01.
It is said that the ending is not suitable for couples.
At the table, she sat on the opposite side of the table, boasting of my advantages one after another, saying it was praise, but the seriousness and seriousness in the words gave me a bad feeling.
Sure enough, in the end, she still said the words that couples often say when they break up:
"Actually you are fine, but we are not suitable."
What makes people sad is that this kind of we are not suitable will only make people more unacceptable than straightforward reasons for breaking up, because until the end I don't understand what is inappropriate.
But she did not intend to give me a chance to explain, she planned to leave after she finished speaking, leaving me alone and shouting in place:
Can I change it if it's not good?
I will not play games anymore,
cooking is not good, I can learn.
In fact, I know that these words may not work, but I want to get better in "her understanding".
However, after a period of entanglement and recovery, and seeing that the attitude of the other party has not changed, in the end, he chose to compromise.
Forget it, just don’t like it!
02.
broke reason
so far-fetched, bringing a period of psychological Long-term self-doubt.
doubt one's own ability, doubt one's own character.
Behind the serious psychological burden, what I gained was the ending of being fired by the company for unintentional work.
Fortunately, after a period of time, I abandon this self-denial mentality,Began to regain self-confidence.
It’s not that I’m bad, it’s because the other party doesn’t cherish it. The mentality of throwing the pot can really alleviate a lot of guilt.
With this mentality, after losing my job, I went to interviews between companies again, although there will still be interviewers who will say to me:
Your resume is very Good, but our position is not suitable.
Although it is still a tactful rejection, it does not sound too easy to influence oneself.
But after a few days of running around, I found that my heel was torn by the shoe because of the shoe.
The friend met and said: Change a pair, these shoes are not suitable for you.
I said: "Just stick a band-aid, just run in with my foot."
My friend didn't say much, just said:
Some things are not just running in.
03.
initially last remark I do not mean friend,Just because I like these shoes very much, I want to wear them because it hurts.
When these shoes were still rubbing my feet after wearing them for a while, I started to feel that they seemed to make me uncomfortable!
Band-aid has temporarily separated me and it, but once we touch each other, we still feel uncomfortable.
And when a friend brought me a pair of new shoes, this uncomfortable feeling made me stronger.
My friend came to me today besides delivering shoes and helping me move. Because I changed jobs, I moved to a house closer to the company.
Looking at this house that has been rented for two years, I feel very sad, because I like this house very much. I have planted the balcony with green plants, the room has been carefully arranged, and a lot of furniture has also been renewed. It was indescribable for a while.
But it is too far away from where I work. Although I like it very much, I have to admit that it is no longer suitable for me, just like those "shoes for grinding feet".
A friend asked: How do the new shoes look and do they fit?
"It's pretty comfortable, how do you know my size"?
friends said:
shoes were bought by your ex-girlfriend when I told you about you.What she said before also recognized the reality, and I hope you can understand.
I am stunned...
I understand at this moment. She said that I was really good, and it was not appropriate.
What I lack is the rationality to recognize reality after being politely rejected.
Someone who runs in love will get better, while others will get worse and worse.
Since it is uncomfortable, so far is the best ending, because getting along will only be very unhappy.
The inappropriate sentence is not only to prevent the two sides from receiving secondary damage, but also to make the end of both sides not too embarrassing.
04.
move those home after a pair of "foot wear shoes," I did not Take it, but leave it there.
has run in and found that it is still inappropriate, so there is no need to embarrass each other.
Compared to the forced run-in under the liking, I look forward to the liking after the right fit!
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