Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law seem to be natural enemies. Two people are considered to be a family, but it seems that mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can never get along with each other. I don’t want to treat my daughter-in-law as a family at all. I don’t know that the daughter-in-law is the son’s lover. If you make things difficult for the daughter-in-law, the son will not be happy, but the mother-in-law doesn’t think about it at all. What he did has hurt his son deeply.
It is not a small number of people who divorce their son and daughter-in-law because of their mother-in-law. Some mother-in-laws make things difficult for their daughter-in-law. They feel that they are teaching their daughter-in-law to do things, but what she did has caused her. Your dissatisfaction also affected the relationship between your son and daughter-in-law. You think you are doing it for the good of your son, but will your son really appreciate everything you have done for him?
Today’s story comes from the sharing of fan Li Chao.
Mother is dissatisfied with his wife .
Li Chao and his wife Ye Han were college classmates. At that time, Ye Han was a school flower, and there were many suitors around him. Li Chao was one of them. Ye Han finally chose to be with Li Chao. Personal feelings are also very good.
After graduating from university, both of them got a good job,Li Chao also proposed to Ye Han. Ye Han was very happy at the time and agreed to Li Chao’s proposal without saying anything. After that, he went home with Li Chao to meet his parents. Li Chao’s mother was not satisfied with Ye Han. Feeling that she was useless except for her beauty, she naturally disagreed with the marriage between the two people. Ye Han was very sad at the time, so Li Chao took Ye Han to get the marriage certificate.
The mother-in-law felt that her son was very obedient since childhood, but she did not expect to do such a thing this time. She felt that Ye Han had damaged Li Chao, so she had a bad attitude towards Ye Han. Fortunately, the two people lived outside alone after they got married. They didn't have the money to buy a house. They rented a house outside. Ye Han didn't feel aggrieved. She believed that as long as two people worked hard, everything would be there.
Of course her mother-in-law wouldn't let Ye Han live a comfortable life. She ran to their house in two or three days and said to help them with the housework, but after coming, she made trouble for Ye Han. Saying that she is not good or that is not good, and also talking about why she is so unlucky, marrying a daughter-in-law like Ye Han, Ye Han thinks that she is not as bad as her mother-in-law, she feels uncomfortable, and complained to Li Chao. Several times, Li Chao thought that his mother didn’t like Ye Han, but now that the two of them are married, and his mother has admitted to the marriage, he shouldn’t do anything excessive to Ye Han, so he just let Ye Han bear it. Now, don't talk back to your mother, saying that your mother is an elder.
Li Chao also has a younger sister. Because her mother-in-law's attitude towards Ye Han is not good, the sister-in-law is naturally unwilling to respect Ye Han's sister-in-law. Faced with her mother-in-law and her sister-in-law, Ye Han has always Endure, she doesn't know how long she can hold on.
Ye Han became pregnant shortly after marriage. She was very happy at the time and felt that the baby came at the right time.She thought that if she could give birth to a child, her mother-in-law would also change her attitude, and her life would be better, but she didn't expect her mother-in-law to be like this after pregnancy. She didn't care about the child in Ye Han's belly at all. No matter what, Ye Han was very sad, and she no longer had any expectations of her mother-in-law.
divorced from his wife because of his mother .
Ye Han’s belly is getting bigger and bigger. One day she received a call from her mother-in-law, saying that she wanted to eat fried dumplings, and asked Ye Han to buy them for her and deliver them to her. Ye Han thought about herself She was inconvenient and planned to order a takeaway for her mother-in-law, but her mother-in-law said that the store did not deliver take-out, so she had to buy it. After hearing Ye Han hesitate, the mother-in-law shouted, "Are you a daughter-in-law like this? I asked you to do something, but you don’t want it. I can’t tell you, am I?" Ye Han felt a little unhappy after hearing her mother-in-law's words, but she agreed. Unpleasant.
It was winter. It was snowing outside and the road was slippery. Ye Han was standing cautiously in the snow waiting for the bus. She was shaking with cold, and finally waited for the bus and took a seat. I went to the place selling fried buns. The fried buns were indeed very popular. There were a lot of people in line. Ye Han was a little worried when he saw the long line, but he still got in line. People quarreled because someone jumped in the line. Ye Han was also tired during the push and hustle. She fell directly to the ground. Ye Han felt that something was wrong at the time and hurriedly asked the people around to send her to the hospital. Li Chao called.
the child was not saved in the end,Ye Han was very sad. After Li Chao came, he couldn’t accept this fact. In a hurry, he accused Ye Han of going there to buy fried buns on a snowy day. Ye Han angrily said to Li Chao, “It’s not that I want to eat, yes. Your mother called and asked me to buy it." Li Chao said, "Don't you know how to refuse? You ran out even knowing that you had a big belly." How can I refuse with a tough attitude? When the child was gone, Ye Han was extremely disappointed with Li Chao, so he filed for a divorce with Li Chao. Li Chao felt that Ye Han wanted to divorce because he was sad for a while without the child, but Ye Han's attitude was very firm and he had to say anything. After the divorce, the two went to the Civil Affairs Bureau to go through the divorce procedures.
angry mother .
After the divorce, Li Chao thought about it carefully. His mother was a very powerful person. She was also dissatisfied with Ye Han before. He began to believe that it was her mother who forced Ye Han to go out to buy fried buns on a snowy day. As a result, Ye Han lost his child, but the two had divorced and everything was irreversible. He did not tell his parents about his divorce.
Li Chao's mother sprained her foot when she went out to dance. She was very serious and needed someone to wait for her. At this time, she thought of Ye Han, so she called Li Chao and said, "Son, let my daughter-in-law resign to serve. I, your sister’s travel ticket can’t be refunded.” After listening to her mother’s words, Li Chao felt very uncomfortable. She now thinks of Ye Han, but her mother had been dissatisfied with Ye Han before and forced her to go out on a snowy day. Frying the buns resulted in the loss of the child and the two divorced. Now I want Ye Han to serve her. How could it be possible?
Li Chao said to his mother: "How can you have a daughter-in-law?We were divorced. After the child was gone, she was disappointed in me, so she filed for divorce with me. "The mother-in-law didn't expect her son and daughter-in-law to get divorced. Although she didn't want to see Ye Han, she felt that Ye Han was a submissive person. She didn't expect that she would file a divorce with her son.
Li Chao His mother comforted him and said, "It's okay, Mom will find you a better wife. "After hearing what his mother said, Li Chao said angrily to her mother: "Mom, stop mingling with me. It's because you and Ye Han are divorced. If you didn't force her to go out and buy fried buns on a snowy day, we 'S child has now been born, and we have become a family of three. I could have been very happy, but all this was ruined by you. "After listening to her son, Li Chao's mother was a little guilty, but she couldn't change anything.
There are many wicked mother-in-laws like Li Chao's mother in life. After the daughter-in-law married in, they treated their daughter-in-law I made things difficult and thought of my daughter-in-law when I was in need. I really can’t get along with such a person.
son, since he decided to marry his daughter-in-law, as a mother, he must respect His choice may seem to you that the son and the daughter-in-law are not a good match, but who can say clearly about the relationship? As long as the two of them live happily, it's fine, why should we make things difficult for the daughter-in-law and affect the relationship between the son and the daughter-in-law. What about your relationship?
The mother-in-law and the daughter-in-law are not related by blood, so naturally they cannot treat the daughter-in-law as a daughter, but since the daughter-in-law is married into your family, she is a member of your family.Even if you don’t like her, you should not make things difficult for her. Daughter-in-law is the son’s lover. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law cannot get along with each other friendly. , Don’t make things difficult for your daughter-in-law and affect the feelings of their husband and wife.
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