does not need it.
What middle-aged women really need is financial protection. As long as the man can give her enough money, she will be willing to be with the man even if she doesn't love him that much.
Therefore, men must know that it is useless to treat a middle-aged woman to her. Only by giving her money can you get twice the result with half the effort.
has accompanied her
for half her life, but the middle-aged woman still lives alone, which shows how lonely she is inside.
No one wants to live alone, and a middle-aged woman cannot bear this kind of isolation and loneliness, so what she really wants is a man's company.
No matter how good a man is to her, as long as he cannot give her the company she wants, she will not open her heart to him.
Since a middle-aged woman is so eager for companionship, you must learn to start with her needs and satisfy her as much as possible.
Maybe you are very busy at work, but no matter how busy you are, you still have to take some time to be with her.
Use your company to dispel her inner worries. She will not only open her heart to you, but also become dependent on you.
Dependence will make the relationship stronger. Use companionship to stimulate a woman's sense of dependence, and it will be easier for you to get her and get her.
Take care of her
The biggest difference between middle-aged women and young women is that middle-aged women have experienced a lot of things, so they are stronger than young women.
But this kind of power is just an appearance. Deep in the heart of a middle-aged woman, she still longs for a man's care and love.
Just like every man has a little child living in his heart, a middle-aged woman also has a fragile little girl living in her heart.
When no one is taking care of her, she has to make herself strong. Once someone takes care of her, she will return to her true nature and show her fragility and helplessness.
When a man treats her well, she is actually very happy in her heart, but what she wants is not only the kindness of the man, but also the meticulous care of the man.
If a man wants to successfully get a middle-aged woman, then you should take good care of her so that she can nestle in your arms with confidence and feel your warmth.
As long as you can take care of a woman all the time, the woman will gradually treat you as everything to her, and then stay with you wholeheartedly.
-03-
Middle-aged women are different from young women. Young women long for passion and romance, while middle-aged women long for stability and warmth.
Although they all want to be good to men, they have higher pursuits than good.
The pursuit of middle-aged women has never been about men's kindness, but about men's real efforts.
For middle-aged women who have some relationship experience and a lot of experience, it is hard to believe how good a man is. If a man cannot give her what she wants, no matter how good he is to her, it will be in vain.
Since the purpose of a middle-aged woman is so clear, men should start from this and satisfy her as much as possible.
hopes that men can understand that if they want to get a middle-aged woman, satisfying her needs is one of the best ways.
You don’t have to be so nice to her, but you have to know how to use money, companionship and care to warm her heart.
