Why do more and more Chinese girls prefer to marry foreign men?
Before that let me first talk about the view of love of our parents' era. Do you know what the older generation’s view of love is like?
My parents are almost 60 years old now. I once asked my parents, what was love like in their time?
My parents told me: In their time, it was still very feudal. They basically talked about matchmaking and marriage. Before getting married, you had to obey your parents in everything.
Some of them had never even seen each other before getting married. Girls at that time were also very pure, and they did not see young boys and girls everywhere living and drinking like they do now.
My parents told me that it would be very shameful for a woman to go back to her parents' home alone after marriage, so the older generation rarely gets divorced despite the many conflicts they have after marriage.
So after my parents got married in that era, they still attached great importance to marriage. I believe that the parents of the older generation had quarrels and fights, but they never left.
The reason why I talked about the views on marriage and love of my parents' era above is that marriage is now free, and girls are becoming more and more rebellious, and it is impossible for parents to control their children who are in love.
As society becomes more and more open, foreigners are pouring into China in large numbers, and girls’ values are also changing, maybe in search of freshness, maybe for other reasons, which has led to more and more Chinese girls getting married. foreign men.
I seem to feel sad when discussing this topic, but there is nothing we can do.
Because there is no regulation that prohibits them from marrying foreign men.
Our country today is in an era when there are more men than women, especially the generation born in the 1990s. The ratio of men to women after the 90s is seriously imbalanced. On average, one in 10 men cannot marry a wife.
Isn’t it very chilling when you see girls from our country marrying foreign men? Now in some developed cities, you can see foreigners shopping with their Chinese wives everywhere, and some even bring their children.
Let me tell you a real thing today:
I have been working in Yiwu for nearly 10 years. As a city that relies on small commodities, it can be said to have attracted global attention.
Foreign trade has developed faster and faster in recent years. A large number of foreigners have entered China in search of business partners, and they also have a lot of money.
The competition in the industry is so fierce now, and as Chinese who are not just trying to make money, but doing everything they can, some girls seem to have found a way to make a fortune. They are also looking for opportunities to get close to these foreign men to get large orders. Over time, due to long-term contact, different emotions developed.
Because I usually like to go out for a walk after get off work. There are really many foreigners in Yiwu Jiangbin Park, and many of them take their Chinese girlfriends or wives out for a walk.
I have also been on a shuttle bus, and sometimes I often pick up foreigners. I found that foreigners have a common habit of spraying very strong perfume, maybe to cover up their own odor.
Sometimes I can’t figure out why some Chinese girls like them. Maybe it’s to enjoy the different feeling, or maybe it’s for money and a better life.
Nowadays, there is a phenomenon in our country, that is, more and more young people are mixing some English words in their speech, which has broken down the Chinese character culture in our country's history.
It can be said that Chinese is the most beautiful language in the world, but we are destroying it all the time and even include some foreign words in it.
Foreigners generally look down on Chinese people. Why do more and more girls in our country prefer to marry foreign men?
All this is caused by vanity and greed, in order to be different from others, in order to pursue the so-called freshness.
Some people think they have a foreign boyfriend, so they show off on various occasions. Today is a society that pays attention to traffic. Through their own specialization, they can get more attention and attract people's attention.
Sometimes I wonder, when a Chinese girl marries a foreign man and gives birth to a black child , do you dare to take her back to your hometown? How will your family look at you, and what will be the dignity of your parents?
Chinese girls prefer to marry foreigners. Another important reason is that foreigners are more romantic and humorous about love, which makes girls feel a different sense of freshness.
Girls also have a kind of admiration for foreign men, because foreigners are taller and more powerful, and their facial features are particularly delicate. They will feel particularly proud when they are with them, which completely satisfies the vanity of these girls.
The last thing I want to say is:
Girls should have a correct view of love, have a good attitude, and don't be blinded by their own vanity, and don't lose themselves for their own selfish interests.
Similarly, foreigners are not as good as you think. They are still very different from our country. Some of them are also playing with your girls' feelings. If you are deeply involved in it because of the so-called love, you may end up in it. In the end, you were so devastated that you couldn't even believe what you were seeing, let alone that the foreign boyfriend you trusted so much had abandoned you.
So, girls, there are all kinds of strange things in the world, and beautiful things are tempting us. We can't just act based on our own feelings.
More and more girls are marrying foreigners now. Do you think they are really marrying for love? Don't let your vanity get in your way, establish correct values, and pursue a better life for yourself.
