Talk | Some truths I understand after the second marriage failed

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I am busy chasing after the next span5 train and asking if I am going to buy the next train. Rose, my face became stiff, red rose...three words that I hate and can't forget! Frowning and waving away, standing outside the safety yellow line, I looked at myself reflected in the glass window, took a deep breath, and my thoughts went back to a year ago...

01

That afternoon, I returned to the rental house with three beautifully packaged red roses in my hand, and saw a notice for rent payment posted at the door. After I came in, I found it. Half a palm-high transparent glass, filled with water and flowers.

There were several times, because the height of the flower branches did not match the cup, and they fell straight down. I didn't want the flowers to wither, so I had to cut them into small halves and then put them in the cup.

Sitting on the side of the wooden bed, I looked at the flowers in the water dreamily, holding the notice in my hand, and two voices quarreled in my heart.

This flower was given by Luo Tao during the blind date.The two do not match, I just turned 30, he is 10 years older than me, I am tall, he is short and fat, looks a bit good-looking, economic conditions are undoubtedly the most attractive to me, no car but school district room, family background It's okay, but I am impoverished.

My husband fell to death from a high building on the construction site when I was about to give birth. At that time, he drank alcohol and the person in charge ran away with money. A bunch of people on the construction site could not get their wages and became a widow. When I was in confinement, I ran to fight with the developer, and finally collected 20,000 yuan for the appeasement fee.

Raising my daughter alone in the past two years, there is very little left. Seeing that I can't pay two months' rent, I will soon be driven out by the landlord.

My husband and I are single-parent families, and my in-laws and natal families cannot count on them.

I found several jobs and lost them because of my children. Due to the pressure of life, I listened to the introduction from my fellow villager and went to meet Luo Tao.

In his early years, he liked to travel around by bike, causing accidental injuries and being unable to give birth. Therefore, he has been unmarried. Now he wants to settle down and find a single woman with a child to marry. He is willing to treat the child as her own flesh and blood. Hopefully in the future Some people do their filial piety.

and I happen to meet his criteria, but I don't like him at all.

02

That was the first time I received flowers,I don't understand flowers, but I think men who are willing to give flowers have a generous life.

When I was hesitant, my mobile phone received a WeChat call from the landlord again. The determination to remarry was firm at that moment. I did not expect that waiting for me in the future will not be a bright day for roses.

The reason for his second marriage was that Luo Tao didn't want to put on wine, but planned to live in the two-person world. He mysteriously told me that he wanted to take me to the desert and the underwater world, and just leave everything to him.

During the few days after marriage, I was so excited that I couldn't sleep, looking forward to the stars and the moon, and finally waited until the day when I was going to take me to see the sea. I was dumbfounded.

Luo Tao didn't know where to get a second-hand projector. He put the collection of his many years of travel and shooting on the wall and asked me proudly and excitedly if it was spectacular?

is indeed quite spectacular. The square desert and the sea are almost immersive. I can feel the heat and cool sea breeze coming on my face! I gave a sneer, and heard the sound of a broken dream in my heart!

Seeing my displeasure, Luo Tao complained that I didn't understand the fun, but at this time, the old machine suddenly broke down, and after the desert and the sea were swayed in mid-air, they turned into a mirage and disappeared.

I went back to the room in frustration and took out the clothes in the suitcase. I didn't want to talk to him anymore. There was a loud call from the living room that he wanted to return the goods.

Life after marriage is very embarrassing. Luo Tao is a real bitch and never takes me to travel. His trivial life is careless every day, and he yells at every turn, saying that I am a prodigal wife.

I feel aggrieved in my heart. I regret it and feel like I have become a free nanny. But in order for my child to go to a good elementary school in the future, I plan to endure a few years before getting divorced.

Unexpectedly, the life was difficult to maintain for more than half a year, and something went wrong at home.

03

I often go for a walk in the middle of the night. I persuaded him to see a doctor, but he was reluctant to live or die, and said that my prodigal only knows to send money to the hospital.

I wake up in the middle of the night and feel that there is no one beside my pillow. I wonder if there is someone outside. But watching him go out in an open manner, it doesn't look like it.

To coax my daughter, it is not convenient for me to track it, so I can only check his mobile phone secretly. Everything is normal, but my heart is even more disturbed.

Until one night, Luo Tao went out very early but didn't answer all night. He didn't answer the phone call, and was so anxious to death. Nothing will happen in the middle of the night, right?

until early morning,I just received a call from him from the hospital asking me to take all his bank cards and go to the hospital. He broke his leg.

How can I get disabled if I go for a walk? Luo Tao scolded with a bad face, "The fence on the road doesn't have eyes!" Could it be that you didn't look at the road yourself and were made by a car?

Luo Tao's face is ugly, he shakes me off with his hands, don't need to serve, don't get too sulky.

For a while, he saw that I was sweating for him, and his face was a little slow. He called me to the bed and handed me a white box and three red roses without leaves.

That is a used mobile phone.

Luo Tao said, knowing that my cell phone was broken by a child, he could only make calls reluctantly, and often turned off automatically when he didn’t move. It’s easy to find someone on WeChat!

The flowers were also given to me. They were broken when they fell. Who would have thought of going out to get a mobile phone and making it like this.

Although he still thinks he is very picky, but I have been used to it for more than half a year and suddenly gave me a gift. I am a little uncomfortable, but my heart is quite warm. In the end, he still has an inch of me in his heart.

I wanted to go to the nursery to pick up my daughter earlier, and then bring him some soup, but I took the initiative to find the trouble.

04

The next morning, I went to the hospital and saw a lot of people in the pavilion to take my daughter home. When the police were called, I was shocked. I was worried that the community would be closed because of the epidemic, and I grabbed a person next to me and asked.

It turned out that there was a serious traffic accident near the community the night before. The owner died on the spot and the suspect ran away.

Now the police are looking for people everywhere in each community. Although there are surveillance videos on the side of the road, because the location is relatively off, the driving recorder photographed the person who rushed out of the road, wearing a mask, so it was difficult to distinguish for a while.

The neighbor heard that my husband was hospitalized yesterday, and this week it was a woman with my daughter, and kindly told me to be careful, not afraid of the case, for fear of criminals escaping into the community and hiding slyly. The bad guys now can do anything crazy,

I was terrified to hear it, so I hurried home to make the soup and send it to Luo Tao in advance.

after entering the house,I was sensitive to discover that the three roses that Luo Tao gave me yesterday suddenly withered, didn't they just leave them alone for a day? Sure enough, I was not suitable for growing plants, but Luo Tao died when Luo Tao was sick. It was unlucky!

I gave me the three branches for a long time before thanking me. An uneasy premonition climbed up my eyebrows. I hurriedly threw it out of the door with my hands, fearing that it would bring bad luck to my family.

dexterously prepared the food and soup, carrying my daughter on my back, I hurried out. When I was about to leave the gate of the community, I saw several security guards cooperating with the police, holding a few photos and asking them one by one, and they also posted notices on the bulletin board.

It was getting darker, and I became more nervous and anxious. I hugged my daughter on the back of my chest tightly, glanced at the bulletin board, and quickly took a photo with my mobile phone.

Unexpectedly, waiting for me behind will be a bolt from the blue.

05

Show him, his face changed, and WeChat sent me 100 yuan for a week's living expenses.

He worriedly told me to stop delivering food from tomorrow.Bring your daughters to the hospital less so that the bad guys don’t find clues in the home. It is dangerous if you know that there is no male owner in the home.

There is another very important thing, that is, don’t open the sundries room next to the balcony if you don’t have anything on weekdays. He secretly hid the safe, just next to the neighbor’s balcony and in the public corridor. , I'm afraid of someone picking a lock and stealing things.

I secretly call him a miser, his body is like this, and I am still thinking about the money. I'm really afraid that the thief will not run away?

To be honest, I didn't expect him to hide a safe in such a hidden place! The sundries room is full of old furniture and unused electrical appliances, except for the occasional opening and stuffing of sundries in the New Year, it is usually locked.

It’s really a shame that he wanted to hide such a place! Are you going to guard me? After all he felt good about him, he was washed away all at once.

For the next two days, I took my daughter to live cautiously at home, and every day I asked my neighbor’s aunt whether the suspect was caught?

Luo Tao is also not idle in the hospital. He calls me every morning and night, not caring about the safety of my daughter and me, but instead asking him whether his precious safe has been unlocked by the bad guy. And I was afraid that I would not be obedient and sneak in and search through boxes and cabinets.

I am not as careful as he is, I have to be two minded,I've been thinking of cheating out of his money, and still waiting to serve him for more than half a year? As long as the child's future reading problems can be solved, I only want a safe place to live, but it's not as dirty as he thinks.

Unexpectedly, three days later, the police came to my door and asked me to cooperate with the investigation. I was shocked.

06

They quickly searched out a bunch of physical evidence in the sundries room! Where is the safe, red roses all over the floor!

Oh, no, the police comrades kindly and surprised me to correct me, this is not a red rose, the real name of the flower should be red rose.

I was dumbfounded, my mouth was open in shock, I couldn't utter a word, and I felt my soul was all scared away.

I was probably scared too terribly. The female colleague beside the police comforted me. No wonder I was confused. In fact, there are many people outside who confuse these two kinds of flowers.That's why the prisoner has a chance to find the wrong way to make a fortune.

and when they were looking for the suspect in the traffic accident, they called up all the monitoring of the nearby roads during this period, and they discovered that the flower gardens on the two main roads were almost stolen, and they did this. Luo Tao is the one who is in trouble!

They monitored and traced day by day, and found that at the very beginning, he only stole two or three without wearing a mask, but he stole more and more in the back, and often came out with hats and masks in the middle of the night to commit crimes. .

soon they caught him at the station.

Surprisingly, it is not a hospital!

Yes, this bastard was afraid that the police would find him on his head. He was going to take a car to the province to hide for a while, dragging his sick leg to leave the hospital early despite the nurse's obstruction.

No wonder he told me not to visit him this week, no wonder he asked me to give him all my bank cards, no wonder I couldn’t touch the utility room, because he considered me a fool. !

But the following truth broke me even more!

07

Luo Tao confessed in the police station,In the past few months, he sold the stolen red roses to some black-hearted bosses, and arranged to sell them on the street in the evening. He made more than 5,000 before and after, and spent more than 1,000 to buy a new one for a beautiful little mistress who came from the countryside. millet phone , the rest is reserved for my own use.

And Xiaosan's old phone, he saw that in addition to the old style, it can still be used normally, but if it gets stuck, he will use it to send me temporarily so that he can find me at any time in the past few days!

As for why it was involved in a traffic accident, it was because Xiaosan was a few days after her birthday and clamored him to take her to Zhangjiajie to travel and meet the world.

Unexpectedly, this mistress has really gotten into his heart. Such a picky person actually readily agreed that the high-speed rail tickets for the two were bought in advance a week later!

In order to make up for the money, Luo Tao went out early that night and wanted to steal more flowers for sale. Unexpectedly, an old lady who came out to pick up rubbish by the road also stole the flowers.

ended in a dispute between the two in the flower garden. The old man rushed out of the road and caused a traffic accident. Without calling for an ambulance, Luo Tao jumped the fence and broke his leg in a hurry.

After listening to these, I want to cry without tears. I feel like I am in a dream, unable to digest for a long time. I really hate it. I hate it so much that I can't feel the pain when my nails are pinched into the flesh!

I never dreamed of a traffic accident,I actually caught the evidence of a man’s derailment. I can tolerate my stingy life, but I really can’t tolerate my unfaithfulness to the marriage and full of lies.

Recalling this unfortunate marriage, I suddenly realized that there was not much love between the two. I was with him for the sake of my children and a stable home. I didn’t want to continue renting. No money for housing.

He was with me, because I was a widow with only one child, and there was a free nanny, and when I was old, someone could provide for the elderly. It was a double guarantee. The wishful thinking was fine.

08

The one I didn’t think of as a red rose is a gift from me in the same year. He picked it by the side of the road, but I didn't expect me to take it seriously.

This was also a beautiful junior who came to work from the countryside. He bullied her with little knowledge and used the same trick. After a few days of coaxing the girl, she was very happy, and then suddenly he just took the red rose. The idea of ​​making money.

To put it bluntly, it is because I don't have much true love for me, so once I encounter the temptation outside, I can't help but derail.

and don’t want to lose face in front of other women,Pretending to be generous, but instinctively stingy and reluctant to spend his own money, it is not surprising that he can come up with such a weird trick.

It’s just that Luo Tao had a miscalculation. There are people in the world who covet small gains with him. He never expected that because of a dispute over interests, he would lead to a murder case and expose his extramarital affairs.

The flowers offered on this roadside really can't be picked casually, presumably Luo Tao now regretfully wants to hit the wall!

It is said that love like a rose will sting people, but my rose is fake, but it can hurt people deeply.

figured it out, it’s not that uncomfortable. Thinking about the original use of toilet paper, it was carefully divided into three layers. I decided to divorce and live a new life. As for what Luo Tao would be sentenced for theft, I Don't care at all.

With a small amount of divorced property, I returned to the rental house with my daughter, and took a job as a nanny. After sending my daughter to a cheap nursery, I started working in the dark every day.

After the end of the year, because of diligence and responsibility, the salary has increased several times, plus the frugal food, finally I have some savings. I plan to try to collect enough down payment before my daughter is 6 years old to buy a small single room in the suburbs that is less than 30 square meters.

The experience of the second marriage failed, which made me cheer myself up again, and I also want to understand one thing.

divorce requires courage,Remarry requires confidence.

The second marriage is really to be cautious. You can't choose marriage for the sake of life. Regardless of the number of marriages, you should find the most suitable prerequisite, otherwise you will regret it in the end.

The subway is coming, and my thoughts return to reality. I quickly stepped onto the train and the next stop was waiting for me!

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