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My husband beat me and threw a stool on me. His wife, Liu Jie, was crying and she seemed to have never been happy when she saw that Liu Jie looked weak and weak.

Why?

It was because his wife, Ms. Liu, slapped her husband, Mr. Zhou.

Is it really that simple?

Husband Mr. Zhou said: I came home from work and saw my wife Ms. Liu’s face being so ugly, I asked her, have you eaten yet? His wife, Ms. Liu, remained silent, and asked whether she remained silent.

Wife Ms. Liu said: My son is in the porcelain business, and my daughter-in-law has to work at night. When my son takes over the young grandson, I feel sorry for my son and daughter-in-law, so I told my son to let the young grandson live with our grandparents. Don't pick it up, who knows that my son doesn't understand what I mean, so he asked me, what do you mean? Then my son also picked up my grandson, and I sulked by myself. It just so happened that my husband, Mr. Zhou, came back, so I ignored him.

Who knows that my husband, Mr. Zhou’s arrogant temper has come up, he has been scolding me in the yard, scolding me to die sooner, and get out of bed early. It’s too ugly to scold me, so I’ll go out and talk. , You are scolding me, I will hit you. Then I slapped my husband Mr. Zhou on the shoulder.

Who knows that this slap provokes the temper of her husband, Mr. Zhou, the Red Bull.

Husband Mr. Zhou knocked his wife Ms. Liu down with one arm, picked up the plastic stool in the yard, and hit his wife Ms. Liu. When the plastic stool fell apart, the husband, Mr. Zhou, breathed a sigh of relief. His wife, Ms. Liu, had to get up on the ground. Unexpectedly, the angry husband, Mr. Zhou, did not calm down. A big slap came over, and the face of his wife, Ms. Liu, was hot and painful.

The couple have been married for more than 30 years and are now grandparents. The couple have a pair of sons, and both sons have bought houses in the city. Ms. Liu, who is already a mother-in-law, also has a daughter-in-law The relationship is harmonious.

Ordinarily, this husband, Mr. Zhou and his wife, Ms. Liu, are children and grandchildren around their knees.With laughter, when the three generations are in the same house, how can they make a fuss?

Today's Jiangxi Satellite TV " gold mediation " column group, husband Mr. Zhou and wife Ms. Liu are sitting on the mediation table.

The wife, Ms. Liu, is dignified and well-dressed, with a pain on her face. Her husband, Mr. Zhou, wears a hat, and the brim of the hat is very low. It is estimated that the husband, Mr. Zhou, also knows that beating his wife Ms. Liu is wrong, sorry. Show your face to the observer!

Although his wife, Ms. Liu, was crying, she expressed her appeal very clearly.

My wife, Ms. Liu, said: I want a divorce, but even if it is a divorce, I have to tell my suffering here.

Husband Mr. Zhou said: I am not divorced. I still want to live a good life with my wife, Ms. Liu. In the future, I have to correct my problems. My wife, Ms. Liu, should also point out my problems. Let me guess.

Wife Ms. Liu's appeal is for divorce. We don't feel surprised, but our husband Mr. Zhou's appeal is to live a good life with his wife, Ms. Liu. We are not surprised.

Because, before the mediation, the observer teachers conducted a small survey for the husband and wife, Mr. Zhou, and his wife, Ms. Liu.

The observers and teachers put ten sticks in front of the husband and wife. One stick is 1 point, and ten is 10 points. If 10 points are a perfect score, each will give each other a score. Woolen cloth?

Husband Mr. Zhou picked up nine of them without hesitation, and scored 90 points for his wife, Ms. Liu. It shows that his wife, Ms. Liu, has paid a lot for the family, but has a big temper.

His wife, Ms. Liu, was still crying and she didn't give a point to her husband, Mr. Zhou.

Wife Ms. Liu said: What the husband Mr. Zhou did is worth nothing.

Where did Mr. Zhou fail to make his wife so angry and chilling?

The wife Ms. Liu sitting on the mediation table today is like an erupting volcano.I complained to my husband, Mr. Zhou.

Both of their sons have settled in Jingdezhen City. The husband, Mr. Zhou and his wife, Ms. Liu, also came to the city from their hometown. His wife, Ms. Liu, looked after their sons, and her husband, Mr. Zhou, found a temporary job. She went out to work if she had a job. Ms. Liu was afraid that she would have conflicts with her daughter-in-law for a long time, so she rented a house outside where her husband and wife lived.

This time, because the youngest daughter-in-law gave birth to a baby, his wife, Ms. Liu, moved to the house of her youngest son. Her husband, Mr. Zhou, went back to eat and went back to the rental room to sleep after eating.

The baby born to a daughter-in-law, she vomits milk as soon as she is full of milk on the bed. Therefore, as a grandmother, Ms. Liu hugged the baby for three nights. Now, Ms. Liu was dizzy and lacking energy. Ms. Liu wanted her husband, Mr. Zhou, to take care of the baby, so she could have a rest.

The wife, Ms. Liu, said: Tonight, you will stay at your son's house! Help me hug my little granddaughter, I want to sleep.

Husband Zhou said nonchalantly: I have work tomorrow.

Wife Ms. Liu thought, if husband Mr. Zhou has work to do, let him go to the rental room to sleep! This saves her husband, Mr. Zhou, from being in a bad spirit the next day.

My husband, Mr. Zhou, went downstairs after dinner and did not go home. Instead, he turned to the mahjong hall downstairs and played cards. He played until 10 pm before going back to sleep.

However, the next day, the husband, Mr. Zhou, still went to play cards after eating, and did not ask his wife, Ms. Liu, whether it was tired to take care of his daughter-in-law and granddaughter?

On the third day, the husband, Mr. Zhou, still went downstairs to play cards. After 10 o’clock, there were fewer pedestrians on the road, and the voice downstairs gradually became clear. The younger son heard his father, Mr. Zhou, not only playing cards. It seems that someone is arguing, listen carefully, and there is a possibility of a fight. The youngest son told his mother.

The youngest son said: Mom, why dad go home to sleep! Dad is obviously playing cards, and playing cards even gives people quarrels and fights. You can hear the sound shook up to ten buildings.

The wife, Ms. Liu, listened to her, that her husband, Mr. Zhou, was arguing. This made his wife, Ms. Liu, angrily. She handed her granddaughter to her son, and went downstairs with a brainstorm.

Wife Ms. Liu saw her husband Mr. Zhou’s tram at the entrance of the Mahjong Hall. It was a kick and the electric scooter fell over.

The sound of the tram crashing to the ground shocked the husband, Mr. Zhou, who was arguing attentively. His wife, Ms. Liu, did not consider the feelings of her husband, Mr. Zhou. She picked up a beer bottle and smashed it at her husband, Mr. Zhou. The beer The bottle smashed to the ground, just like the heart of his wife, Ms. Liu, unable to pick up the disappointment of her husband, Mr. Zhou.

However, today my wife, Ms. Liu, said: I just went to the wall and didn’t hit my husband, Mr. Zhou.

Husband, Mr. Zhou, said: I'll run quickly! I can still let her hit me, isn't that a vain injury!

Husband Mr. Zhou also explained: My electric car is at the entrance of the Mahjong Hall downstairs at my son's house.

The husband, Mr. Zhou, who loves to play cards, couldn’t help but walked into the mahjong hall. He was indifferent to family affairs. This also annoyed his wife, Ms. Liu, who chased her husband, Mr. Zhou, and played and made trouble. Quirky, thinking about this day is disheartening.

But his wife, Ms. Liu, said: This is not the thing that entangles her the most. It's all housework, noisy and noisy, forget it once it has passed, and the life will be passed. But something more serious happened.

Hey! At this time, her husband, Mr. Zhou, has bowed his head. What is it that makes her husband, Mr. Zhou, embarrassed?

Wife Ms. Liu said: Because her hometown needed to repair the farmyard, she took 20,000 yuan to go home. In her old home, his wife Ms. Liu used cement, laid bricks, and leveled the ground. Anyway, it was supposed to be a man’s job. , They let her do it at home, and just do it. Anyway, their husband, Mr. Zhou, is also used to his wife, Ms. Liu, taking care of everything at home.

My wife, Ms. Liu, worked at home for a few days, but she cleaned up the house quite neatly. The contented wife, Ms. Liu, happily returned to the rental house in Jingdezhen. She thought, she should take a break and relax. Feeling up.

When I arrived at the house where I lived, I was stupefied by the hair of an old lady.

What the hell is it?

The old lady said, his aunt! You are back, your man! I put the autumn clothes on an electric heater to dry, but I went to play cards. When the clothes were baked, he didn't come back. It was because my son found out that there was smoke in your house and kicked the door open and cut off the electric heater. Remove the toasted clothes, your husband is still playing cards outside!

The frustrated wife, Ms. Liu, asks her husband, Mr. Zhou, to understand, and ask her husband, Mr. Zhou, if he wants this home?

Who knows that her husband, Mr. Zhou, complained to her and said: Don’t you also bake clothes like this? Why do you blame me, I'm learning from you!

His wife, Ms. Liu, said angrily: I am watching it in front of you! You, where have you been?

The wife, Ms. Liu, doesn’t understand why her husband, Mr. Zhou, is so sophistry, and why he doesn’t think about the family? Why do you just ignore the matter? Why do you always complain about his wife, Ms. Liu?

A series of rhetorical questions made my wife, Ms. Liu, feel terrified. If this burns the house, how can I accompany others?

Let's listen to my wife Ms. Liu talking about this, think about it! No wonder the wife did not give her husband a point?

However, his wife, Ms. Liu, said that this is not the saddest thing for her. Due to long hours of heavy physical work, lumbar disc herniation is undergoing surgery, so she asked her husband to accompany her to the surgery. , And husband Mr. Zhou said, I have something! Can't accompany you to the hospital.

just today,Mr. Zhou, the husband on the mediation table, still said: I just thought it was a minor operation and there was no danger, so you didn't accompany her to the hospital for the operation.

My wife, Ms. Liu, said: I was scared. An elder sister from the neighbor said that she was with me. At that time, the doctor gave me treatment with a long needle and scared the patients near the bed. At this time, how I want my husband, Mr. Zhou, to take care of me by my side.

Husband Mr. Zhou said: After you were hospitalized for water delivery, I was with my wife, Ms. Liu.

His wife, Ms. Liu wiped her tears and said: He is going to accompany me. The nurse wants to pull out the needle and asked him to press the needle eye for me. Who knows he didn’t know. When his wife Liu found out, the blood had already put the quilt on. It's all dyed red.

Hey! Annoying! This husband, Mr. Zhou, is a talented person, and he just doesn't look good at it!

However, let the wife Ms. Liu give 0 points to her husband, Mr. Zhou, there is one more thing, and this incident also made his wife Ms. Liu determined to divorce her husband, Mr. Zhou, that is the husband and wife fight incident at the beginning of the article.

The wife, Ms. Liu, was sulking because her son did not understand her painstaking efforts. The husband, Mr. Zhou, went home and asked his wife, Ms. Liu, who did not respond. This made her husband Mr. Zhou scold his wife Ms. Liu to die sooner and to leave. Get out early.

The wife, Ms. Liu, was just about to explain that she was beaten up by her husband, Mr. Zhou.

My husband, Mr. Zhou, said: I was fine when I left at noon, and ignored me at night.

When wife Ms. Liu’s sister found out that her sister’s arms were all Wuqing, she asked her husband, Mr. Zhou. He also said that she just hit her. The elder sister refused to forgive and called the husband and wife’s son to ask the son to solve it, but the son’s solution didn’t work either.

The son said: Let my three uncles come and beat him back.

Maybe the son is angry. After all, Mr. Zhou and Ms. Liu are his parents, and he doesn't know what to do.

But the husband Mr. Zhou is here,It seems that he didn't take the matter too seriously. Once he didn't apologize to his wife Ms. Liu, and secondly, he didn't know how to help his wife Ms. Liu with the housework, so he wanted to turn the story over.

Speaking of this, his wife, Ms. Liu, was crying on the court, and her husband, Mr. Zhou, may have felt that he hurt his wife Ms. Liu's heart so much at this moment.

Husband Mr. Zhou came to his wife Ms. Liu's side, comforting his wife Ms. Liu, who knows that Ms. Liu is heartbroken and pushes her husband Mr. Zhou aside.

The wife, Ms. Liu, is determined to divorce her husband, Mr. Zhou.

And Mr. Zhou's various behaviors made our observer team filled with righteous indignation. The observer Liao Xiyu picked up the microphone angrily.

Observer Liao Xiyu said: Mr. Zhou, I am really filled with righteous indignation. No matter how irritated you are, don’t act so cruelly. Domestic violence is a very serious behavior in marriage. Civil liability is a minor one, serious. To bear criminal responsibility, beating is not a mistake, it is a crime. You are irresponsible, paranoid, and stubborn. In fact, many of the contradictions in your family come from playing cards. It looks like you have well-developed limbs, but your mind is very simple. The scenery in the past 30 years, when you lift When you started, you never thought that this woman had paid so much for my family, and I couldn't bear to fight it down even if it was a light sweep.

So, I’m here to explain to my wife, Ms. Liu, that she must report to the police decisively when she encounters domestic violence. Your attitude of swallowing your anger is the motivation to give this unresponsible man the next violence.

Observer Liu Huaibo said: The woman, Ms. Liu, in a marriage, you ask yourself too much. In fact, there is a difference between men and women in the family, and there is a division of labor between men and women. Cement is also a brick wall. In fact, these are all tasks that should be done by men. They should be done by the husband, Mr. Zhou, even if his husband, Mr. Zhou, is a person with a weak sense of responsibility, for more than 30 years. Is there no communication between the two and the division of labor between husband and wife? Why has it been so many years between the two,Is there no tacit understanding? Is it also related to the fact that his wife, Ms. Liu, did not allow her husband, Mr. Zhou, to reach a consensus with her?

For your husband, Mr. Zhou, the observer Wu Yun is not polite.

Observer Wu Yun said that your husband, Mr. Zhou, is very carefree. In fact, you are just lazy, and you are doing a man’s work in your house, your wife. Being forced to become a man, and yourself! There is no value in this family. It’s not good if you beat your wife cruelly, because there is no shame in playing cards and quarrels. If you don’t help your wife take care of family affairs, you don’t assume family responsibilities and cause a fire in your home. Examine yourself, you can't see your mistakes.

A husband does not lead a family toward the light, but brings darkness to a family. Letting his wife, Ms. Liu, be with you every day is like a year. Now you let your wife, Ms. Liu, go in darkness. How could she want to run towards the future with you? Today, my wife, Ms. Liu, doesn’t want to save face. She wants to divorce you. I don’t think a simple apology can save my wife Ms. Liu’s heart. I advise her husband, Mr. Zhou, to learn how to get along with husband and wife. Marital life is not a simple experience. Give birth to a baby and it's done.

Observer Wu Yun is a gentle-looking observer, but today Observer Wu Yun watched his wife Ms. Liu crying at the scene, but although Observer Wu Yun sympathized with her, Observer Wu Yun did nothing to help Ms. Liu relieve her suffering. Tell me about the woman's problem politely.

Wives must also learn to share some tasks for the husband to take on. It is what the husband should do, and the husband must do it. If he does not do it, I will do it. Over time, the husband will become less and less responsible. The heart becomes more and more self-willed, and will become more and more dependent on his wife. You can see that now you are like an old mother taking care of your old son, and you feel tired, and your husband, Mr. Zhou, because he did not realize your tiredness, so he will not understand your suffering. He can only take care of the family. Responsibility, and feeling the hardship, will I respect you and respect you.

The observer, Mr. Wu Yun, criticized her husband, Mr. Zhou, for being incomplete,The husband, Mr. Zhou, has no place to show himself. But my wife, Ms. Liu, nodded frequently.

Observer Chen Lidong said: Mr. Zhou mentioned that every time we had a conflict. It’s all my wife who provokes me first. Why should my wife provoke you? Maybe you haven’t thought about it, you think your wife is doing nothing, but in fact your wife so-called provoke you. Deep down in her heart, she is constantly trying to test whether you are responsible for the family and whether you feel that Your question is changing, and the result of her every trial is, oh, my husband is still the same, no change, then the man feels that you are constantly there.

For example, you provoke me, but you don’t understand why your wife provokes you. Someday your wife really doesn’t provoke you. You are almost here. What about your husband and wife relationship? I think you may lack a sense of humor when you encounter things. There is no such thing to let go of communication, or one or two interesting words to dissolve it. Instead, you will fight against each other when you encounter things, and you must argue that you are right and me wrong. , For example, the woman, I can not say that I encountered something. I'm going crazy, I'm going to trouble him when I encounter something, and I'll just say him when I encounter something. In fact, both of you have certain responsibilities. If your marriage can continue, you should know What problems did each of us have in our marriage. Mr. Zhou, your wife is constantly tempting. When you scolded him, you didn’t come into contact with this information at all. Instead, you came into contact with a piece of information that he always troubles you. Any kind of husband-and-wife relationship problem is a long-term problem. As a result of the interaction, why did your husband and wife start such a problematic relationship pattern interaction, and why? Mr. Zhou would say, I actually take care of things, I don’t care, I also do things at home, but every time I do, my wife will say that I’m not doing well and will pick and choose. So slowly I don't care. It is very important whether that is the reason and what caused it.

What are the requirements of the couple when they enter the secret room?

Observer Zhang Lidong asked straightaway: Mr. Zhou, are you trying to save your marriage?

Husband, Mr. Zhou, bluntly said: I must have marriage,I also realized the mistake, and I will not play cards anymore, let alone my wife. I will definitely help my wife with some housework.

The husband, Mr. Zhou, seems to have been educated on the court, is the wife Ms. Liu's heart warm?

Wife Ms. Liu told observer Wu Yun: I still want to divorce, but the condition is that the divorce does not leave home and the property of the husband and wife is not divided, but the husband has to compensate me 300,000 yuan.

Wife Ms. Liu's request seems to be unreasonable, but the combination of wife Ms. Liu and husband Mr. Zhou's pattern does not seem to surprise us. It is muddled, the quilt has no inner and outer surfaces, and the clothes are not anyway. .

Then Wu Yun will go and listen to what her husband, Mr. Zhou, said!

Husband Mr. Zhou said: I don't want to divorce, and I don't have any money for my wife, and all the money I earn is kept by his wife.

When Wu Yun talked about his wife Ms. Liu's hand injury, her husband, Mr. Zhou, said that he would take care of his wife, Ms. Liu, and accompany her to see a doctor.

The observers Wu Yun and Zhang Lidong also suggested that his wife, Ms. Liu, give her husband Mr. Zhou a few months, and let her husband Mr. Zhou accompany her to see a doctor. This is also a chance for her husband to correct mistakes and give herself one. Time to treat hand injuries.

The wife, Ms. Liu, still has a relationship with her husband, Mr. Zhou, and she readily agreed to postpone the divorce proposal.

Back on the court, the husband Mr. Zhou took the hand of his wife Ms. Liu proactively and sincerely admitted his mistakes, and let his wife Ms. Liu see his performance. If he never repents, his wife Ms. Liu wants to divorce, he also agrees , But he said that he will definitely change it.

Wife Ms. Liu also said that she will change the way she lives with her husband Mr. Zhou in the future, and will not quarrel with her husband Mr. Zhou by tantrums in the future. The two work together and work together. Helping her husband, Mr. Zhou, strengthen his sense of responsibility.

Seeing the sincere dialogue between the two couples, I also sighed, after all, they are the original couples, maybe they do have each other in their hearts.I just don’t know how to get along and how to express it, and I may feel that after a long time, I become a relative, but it reduces the degree of attention and affinity for each other.

However, in response to the couple’s problem, several observers also criticized the husband, Mr. Zhou, for pointing out that he was not responsible.

also pointed out the actions of his wife, Ms. Liu, and instead condoned the irresponsibility and domestic violence of her husband, Mr. Zhou.

Let’s end with the commentator Li Jinping’s commentary!

Li Jinping, the mediator, said: There is a problem that has caught our attention, that is, Ms. Liu has done a wrong role segmentation. What is role segmentation? A good wife and a good mother, a good wife is for her husband, called a good wife, and a good mother is for her children.

Wife Ms. Liu uses both the good wife and the mother on her husband, and she is also good and good. The good wife and mother must be able to communicate, they must have brains, and have the wisdom to solve problems. It’s not that I work harder, I feel angry, I take responsibility and I’ll be virtuous, so your understanding of the concept of a good wife and a good mother is seriously wrong. My wife, Ms. Liu, cried and smashed and dealt with the conflicts between husband and wife and the relationship between husband and wife. It's all invalid processing, not only virtuous, but also good. If you figure this out, you can go on in your marriage.

Husband, Mr. Zhou, is here today. His attitude is very sincere, but it is very important that you have a real understanding of your own problems. Regardless of Ms. Liu’s temper, you too Acknowledging that his wife, Ms. Liu, she absolutely did her best and endured humiliation. You, a man in marriage, are a wife in temper and a child in life ability. You can only survive in your native family, because your parents are willing to spoil you, are used to you, and are willing to support you. Can't survive. Even if your current wife is a good wife like a mother, she can't bear it anymore. Who gave you the confidence to become a mother? The position of a man in a marriage is not determined by howling, but by the contribution and value of the love in the marriage.

After half a month,The husband and wife respectively sent WeChat to the program team to tell the observers that they are developing this good relationship.

Well, I hope they will continue to work hard and repaint a picture of a happy and beautiful life.

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