Source: Nian Nian Mu Xin (ID: nnsg1021) Author: Nian Nian
Host: Lu Renjia Editor: Jiang Ziyi (internship), the article has been reprinted Contact the original account authorization
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Regarding adults’ feelings of loneliness, some people on the Internet have divided it into ten levels, ranging from one person to the supermarket, to one person moving and one person going. Have surgery.
Once, I discussed this topic with a few friends. Maizi suddenly told us: "If a person is considered the highest level of loneliness to perform an operation, then I have already experienced that kind of taste."
Her words surprised several of us. Ask her why she didn't say it at the time, so she can help her.
"Since I can solve the problem by myself, I don't want to bother you, and I don't want my friends to see my embarrassed and vulnerable side." Maizi smiled, looking like it's no big deal.
After listening to her, I felt sad for her at the same time. It is not difficult to imagine how much helplessness is hidden behind her calm expression.
They all say that there are too many unsatisfactory things in life, and they can only face it firmly and have no choice. This is of course right, but being strong does not mean being strong in everything.
I have read a sentence: You don't have to pretend to be strong all the time, you can leave a gap for others to love you. Now I also want to give it to my friend Maizi, so that she can understand that she can not always say "it's okay" to the people around her, or she can live as a team without being alone. Behind her, someone loves her.
If you feel sad, talk to someone close to you appropriately; if you are sick or injured, don't be afraid to reach out to your close friends in time for help. This is not a shame, nor is it evasion and compromise. On the contrary, this is the first step in facing life.
Being strong is not about not shed a tear in the face of sadness, but to face the future life with a smile after wiping away the tears. We must be strong, but not pretending to be strong. We must embrace the truth and meet love when facing ourselves honestly.
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Have you ever had such an experience, knowing that your body is very tired, but thinking of all kinds of breathless pressure, you still choose to work hard. It's like a climber walking forward with a heavy load. He can't move his steps anymore, still reluctant to unload his luggage, and reluctant to give himself time to breathe.
In the adult world, no one does not know that health is expensive, but they are all choosing to carry it hard. In fact, people know how to be self-reliant, which is a very positive thing, but if you blindly embarrass yourself because of this, you will put the cart before the horse. Life is a long journey that needs to travel across the mountains. We can carry it for a while, but we can't carry it for a lifetime.
There is only one kind of bravery in the world, that is, after seeing the truth of life, still full of enthusiasm, facing difficulties. Not at the expense of repression and reluctance to live a hard and sad life.
The harder the heart, the easier it will be worn out. It is better to learn to adjust yourself, rest when you are tired, and eat when you are hungry, so that your heart will become softer and your life will be more motivated.
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In the adult world, everyone has their own challenges, and they all move forward with weight, which is very helpless. But from another perspective, although we cannot choose the situation in life, we can choose what attitude to face.
"Give yourself time, don't worry, take it step by step, day by day, please believe that the resilience of life is amazing, cooperate with your upward heart, and don't give up the love for yourself."
It's not easy, the more you should treat yourself well. Just as someone said: Growing up means that when I was sad, I didn't think about oil and salt. Now I can go to the kitchen while crying, make a bowl of noodles for myself, and don't forget to add a poached egg.
The road of life is not smooth,Growth means going through many storms, and true maturity actually starts when we learn to take care of ourselves in the storm.
can't do things, don't have to be too reluctant; if you can't carry things, don't have to be hard on your shoulders. Living out the toughness of life, being a strong, brave but gentle person, is the best way to live in harmony with this world.
There is no waste of suffering in life. Through the hardest days, there will be sunshine all over the ground. But now, you need to breathe a sigh of relief first, don't be aggressive, don't hold on.
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