As the saying goes, "Wind wealth is not rich and poor, and the grass at night is not fat, tired and sick horses", don't do it if it's not your wealth!
text ‖Hengdong Shiqin
life is not only poetry and distance, but also cowardice and helplessness, such as work, entertainment, firewood, rice, oil, salt and so on. If there is a problem, it is inevitable to communicate. During the communication, we will find many interesting things. For example, when communicating with people, someone will say a common saying from time to time, which not only increases the interest of the speech, but also shortens the distance between the two parties.
For example, "Zengguang Xianwen" said it well. There is a saying that "a horse is not fat at night, and a person is not rich without windfall", which means that if a horse wants to be fat and strong, it must eat some in the middle of the night. Forage; and if the common people want to live a prosperous life, they need to make a fortune, otherwise they cannot achieve it with their usual income.
Indeed, the horse is working and running during the day, and the owner has only so much to eat. If you don't add a little meal at night, it is basically delusional to want to gain weight. Similarly, everyone can only fill one stomach every day according to their normal income. If you can't get ill-gotten, illicit or lucky money, don't even think about living a prosperous life.
This "windfall" is an act that everyone is ashamed of, so there is a sentence after "the horse is not fat at night, the grass is not fat, and people are not rich without windfall". , meaning: A sick horse will not get fat no matter how you feed it; a person who does not know how to manage money will not be rich even if he gets a windfall.
Yes, if you want to live a good life, you have to work hard, even if you get a "windfall", everyone will look down on it! I know a man named Brother Pig. There are three brothers and sisters in the family. He is the only boy. His parents dote on him very much. .
Because of the doting of his parents, Brother Pig has been hooked on gambling since he was a child. After getting married, I have economic power, and now I can play big. I have been lucky in gambling for two years. I won more than one million, and I bought a house and a car, and I have reached the pinnacle of my life!
The good days have not passed for a month. Brother Pig has absurdly bad gambling luck. He loses every day. Now, let's sell the car and sell the house! But if he lost too much, he would borrow his face when he saw an acquaintance, and everyone just avoided him from a distance.There is a saying in
: "Sometimes in life you must have it, and you should never force it in your life". A person who wants to change his fate with gambling is finally harmed by gambling! After the father found out about Brother Pig's situation, he was so angry that he vomited blood. How could he give birth to such a son! Sent my father to the hospital, and finally died in the hospital at the age of seventy!
The money won by gambling is too easy, no matter how much you win, you will not cherish it! Just like Brother Pig won so much money at the beginning, but in the end he still lost more and lost a happy family. His wife's repeated admonitions, Brother Pig still didn't listen, so he took his son and divorced him. Now The pig brother only went to the construction site to work!
Indeed, it is easy to change from thrift to luxury, and it is difficult to change from luxury to thrift. One person suddenly has a "windfall" (such as winning a 5 million jackpot and winning hundreds of thousands of dollars), how to spend it? Of course, I bought this and that, I got used to consumption, and then I had no source of income. I was sitting on the mountain, and I didn't want to do anything. I always thought that such good luck would come!
Look at the people who won the 5 million jackpot, did they become rich? Maybe it's because I'm ignorant and haven't seen a single case. So much wealth doesn't match their identities. They don't know what to do with so much wealth, and they don't have good skills, so what should they do? Only let the wealth lie in the bank to depreciate as little as possible.
It is a relatively safe way to leave huge fortunes lying in the bank.Unlike some demolition households, they were originally peasants with their duties, but suddenly they turned from suburbs into cities. With a large amount of demolition funds, there are still a lot left after the house is built. These huge wealth are at home. It will be hot-blooded and fascinated by ghosts!
I know such a person. He is 60 years old. His name is Shi Sheng. He rents motorcycles as his occupation. The demolition money was known by some professional gamblers at this time, and they came to gamble with him every day. In less than two years, more than two million yuan was gone!
I gave two examples related to gambling in the article today. They were both killed by gambling. Brother Pig had a good family and it was like this, and Shi Sheng was even worse. He lost all the money that could change the fate of the family. Now, I still owe a lot of foreign debts, and I have been charged for debts every day. Now I have to go to the construction site to hide the debts, hoping to work part-time to pay off the debts!
People often say that "virtue does not match", which means that a person who has no ability sits in that good position, just like a person with insufficient ability suddenly gets a windfall. Some even lost their homes.Just like Fan Jinzhong's move, his wish came true, but he hasn't adapted to it yet, he's crazy!
There will always be many accidents in life, especially the unexpected windfall. When the unexpected windfall comes, it will make you overwhelmed, excited, and even change your life, but your own ability can only make you Working hard in the current scope of work and failing to reach the position where the windfall is located, this is a bit embarrassing!
So the saying "Windfall is not rich and poor, and the grass at night is not fat, tired and sick horse", it is very reasonable! For the sudden windfall, it is better not to! How capable a person is, there will be a great reward. It is yours that others can't take away, and it is not yours that will be lost if you get it. It is better to do good deeds and get some blessings!
Written in South Hunan Thousand-year-old water town Dapu
2022.4.10.17:05
