Yesterday I wrote an article about a single guy with second-married female routines, and then another fan confided to me his experience. With his permission, I wrote his experience. For the convenience of writing, I will use the first One person. The names appearing in the text are all aliases.
I am 31 years old this year, and I can be considered a successful career. I have a job at this well-known Internet company with a monthly salary of more than 10,000. Maybe it has something to do with my personality. I'm a relatively introverted person, so I have never had a girlfriend, and I'm very urged at home.
I have known Li Li for a while. She divorced last year and had a daughter. I don’t know the specific reason for the divorce. Li Lineng and I came together, and we started with a joke from our mutual friends. At a party, a friend said that both of us are single now, why not solve it internally. What's more, we are still fellows.
In this way, the two of us slowly got in touch and got along. At that time, I was thinking, Li Li had a failed marriage, so I wanted to treat her doubly, because at that time, I felt that in a failed marriage, basically all women were hurt, not to mention that she still brought her together. I have a daughter, so I have a caring psychology. After all, every man has a superhero dream in his heart and always wants to show the image of a superhero in front of his beloved.
So when I get along with him, I take her thoughts into consideration everywhere, and treat her very well. Love everything! I treat his daughter very well. I take her daughter to the amusement park every weekend. I really treat her daughter as my own. When Li Li wants to buy cosmetics, clothes, etc., I never say anything.
originally thought that my marriage to her,It should be a matter of course. But when I went to her house to talk about marriage, her parents opposed it. Said that I destroyed her daughter's previous family, and said that I was a third party. It’s not impossible to get married, unless they buy a house in Nanchang in the name of their granddaughter and give a gift of 220,000 yuan. To show my heart.
At that time, Li Li rebutted her parents, and her parents said that if I can't do it, she decides to stay with me, and she will cut off relations with her. The meeting ended in unpleasantness.
Let me talk about the situation of my family first! When I told my family that I had found a girlfriend and had a daughter, my parents were very opposed to it, but after my constant lobbying, my parents agreed.
After coming out of her house, she hugged me and cried and said that she wanted to be with me. When I cried, I instantly lost resistance, and I didn’t have much money on my own. , The down payment for a house is not a big problem, but the gift of 220,000 is really not available, so I had to call my parents for help. When my parents heard about it, Thunder was furious. But I really wanted to be with Li Li, so I had to beg my parents.
In the end, my parents told me that it’s okay to buy a house for marriage, but the house can only write the names of me and Li Li at most. The other party has to use the gift money to decorate, or I can find a way, right when I don’t have this. Son, I have no choice but to tell Li Li about the attitude of my family.
Li Li cried and told me after listening that he didn’t want to embarrass me, saying that my parents only have my son, although her parents only have her and a daughter, but still There is an older brother, so she can sever ties with her parents and stay with me. Then she started crying, saying that her parents had treated her very well since she was a child, and now her daughter is also helping her and raising her. After listening to her story, I think she loves her parents very much.
At that time, I thought,I should quit, because I don't want her to break with her parents because of me, and my parents are taking care of her, and the attitude is very firm. With my ability, I couldn't meet the requirements of her parents, so I had to end this relationship with the pain, but there is a lyrics that sang well, let's end it, your parents have only you and a daughter, and I still have the end of the world.
So I broke up with her, and when he heard that I broke up, he cried and said to me that I was a scumbag and said that she originally thought she had met the real man, but turned out to be an irresponsible person. , No matter how I explain it, it's useless. I really loved him at that time, so I had to tell her, let’s get married, just as my parents said, I buy a house and write our names, and then I secretly give another 60,000 yuan as gift money, my dad. Mom gave it to decorate.
After she heard this, she cried and told me that he didn’t want to hurt his parents. His parents were helping him raise the children. She said that the gift money will be her parents in the future. It will be given to him, but her parents want to protect her, afraid that she will be hurt again. Saying that the house writes her daughter's name is also protecting her. At the time I felt that she didn't want to hurt her parents in her heart, so I had to break up now.
Since then, I have chosen to refuse her phone call and not contact her. I am really sad during this time. About a week later, her parents found me and told me at the beginning that I hurt their daughter, and then they told me that they could make concessions and that the bride price could not be, but the house could only write about their daughter and granddaughter. Child's name.
After listening to the results of the fans, I can only say that the big son double reed played really well. This woman still considers herself a ignorant, ignorant, silly little girl.
So what I said to this fan, let your IQ online! The other person knows at a glance,Everyone is playing a double-acting routine. How can you test you? How can you not want your daughter to be harmed? Take the terms of their family as an example. Is it difficult for you to find a little girl on such terms?
Still the same sentence, I am not here to say that it is not good to love married women, there are also good second-married women, there is one among dozens of them! Here, I advise those single guys not to feel that second-married women need your care. Whenever you see a second-married woman in the circle of friends or on social networks, she wants to find someone who knows the cold and the hot, and feels that her chance is here. , From the moment your heart beats, you lose.
Imagine that when they divorced their predecessor, they were irritated for property disputes. Will they be with you who have no financial means? If you have financial means, find an unmarried girl. Okay.
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