The psychology of the person who speaks yin and yang
The mean person speaks with thorns, treats others coldly, does not give the slightest room for maneuver, makes people feel impersonal, speaks without saving face for others, and points out what is wrong with the nail on the nail To embarrass others. Why do people have a mean mentality and mean language exports at every turn, caused by it? Let's find out. Some people say that meanness may be due to lack of ability or narrow-mindedness... This is also the cause of a person's meanness, but these are all superficial phenomena. For a mean person, the most fundamental reason is that he is unhappy. of. A mean surface is an attack, but in reality it is self-defense! It seems to exaggerate your "bad", but in fact it can't adapt to your "good". Therefore, the mean person is very pitiful, hurts others and disadvantages oneself, annoying and disturbing. Therefore, we must be more tolerant to the mean. For those who "cannot make those mistakes", apart from pity, just ignore, forgive, and leave with a graceful smile. Happy people don't quarrel, because their hearts are warm and peaceful. One day, if you don't like to praise others and can't understand all the flowers, it may mean that you are starting to be unhappy. The stronger, the more generous, and the happier, the better able to appreciate and accept others.
The most upright big move:
1. Tell him directly that you don’t like his words and practices, tell him that you hate this, and hope that you don’t do it in the future.
2. Ignore his existence directly, don't pay attention to what he says or do, so he will feel very boring and will gradually converge.
The most evil trick:
1. Unreasonable and funny answers, and then meet their acrimony, you can say "Wow, you're so mean, I'm so sad" After speaking, laugh three times! See how he reacted, I think he should be very angry, ha ha.
2. Aq's Spiritual Victory Method, when you meet someone who laughs at you, you might as well laugh at yourself first, and finish what he wants to say. If he says it again, he will not feel that the desired effect is achieved, so he will not have the desired effect. What can be said.
3. A tooth for a tooth. This method requires good eloquence. If you think your mouth can speak well, you might as well attack his weaknesses to let him know that you are not easy to provoke.
4. Contempt him with your eyes. When he sneers at you, you can stare at him blankly for a minute, so that he can feel your arrogance and domineering.
I think the best way is to work hard to improve yourself. These villains will ridicule you when you are in difficulty. When you are soaring, they will come back and flatter you.
Note:
1. Never quarrel with the other party. Although you vent your grievances, you will also be misunderstood by unreasonable people.
2. Also learn to respect those who insult you, maybe repaying your grievances with virtue can influence them.
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