The friction between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is an eternal theme. Nowadays, young people are fast-paced and life pressure is great. Long work time. After getting married and having children. Because of time. Taking care of the children can't get away, and the burden of taking care of the children falls on the elderly. Long lived under the eaves. Differences in personality. Differences in living habits, differences in cultural qualities. Will cause friction to escalate. Tit for tat. The war escalated. Affect the pond fish. It's really hard to be a husband.
A was originally in the countryside. Original ecological family. There is a strong desire to change class. Study very hard. Finally counterattack in the college entrance examination. Admitted to a good university. Study medicine. On the occasion of graduation. The parents murmured. Begged a relative who couldn't beat eight. That relative is very powerful. Work as a director in a big hospital. After many twists and turns. A got into a decent job in the hospital as he wished. A is a very smooth person. He is well versed in the way of the workplace, very good at doing things and very appealing. Coupled with the help of relatives. It's really good news. Soaring all the way. A's appearance is also quite outstanding. Belongs to the Appearance Association. The hospital is again a profession with more women than men. Imagine that A is in the hospital. The month comes first near the water tower. How many girls' hearts have been captured. Finally the dust settled. I chose the B girl who is talented and beautiful. Especially B woman has a strong family background. My parents are several grades away. Here are the staff of the agency. State officials. There are out-and-out farmers. A settled in the city of B again. B is the only child again. Can't do without my parents. The parents of family A, who is equivalent to A's parents, are very eager. As long as the children are happy, they are content.
When the dust settles, we get married and have children. Everything is on track. Because of B's parents. Has not officially retired yet. In the matter of raising children. Can only take A's mother over. A's mother is an out-and-out farmer and hasn't gone out much. But cleaning up the housework is a good hand. He is also his own granddaughter. Thinking about getting along will not be long. Far away. I won't see each other often. So I am very attentive in taking care of my children. Do your best. The house was also cleaned up, and the decorations were in order. Make up for the regret of not being able to bring happiness to the child. The only thing that feels uncomfortable is. Due to the small size of the building. I can only squeeze a bed with my mother-in-law. Appears to be awkward. There is a difference between people in big cities and people in rural areas. Many times life habits cannot be integrated. There is a gap between each other. There was even one thing that embarrassed A's mother. The mother who usually washes Bowl A thinks that it is very clean. Comparable to pick up the bowl from time to time to check the lights.Make A's mother very speechless and very angry. I don't want to embarrass my son. Can only be held in the belly. There are many living habits. Let A's mother feel that she is an outsider. Unable to integrate into this family. I am afraid that my son will be uncomfortable. It's okay to feel wronged. This is the concept of old mothers in rural areas. I would rather be aggrieved by myself than make others trouble. Even his own son.
finally returned home. A's mother relaxed completely. No longer want to look at the faces of his daughter-in-law and mother-in-law. Breathing the free air of hometown. I have never felt at ease.
It is difficult for old people to do it now. so awkward. The old woman used to be very authoritative. Daughter-in-law must obey her mother-in-law's words. Now I feel that the concept has changed. The mother-in-law wants to watch her daughter-in-law's face and act carefully. Live trembling, only promises. It's not in line with common sense. The mother-in-law was full of grievances. The daughter-in-law is not happy either. You wronged me more wronged than you. It can be seen that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is a deep problem of the century. Solve this problem. The joint efforts of both parties are required.
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