When Xiao Chen told me his story, he held his head in his hands and was in a very low mood with a low voice. I tried to comfort him, but I didn't expect him to cry. The man had tears and didn't flick, but he didn't feel sad.
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My name is Xiao Chen, I am 33 years old this year, I got married last year, but now, I am struggling whether to divorce my wife.
I am a rural person. The conditions in my family are average. In addition, I don’t look outstanding and my personality is introverted. So I never talked about a girlfriend before I was 31, and my family introduced girls to me, but they basically watched them. If you don't go to me, you think I can't speak. The failure of the blind date made me very frustrated and even less confident in myself. My parents were also blaming me. Just when I was about to give up, Xiao Hua appeared.
That day, my uncle said that there was a girl in the next town who had just returned from Dongguan, and she also came back for a blind date, so the uncle arranged for us to meet, and she was Xiaohua. I didn’t expect her to be so beautiful. She was 160 in height. She had fair skin and a gentle voice. My heart was beating very fast at the time, so I became more nervous. I wanted to take a sip of water to ease it. Who knows? Zi choked, coughing constantly, Xiao Hua couldn't help laughing when he saw my embarrassment. Just because she smiled, the whole atmosphere became particularly relaxed. What surprised me most was that we used to work in Dongguan Changan , and her factory was next door to me. I felt at the time that it must be fate.
This blind date, I succeeded, and I was so happy. Xiaohua said she liked me honestly. I was 31 years old and she was 29 years old.
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After we confirmed the relationship, both of them returned to the factory to work. We entered the electronics factory, all of which included food and housing, but with Xiaohua , I rented a house outside, as our warm little home. Because Xiaohua is beautiful and has a good personality, my friends say that I don't know it is a blessing that I have cultivated in a few lifetimes.It’s sweet in my heart. I cherish Xiaohua in my heart. When the two are together, I often do laundry and cooking. I was very happy when I looked at her at that time. Generally, what she wants, as long as I can meet , I will meet her.
In this way, we talked about love for a year, and then both families asked us to get married first, saying that the time to fall in love for a year is almost the same.
So the family set a date. When I told my good friend Lin Hai the news, told me to look more clearly. I was a little unhappy at the time. As a good friend, I am going to get married. He should be happy for me. Why do you say these things and what does he mean?
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I feel uncomfortable, but he just doesn't want to say it, and then I said that you don’t want to say that our affection will be cut off. He hesitated for a long time, and finally said it reason.
But after I listened to him, I didn't believe it at all. I felt that he deliberately lied to me, and he didn't want me to marry a beautiful wife and be jealous.
He said that once when a few friends were renting a room for dinner, I was busy in the kitchen. He was standing by the balcony. Xiao Hua walked to him and touched him with his body deliberately. He thought she was not Be careful, who knew that after he took a step back, Xiao Hua leaned closer and gave him a hug, so fast that he didn't even react. Later, she also asked him out several times, but he refused. He has been hesitant to tell me what to do. Now that he heard that he was going to get married, he had to remind me that he thought Xiaohua was a kind of casual woman, fearing that I would suffer in the future.
I heard what he said at the time, and I didn't believe it at all, so I said: "How is possible? Don't fabricate some facts to spoil our relationship. It won't be you who are interesting to Xiaohua."
Lin Hai immediately burst into red when I said this, and finally said: "Anyway, I have said everything I should say.It's up to you. ”
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I didn’t listen to Lin Hai’s words. At the age of 32, Xiaohua and I got married. After we got married, we still went back to work in the factory. I am a formal husband and wife, and my wife is very considerate to me. Our life is very sweet. I am secretly thankful that I didn't listen to Lin Hai. Where can I find such a good wife.
Unexpectedly, I am an honest person still being deceived.
One night, when my wife came back from work, it was 11 o’clock in the evening. When she came back, I smelled a man’s cologne and a faint smell of cigarettes, because I don’t smoke or spray perfume. So I am very sensitive to these. I don’t know why, but what Lin Hai said to me before suddenly popped out of my head. Really, men’s instincts are also very accurate. At that time, my first reaction was whether she was with someone else. I went on a date.
When my wife came back, she lay down and fell asleep after washing up. She said that after a busy day, she was too tired. After a while, she fell asleep.
And I couldn't sleep at all. , So I got up, secretly picked up her clothes and smelled it again. It was sure it was cologne . My heart lifted up at once, . At that time, I quietly picked up her mobile phone and I wanted to watch it. Check if there is anything unspeakable on her mobile phone. I can see a secret that has been hidden for a long time.
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Wife’s mobile phone is equipped with power-on gesture protection. I tried it for half an hour before finally opening it. , Who knows that as soon as I opened WeChat, a message happened to be sent over, the content was: "Baby, you are so charming tonight. "I also added a few lustful expressions at the back. I immediately picked up my heart. I immediately opened the information and found that the person who was remarked as the elder brother was talking about love with her, and they were all intimacy between men and women. In terms of relationship, it turns out that she betrayed me a long time ago. After reading the information, my head exploded. At that time, I wanted to take a knife to end myself. I dedicated myself to give and love her wholeheartedly. I didn't expect her to betray me like this. .
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Thinking of me and her from the beginning of the blind date to the present, my heart hurts like a knife. I regret that I didn’t listen to my friend’s advice at the time. He was always good for me, but I misunderstood him. For this matter, he later left here and went to work in Shenzhen. We rarely contacted him. I guess he was treating me. Disappointed. If you listened to him at the beginning and paid attention to it, maybe it wouldn't be like this today.
I sat on the floor all night, thinking about the past bit by bit, me and Xiaohua, me and Lin Hai, and Lin Hai and ours.
At dawn, my wife woke up.
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When she woke up, she saw me sitting on the ground, her expression sluggish, and she realized something was wrong and asked me what happened. I became angry all of a sudden, and said loudly: "What is the good thing you did, what benefits your brother has given you, how long have you been together, do you plan to let me know for the rest of your life?"
My wife heard it, I just said: "You peeked at my phone?"
I said: "If you don't look at me, I really don't know that you have a brother out there, and that kind of relationship happened. What do you think I am? Let's get a divorce."
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When my wife heard of the divorce, she immediately knelt down and cried and said, " I don't want a divorce, so please forgive me once. He is my colleague. We are It started half a year ago. He usually helps me at work. I am very grateful to him. Later, he said he would invite me to dinner and I went there. I drank some wine in the middle. Then something happened. It shouldn’t happen. I’ve always been upset about the matter, and since that time, he has often called me and said if I disagree, he would tell you these things. I was afraid that you would know, so I kept talking to him. I’m sorry for you...
Every word she said is like stab my heart with a sword, it hurts me hard to breathe. I love her very much, but she betrayed me, and now she begs me to forgive me,Can I forgive her?
Conclusion: Devoting wholeheartedly but encountering betrayal, this is the most sad thing, and it is also the most shocking thing to self-confidence. Xiao Chen pampered Xiaohua like a treasure, trusting her 100%, and misunderstood his good friend Lin Hai for this. When the final facts were in front of him, Xiao Chen really broke down and was betrayed by his beloved woman. We can feel the pain in our hearts. As the saying goes, how deep the love is, the more you hurt.
As for whether or not to forgive Xiao Hua, it depends on Xiao Chen’s own inner thoughts and whether she can really pass that level in her heart. If Xiao Hua really wants Xiao Chen’s forgiveness, she should act Expressed. Do you think Xiao Chen can forgive Xiao Hua?
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