article|Gu Ziyu
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I often see some couples who are noisy and noisy about who they go to during the Chinese New Year, and some even divorce because of this. In fact, it really doesn’t have to be so serious. It's not a big deal to discuss it carefully.
The result of my discussion with my lover is that we can go home separately during the holidays and take turns during the Chinese New Year. I will go back to my hometown during the Chinese New Year this year, and I will go to the old man's house next year. .
This National Day this year, we still follow the usual practice, go back to each house, each to find each mother, the children also went to grandma's house, my bare-rod commander drove home.
As soon as I entered the house, I was rejected by my mother: I came back on my own again, and both my wife and children can’t get it back. It’s done. Look at your grandpa Zhang’s house. All 5 daughters have returned. , The car can't stop at the door.
There are two brothers in our family. I am the eldest. My brother has been working abroad. Because of the epidemic, I didn’t come back during the Spring Festival last year. My sister-in-law and my daughter-in-law live in her natal home with her children and usually do not come back. I am also more than 1,000 kilometers away from home. Once settled in the city, I can only come back once during the holidays, and my parents are usually at home.
My parents have always envied the five girls in the family of Uncle Zhang. Except for the youngest daughter who was admitted to university and stayed in the field, the other four girls were not too far married. Usually, either this girl comes back, or that girl comes back. Don't mention how happy the old couple are.
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I remember that when I was young, Uncle Zhang always envied my parents. He often said that he was a sonless life and gave birth to a bunch of girls, but he didn't get it. A son, the girl who gave birth to the last girl also paid a lot of fines.
My mom said that Uncle Zhang doesn’t say these things anymore, and he keeps his waist straight all day long.Others praised him for giving birth to a girl. He hurriedly nodded and expressed his approval: Fortunately, it was a girl who gave birth to a girl. Now if anyone has 5 sons, he will die!
People are like this. I want nothing if I don’t have anything. My mother wants a girl. She is almost crazy. She keeps my brother’s hair and braids it until she is going to kindergarten before cutting it. Hair, so my brother has a nickname called "fake girl". Someone called him this way when he was in school. He cried for several times. When he went home, he lost his temper with my mother.
My mother said that she would treat her daughter-in-law as a girl without a girl. Unfortunately, the two daughters-in-law are far away, and there is no chance to get close. Besides, the daughter-in-law is still a step behind the mother-in-law.
Every time I come back, my wife buys clothes for my mother, buys food, and usually calls on the phone, but there is still a distance between the intimacy and my mothers. My mother said it’s pretty good. Don't ask too much, who will let her life be without a girl.
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There used to be a popular video on the Internet, it said that there were three girls in a family, and they caught up with the old man’s family to collect peanuts during the festival. Busy, I took back all the peanuts that the old man had grown. Netizens all left messages and ridiculed that it would be better to have a girl, and I can earn a labor force and earn a stable business.
In fact, these are all jokes. For parents, whether they are girls or sons, as long as their children are filial, they will feel at ease without having to worry about them.
When parents are young, they all hope that their children will have something to do. As they grow older, their minds will gradually change, and there is no need to go to rich and noble days. There is more to the top than the bottom, and it's almost enough.
As long as the family is safe and sound, happiness is always the case.Everyone can get together, eat a meal, and chat home, this is the happiest moment.
Life is a journey that goes back and forth. Everyone walks in one direction, and in the end they all go to the same place. Therefore, parents and children are only the fate of the first life. You can only cherish this in life. Encountered this time, because no one will remember anyone in the next life.
Write at the end:
When leaving home, there is still a full trunk. This is the parents. I’m afraid I don’t give enough, not good enough, so I can’t wait to give the whole home. It's all full of love when you get in the car.
Parting is always sad, until the figure in the rearview mirror gradually disappears from sight, the hometown is left behind again, and it will take a long time for the parents to recover.
But we all understand that parting also means the next reunion. This is life. We are constantly repeating this process, separating again and again, and getting together again and again, because as long as there is love, there is no fear of separation, as long as there is love There is happiness.
THE END The picture comes from the Internet. Invasion
About the author: Gu Ziyu, a freelance writer, shares a warm emotional story with you.
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