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The movie version of " first incense " has already been scolded last time. This time we want to return to the story itself and talk about something different.
Many people like the original "First Burning Incense" because of Zhang Ailing In this story, too much insight into human nature has been incorporated.
Many people scold the movie because and Xu Anhua simply treated this story as "not to be loved".
For love, you will find that Ge Weilong is simply inexplicable, and she deserves to be in pain. Who made her fall in love so much? For a scumbag, she would jump into the fire pit. Who is to blame!
But if you have read the original work, you will have a little understanding and sympathy for Ge Weilong, and you will even feel that this is her best choice.
A simple girl with average family conditions, because my aunt suddenly entered the upper class society, greedy for the prosperity there, and never want to go back.
At his aunt's house, when Ge Weilong saw a cabinet of beautiful dresses and dresses for the first time, the whole person fell into disrepair. He tried one by one on his body and tried it for most of the night.
beautiful clothes,It is a temptation that no young girl can resist.
Then all kinds of cocktail parties, all kinds of luxury cars, all kinds of men who look polite, all kinds of high-level flirting. And, when traveling, there are servants who open the doors, and there are servants who open umbrellas.
What was her life like before? She lives in an old house, squeezes a bed with her sister, and can't even pay for the tuition.
At first, Ge Weilong was confident about the future. No matter how late he socialized, he would study hard and want to enter university. At that time, she thought that if she studied hard, her life would get better and better.
But later, people around her kept instilling another concept: Even if you go to university and find a job, it costs only 50 or 60 yuan a month, and you have to be angry with your boss.
And here, there are men who give her valuable bracelets at random, and eat a meal at random, which may be more than fifty or sixty dollars.
Ge Weilong began to waver slowly, studying hard, and graduating only to find a good job, and may work hard for a lifetime without touching the upper class side.
The future is so frustrating. What's the use of reading? Why don't you go back, just stay in the upper class society.
Just then, she met Qiao Qiqiao and went to bed somehow.
Actually from the moment of going to bed, Ge Weilong has decided to degenerate, otherwise, in the era when chastity is important, how can you just go to bed? The man is still a prodigal, and he has not given her a promise of marriage.
The greater possibility is that she wants to use this method to try whether she can stay in the upper class with her personal charm. She has a good impression of Qiao Qiqiao, and Qiao Qi is recognized as difficult. If you catch him, don't you prove that you can?
Ge Weilong in the movie is a lover, very silly and sweet. Ge Weilong in the original book is a very thoughtful person, which fits her style of work.
She will not just practice herself because of the so-called love. Every step of her is planned and calculated.
From her single-handedly looking for her aunt to pay her tuition, we can see that she is by no means a follower.
But she didn't expect that Qiao Qiqiao turned around and went to bed with the maid, which was tantamount to announcing the failure of Ge Weilong's plan.
Ge Weilong’s confidence in staying in the upper class was hit, so she wanted to return to Shanghai again, but at this time she was actually very entangled in her heart, not knowing whether to go back or stay, so she fell seriously ill.
after getting better,Still decided to stay, and married Qiao Qiqiao. This marriage is actually a guise, and only if it is there, you can just stay here and just be a social flower.
Otherwise, a good girl is a socialite, and it always doesn't sound good to talk about it. Putting on the cloak of love is much more noble.
After analyzing Ge Weilong's psychology, I have to sigh that Zhang Ailing is really too ruthless. I can't wait to take off all the people's panties without leaving any affection.
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also commented on the Internet, such as the real life, for example, many people in the real world say this, for example:
House prices are so high that young people can't afford it no matter how hard they work.
I worked hard to go to university, graduated with a salary of 3,000 to 5,000, and the money I earned in my entire life may not be as much as tuition.
In this way, Ge Weilong's fall is also reasonable. She has a not-so-good native family and no superhuman IQ. She worked hard to go to university, and she only got 50 or 60 yuan salary after graduation to find a job. In that normal world, there is no hope at all.
now has a chance to stay in the upper class,There are beautiful clothes to wear every day, a variety of delicacies, and servants who are waiting for men to pursue. What is to blame for her staying here?
Is she not qualified to live a good life because she is poor?
This is also the reason why Ge Weilong is so moving. Although she is degenerate, the psychological process along this road has resonated with many people.
Most people stand in her position and may make similar choices.
But is this really the best choice?
I can only say that at the time, this was indeed a better choice for Ge Weilong. Otherwise, graduate with a salary of 50 or 60 yuan, find an ordinary man to marry, and be tortured like an old lady at the age of 30?
Compared to the latter, the former is certainly more attractive.
When my aunt chose to be someone else’s concubine, she had the same mentality. Being a rich man's concubine is always more comfortable than being a normal man's wife.
is exactly the same as many girls choose to do small three.
But there is one biggest problem here, All those who think this way assume that they will not have a better future, and all they think about is a bad future.
For example, Ge Weilong feels that even if he graduates from university, he can only get fifty or sixty dollars a month, and he has to be angry with his boss.
All her imagination of the future is based on the status quo of most people, and this status quo is not necessarily accurate.
But this situation scared her and made her feel that this kind of life is so hopeless and boring, so she should not live like this.
happened to have other options in front of them, although the same dark and turbulent, but at least it would look better, so he desperately grasped.
Have you noticed? This is negative mentality .
Zhang Ailing herself is a pessimist, so the characters in her works are also the same. She is always not confident about the future and always sees the negative side of things.
This is why Ge Weilong chooses to marry a scumbag as a socialite. She has no confidence in the future, thinking that in this life, she will never encounter a better choice than a socialite.
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This is also a common disease of many young peopleNot only is he pessimistic about the future, but because of his lack of knowledge, he thinks that life is just a few templates.
For example, at the age of 20, if someone gives you an annual salary of 100,000, let you stop going to school and follow him. You might think, 100,000 is a lot, and I may not earn so much after I go to school. Then I will not go to school and follow him.
However, if you are 30 years old and 40 years old, and the annual salary is more than 100,000, then you see this choice, do you still think it is good? Do you still think it is worth giving up your studies for it?
You think it is good when you are 20, but because you don't know how much you are worth. When you are 30 and 40, you no longer think it is good, but because you know that you are more expensive.
Ge Weilong made that choice because at her age, she didn’t know what the future would be like, so she grabbed her first.
This is why many people think she is depraved instead of thinking that she is the best choice. Because many people have already understood that this choice is not worth it.
At the moment, it is indeed good, but the future risk is too great. Choosing to work safely and securely, although it does not look great right now, the risk is small and there are more possibilities in the future.
is like,When we were young, we thought we could not afford a house for our entire life. After working hard for a few years, we found that we were more valuable than a house.
Of course, not most people are like this. No one dares to ensure that the future will be good. That's why so many people understand Ge Weilong's choice, and so many people have made the same choice as Ge Weilong.
People are too negative and they are really easy to be pinched.
Some people know that they love scumbags, but they dare not break up because they worry that they won’t find a better one. The result is to be eaten to death by the incumbent.
Some people know that something is unethical, but still do it because they are worried that they will not make money if they don't do it. The result is that the credibility is overdrawn, and there is really no money.
Yes, there are many unsatisfactory things in this world, and hard work will not necessarily lead to results, but if you have no confidence in the future at the beginning, you will live very tangled.
will meet a scumbag, will be bought by others for a little benefit, and finally become a person who doesn't even like him.
Although Zhang Ailing is pessimistic, she is actually self-confident, so she did not choose to marry early, but to fight in her good years.
If she feels that the future is hopeless, she might as well marry a good man while she is young. Perhaps, there will be no Zhang Ailing in this world, but an extra Ge Weilong.
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