Someone has graduated for 7 years, from an insignificant clerk, to a department manager, to being scrambled by major companies, and now leads a team to start his own business, igniting the dreams of a group of people with the enthusiasm of one person.
Someone has been married for 7 years, from being like a glue to me, to playing small, intermittently cold and violent, and then restarting because of children. Now we respect and love each other, the family is getting warmer and the relationship between husband and wife More and more harmonious.
Someone has also raised a baby for 7 years. From rushing around, all the family members are flying around the children, and now they are calm and calm, like a commander, letting each family perform their own duties and work together. Work together to create a family atmosphere of unity and friendship.
Their 7 years, from being alone to learning to cooperate, from selfishness, only knowing to pay attention to themselves, to learning to empathize, open themselves, and pay attention to others.
From being single to getting married, from adulthood to maturity, from renting a house to buying a house, from squeezing a bus to driving a car, I have achieved one small goal after another, getting closer and closer to my dream, full of longing and new dreams. The next 7 years are coming.
And some people?
I graduated for 7 years and repeated 7 years of work in a post. I am busy steadily, like a working machine, without any vitality or passion.
I have been in love, keep breaking up, breaking up and reuniting, always blame myself for bad luck, expecting Prince Charming, the lover of dreams, will suddenly appear, but reluctantly find that I have been in one scumbag after another , Shuttle and wandering among the scum girls.
finally met someone who was beloved, and hurriedly walked into the marriage only to realize that the dream and reality were too far apart, and soon lost the good feeling for each other.The birth of the child is of no avail, only to part ways. continue searching.
For 7 years of this kind of people, it seems that they have been changing step by step every year, but in fact, the thinking is still at the level of 7 years ago, or even earlier, it belongs to the typical brain growth rate and can’t keep up. The rhythm of physical development only increases age without increasing experience.
Without exception, these people rarely feel the taste of happiness, and may not be able to tell what real happiness is. Confusion, anxiety, and pain will go with them. Apart from complaining, it seems that they can do nothing about everything. .
At work, most of the time I am confused about my life. In exchange, I just changed the company and title. The identity, position and income are still the same. I can't find the meaning of the job, but In order to support the family, I had to go to work.
Seeing that people of the same age are living better than themselves, they will only talk cold words, laugh at themselves, admit that they are ordinary by nature, and occasionally feel resentful. Acting as a keyboard man, direct all negative emotions to the innocent People swept wildly, and then continued to do what they should do, business as usual.
Never think about what the future will be like, just count the day, and hear others say that while young, we should plan for the future, set goals, draw dreams, and achieve financial freedom. I always feel as unrealistic as chicken soup. I'm too far away, I don't even dare to think about it, maybe I'm too lazy to think about it.
can only spin in place like a top every day. It seems to have passed 7 years like others, but in fact the same thing has been repeated for 7 years. In this cycle, for another seven years, there will be no difference to them.
This is probably the meaning of Li Xiaolai 's definition of "Seven years is a lifetime".
is also 7 years. Someone constantly upgrades their brains. After 7 years, they can complete a new transformation and realize a rebirth. Then continue the cycle of 7 years, from rebirth to rebirth. Life continues to rise, becoming more and more exciting, forming the inertia of the upward cycle, and you can live out the wonderful life of others for several lifetimes.
7 years, it looks very long, but it often flashes by. It is fair to everyone, and its length is completely determined by ourselves.
In today’s information age, sometimes what we can do in a day is worth the work of our grandparents for a year or years. Using a stubborn cat, the growth of Uncle Cat’s "One Year Is 10 Years" In terms of speed, 7 years is a lifetime, which is not an exaggeration at all.
How to make yourself rebirth and live out the ultimate and splendid life in the 7 years that you can see is a problem that every young person who pursues progress needs to seriously consider.
Therefore, in "Seven Years Is a Life", Mr. Li Xiaolai told us that the method of rebirth is very simple, that is, learning:
Learn new skills and enter new fields, so the cycle repeats every time Learning a new thing often means returning to the elementary level, just like a new student, always accompanied by fear and anxiety caused by uncertainty, but it is also an exciting adventure!
It is not enough to have an adventurous spirit. Teacher Xiaolai also reminds us:
The standard for measuring the effect of learning has always been clear. There is no change in life, but you have not learned or learned well.
Therefore, the change after learning is the last word. In this way, in any new thing, I am willing to spend 7 years on a diligence,It's almost a fact that everyone recognizes.
But the key question is, how many people can last for 7 years?
Even the simplest thing about reading is very few people who can start from 7 days to 1 month, 3 months, 1 year without interruption.
Therefore, if you use seven years to measure a person's lifetime achievements, I have absolutely reason to believe:
On the way of learning and growing, the leftover must be the king. Are you willing to become the "leftover" on the way to study?
I solemnly promise: I am very willing.
I also look forward to you who dare to make a promise to yourself. From now on, I will spend a 7-year period on at least one thing, such as reading a book, and take the initiative to "left over".
For your own life, give you a chance to be born again, and witness the transformation of yourself. I believe that after 7 years, you will be grateful for the decision you made today!
And me, I also have a reading team and platform, and I am willing to accompany you on this journey.
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