Sometimes love is born so inexplicably, knowing that chances are slim, or hopelessly, the idea of wanting to be together arises. Sometimes it feels unspeakable, but still imaginative, what if the other party agrees to his courtship?
Even if others don't understand, but I have already recovered to be single, there is nothing wrong with pursuing the person I like, but it may not be going well in the strange eyes of others. And the most important thing is that unilateral efforts are more self-moving, and wishing to reap good love still requires consensualism.
At this time, it's like justice from heaven. Someone will help you pursue the so-called happiness. How can you not be grateful at this time? But don’t forget the identity of the other party. Isn’t it strange that you are willing to help you at this time for no reason or if you have had some grievances? However, I lost my head and didn't think too much for a while, and the one who suffered in the end was always myself.
used to fight together
's first marriage. The two had known each other earlier, and his wife was five years older than him. This marriage was not supported by Dong Hao's family, and they believed that the two were not commensurate at all.
But for Dong Hao,It doesn't matter what others say. At that time, the two people were more in love than Jin Jian, and they planned to go through the ups and downs of the future together. So under external pressure, Dong Hao insisted on marrying his wife. At first, the two people planned to live a prosperous life, and don't let outsiders watch the jokes, but that changed later.
Dong Hao hopes that his wife can be his own good helper, but his wife's excessive spending makes him feel pressured. After all, they are all a family, and I must be able to see my wife as I work hard every day to make money. Why can't I be more considerate of myself?
The two people began to separate gradually, but due to the pressure they had faced, Dong Hao thought that he couldn't just say separate so easily, so wouldn't others be allowed to read the joke? However, after a few years, the only thing Dong Hao cared about was that his wife's belly remained silent. The parents in the family rushed to make concessions. The only requirement for them to make concessions was to hug the grandson as soon as possible.
conflict arises and marriage breaks up
can't get pregnant, why can't work hard? After coming out of the hospital, Dong Hao was unable to calm down for a long time looking at the results of the examination. His wife was infertile and it was difficult to treat. Doesn't it just mean that he will not be able to have his own children in the future?
Perhaps because of such grievances, the relationship between the two people has gone from bad to worse. When Dong Hao thought about asking his wife for divorce, he received endless insults: "Okay, I was with me back then. When you kept saying that no matter what you encounter, you must stay with me firmly.Are you divorcing me now because I can't have children? You don’t have me in your heart, right!
Dong Hao is determined to get a divorce, and the family is upside down. After signing the divorce agreement, his ex-wife still gritted her teeth and said that he will not be better in the future. Dong Hao himself is very relieved. With a sigh of relief, I thought that I was rarely able to regain my freedom.
Once people relax and look at the empty room, how could they not have any other ideas? In addition, Dong Hao is just in his early thirties. Not willing to be single for a lifetime.
By chance, he met Xiao Xu, the front desk of the office building, and he was instantly hit by the youthful look of the young girl in front of him, and he faced her every day at work and after work. His smile just feels like a spring breeze. But is this really love?
When the ex-wife wants to help herself to pursue happiness _p4span _p4span _strong span1 span1 , He unexpectedly discovered that Xiao Xu turned out to be the daughter of his ex-wife’s best friend. Such a go around was really a surprise.
thinks that bad luck is undeserved, but he didn’t expect that when he was chatting with Xiao Xu by accident. I was bumped into by my ex-wife and my best friend. The ex-wife and my best friend had a new year relationship, but the two of them almost didn’t say anything, so my best friend looked at Dong Hao with full alertness.
However, his ex-wife’s attitude is interesting.When I saw myself as an enemy's ex-wife, she looked at her with a meaningful look, and even greeted her actively. In the evening, when returning home from get off work, his ex-wife took the initiative to chat with herself. Dong Hao felt it was like a weasel giving a New Year greeting to the chicken.
Sure enough, the ex-wife guessed that she was interested in Xiao Xu, so she pretended to be entangled and said: "How could her mother agree to be together? You have been divorced once and you are not too old, I think You are in vain."
"How can I do it?" Dong Hao also put aside his defenses for a while, and his ex-wife's steps led him to simply tell his true thoughts. "Don't worry, I'll find a way for you. It's not easy to meet someone you like. I'll intercede with her mother, so you can be brave to chase love."
Face this The empathetic ex-wife, Dong Hao was a little bit overwhelmed. He said before that he would not let me go. Now he is so heartbroken to himself. Has the sun come out from the west? At that time, I didn't think too much, just to make my sweetheart happy.
Sure enough, her attitude towards herself has changed a lot. She said that her mother disagrees before, but now she has acquiesced. For this reason, Dong Hao is very grateful to his ex-wife, thinking that if there is no good word from the ex-wife, the two people will not go so smoothly.
Seeing that the agreed wedding day is approaching, Dong Hao's heart is very surging. Although it is a second marriage, he also plans to entertain guests and even arrange a great for his ex-wife. The position of her, without her saying that her girlfriend would not have her own "happiness" now.
Everything is just a trap when I let my ex-wife understand , I just let my ex-wife know it, and I was just a bunch of ice dragons. trap. Has anyone seen a wedding scene where the bride cannot be found? Dong Hao experienced it. Just when he was desperately trying to finish the wedding as soon as possible, the words of his ex-wife chilled himself.
"Don't look for it, she won't come. She didn't plan to marry a bad man like you. What are you waiting for? You are really naive, I just show you good Want to be friends with you? I tell you don’t think about it. I will never forgive you. I still remember clearly what your mother insulted me..."
It made Dong Hao's mind buzzing like a curse. It turned out that she deliberately played a game with her girlfriends, so that Xiao Xu and her own acquaintance were nothing but fake. It turned out to be a joke of so many people present in exchange for giving true feelings in vain!
Dong Hao can't wait to find a seam to get in, but at the same time he feels ashamed of his long-term self-movement. I still think of people too purely. I really think that my ex-wife can help me to pursue happiness regardless of previous complaints, and I foolishly obeyed all her arrangements.
In the end, I was like a clown. Many relatives and friends attended a wedding without ending.Isn't you still the most embarrassing person? It's really sad.
So why do people always say that you should not provoke a woman when you provoke it? Some women don’t easily meet each other once they have a grudge. They have already planned to do everything in their hearts, and the people who tried to make their heartbreak pay the price for it. He even put on a mask to greet each other with a smile, but in the end he was so cruel and ignored the other party.
The most terrifying thing is that I give all my trust to the other person, and I am waiting with joy for the other person's kindness to help me kindly and without any defense. Just like Dong Hao, he had torn his face with his ex-wife, and now he kept saying to help him pursue happiness.
Some people are really hard to guard against. In society, we should keep our eyes open. Some people make two cuts, they deliberately just want to find a suitable opportunity to crush us. If we were caught in their trap in this way, who would we be proud of in the end?
Today’s topic:
Do you think you can become friends with your former partner after divorce?
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