I am 35 years old, I have not married yet, and now I can only spend the National Day alone. I feel so lonely.

2021/10/0419:07:02 emotion 2261

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People who can't find love are destined to live lonely lives, because you can't get the warmth of love, your life will never be happy.

I, 35 years old, have not married yet. Now I can only spend the National Day alone. I feel so lonely. In fact, I also want to find a love, but unfortunately I have never met. I don’t know if my fate is still needed How long to wait, now I really hope that I can enter the palace of marriage sooner.

My name is Pan Jinyan. I am a Miao girl. My hometown lives in Dali, Yunnan. My father died of illness when I was 8 years old. Later my mother abandoned me and she remarried with her 2-year-old brother. Elsewhere, I was left with my 60-year-old grandfather from now on.

To tell everyone, I have a very low level of education. I did not even graduate from the sixth grade. Since my father left, my mother remarried, which made it very difficult for my grandfather to live together. There was really no money at home, so I had to give up my dream of continuing to study.

Since I gave up studying, I kept cattle every day at home, and sometimes went to the fields with my grandfather to do farm work. Although life was very difficult, but after all, it survived. Time passed without knowing it. Slowly grow up to adulthood.

To be honest, I am also a girl who values feelings very much. Although I am now 35 years old, I have never been in a relationship before. Maybe my personality is more introverted and I am very shy, so I don’t Dare to take the initiative to pursue love, which has caused me to be single now. I am not a lover, I just want to find a sincere love.

Over the years, I have been to many places to work alone, but I have never met a destined person. Sometimes when I think of these things, I feel very sad, and tears unknowingly fall. Come down.

Just five years ago, the grandfather in the family was too old and his health was always ill. Later, he left me soon.Now I am the only one left in this family. In fact, I really want to find a boyfriend to get married so that I can live a warm life. Unfortunately, I have never met a man who truly loves me.

To be honest, I don’t have high requirements for marriage at all. I don’t want others to give me too many gifts, nor do I need others to help me buy a car or a house. I only care if he really loves me and whether he can follow me. Live together desperately.

Now I am not an 18-year-old girl, and there may be many boys who will dislike me. After all, I am now 35 years old, and I don’t have any culture, and I don’t have any relatives or friends at home, so other people I definitely dislike my age and family conditions.

A woman is different from a man. When a woman reaches the age of 35, it is difficult for her to enter the palace of marriage, because others will despise her age. On the contrary, men are different. As long as they are rich, as long as their careers are successful, then they can Finding a love at any time, and will not worry about a woman who dislikes his age.

Everyone’s fate is different. Maybe I’m destined to be single for a lifetime. Now that I’ve grown up like this, I’ve never been pursued by a boy before. Sometimes I feel like I’ve failed in my life because I can’t get love. Warm, my life is very lonely.

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Hey! Now the National Day is here, and the factory has 7 days off. I can only hide in the rental room by myself every day. I don’t have a friend to take me out to play. I want to find a boyfriend to get married, but unfortunately I have never met.

Everyone said, would a woman like me still be liked by a man? The unmarried boys who work in the factory are basically around the age of 20, and the rest are people who already have a family. It seems that I am destined to find a boyfriend and are destined to miss marriage.

I blame myself for my introverted personality, not daring to actively pursue love, and failing to cherish my youth. As a result, I am not married at the age of 35. Sometimes I complain about myself very much. I feel very confused, no Knowing where my love is,I don’t know where my future happiness is, and it’s really hard to find a boyfriend to get married.

Hope that I can meet a love in the future and let me find my true love. Only in this way will I not feel lonely in my life. Thank you for watching.

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