When I returned to my natal family, I caught up with the fourth sister and came back. She was washing her father's feet. Seeing this scene made my heart hot. There are five siblings in my family. It is my little sister who takes care of my parents most carefully and patiently. My parents often conclude that I did not expect my four daughters to benefit the most. .
The four sisters accompany their father to sit on the balcony to speak.
When the parents said that, I know their deepest feeling is that the four girls who were not waiting for them at the time gave them the most meticulous care.
My parents are the most standard northern farmers. They are just 80 years old this year. They have four daughters and one son, and the youngest son. The younger brother was born in 1977 and the fourth sister was born in 1974. That era was catching up with the family planning policy.
Father has three brothers, and neither uncle has a boy. And my mother gave birth to three daughters in a row, which, for my grandfather, couldn't hold her head up in front of the whole family. It was a shame to my grandfather and my father that families without a boy in that era were scolded as "unpopular."
My grandfather gave instructions to my parents again and again, "The brothers are getting old, I can't count on them anymore. You must stand up and don't let us have no future."
Mom, though She is also a rural woman, but after her mother had studied for eight years and gave birth to three daughters, the captain of the sister-in-law of the village mobilized her mother to family planning. The mother thought it could be considered. However, his father was firmly opposed, and his father blasted the female cadres who came to work out of the house.
So my mother had the fourth child. At that time, how much parents and grandfather hoped that the fourth child would receive the account book! At that time, I was seven or eight years old, and I already had memory. I still remember that the fourth sister was born at home, in the morning. My father was working in a social enterprise at that time. When he got off work at night, as soon as he walked into the village, people with good deeds greeted his father with bad intentions and congratulated his father for having four more girls.
The village is not small, and everyone in the village pays special attention to whether my mother's fourth child will be able to give birth to a son, so after the fourth sister was born, almost all the adults in the village rushed to tell.
When the father heard that another girl came, he walked into the house with a cold face.At that time, there were two big kangs in the house. My father walked into the room and looked at his mother coldly. He didn't even look at his four daughters in the right eye. He said to his mother, "You are not doing it right, you are filling up the kang, and go to one side. .".
The mother who had just experienced the pain of childbirth wept in a low voice in the face of such reprimand, and the grandmother who came to wait on her confinement also sighed, as if her mother had made a mistake.
Grandpa was the hardest hit. When his mother gave birth, a close relative in the family gave birth to a fourth son, and their family looked forward to girls. So the family and grandpa discussed whether they could replace their four sisters with their four sons. Both families were very happy. Grandpa thought that this was a good idea. It belonged to the old Zhang family and was related by blood. He came back to talk to his parents. The mother cried when she heard: I don't agree to change, how can I give my daughter to someone, even if I don't have a son, I won't change it!
Mother was never a weak person. Although she looked forward to her son, she was also very determined. Her daughter would never give it to others. Grandpa looked at his father expectantly, calling his father's mouth dirty: Third, you are a man, you are in charge of this matter!
The father, who kept his head down and smoking, abruptly threw out a sentence: My daughter does not change! This was the first time my father disobeyed Grandpa, and he had a very resolute attitude with no room for negotiation. Grandpa could only give up.
I can’t remember when my father would hug his fourth sister after work. The fourth sister is very handsome and looks the most like his father’s daughter. I still remember the scene when my father put the fourth sister on his neck, and said in his mouth: My fourth daughter is my new nose tip.
Grandpa has no grandchildren and is still anxious. A year later, my aunt's family gave birth to a third son. Grandpa is in a mood again. I discussed with my parents: Let's take our small four and change your sister's small three , The child must also be favored and not suffer, our family still has a daughter, it is also our family's blood. Isn't this the best of both worlds?
Before my mother could speak this time, my father said: Dad, even if I don't have a son in my life, I can't exchange my four daughters out, no one can do it!
Father took me to take pictures of me when I was a childDon't care about little things. I listen to your grandfather the most, but don't listen to this matter.
Maybe it was the loyalty of my parents that moved God, and then I finally had a brother. It's just a pity that the grandfather had already passed away when the younger brother was born. This is where my father always feels sorry for his grandpa. However, when the younger brother was older, his father would bring his younger brother to his grandfather every time he went to his grave, and then muttered a few words in front of his grandfather's grave. Now my brother is in his forties, and he has solemnly repaired the tomb of his grandfather a few years ago.
In the 1990s, five siblings took photos with their mother. The shortest one was the cousin, and the blue dress was the fourth sister
and the fourth sister had always been the father’s favorite daughter. The younger brother left his hometown for exams. When Sister Si was looking for someone, her father kept her by his side, and Sister Si readily accepted.
For so many years, the kindness, care, and filial piety of the fourth sister has become the father's most reassuring support.
The four sisters also often ridicule: Look at how wise you did not change me out. If you really change me to someone else's house, not only will I hate you, but I will ignore your daughters and daughters.
Four sisters’ words, I really believe that she has her own opinions about love and hatred. No matter who she goes to and how well she has been, as long as she knows that her parents asked her to give her away, she will not forgive everyone. of.
But I also know my parents, such kind and simple people, who love their children can give to everyone, how can they exchange their children for others. Although the little sister still has the nickname "Four Surplus" that we ridicule, but we know that it is my parents' nickname for the little sister.
In this life, there are five siblings who love each other, and my 80-year-old parents are in good health. This is my biggest wealth in my 50s.
80-year-old father and his beloved electric car
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