I don't know from the end of the time, I keep abiding by a criterion that is not a criterion. If you don't be the person who automatically disconnects, and the group that hangs up the phone first, business will not be righteous. I think it’s okay...but it’s not necessary. I’ve never automatically deleted any WeChat from my ex. Of course, it’s not because I still have any thoughts, but when I was still a ignorant and innocent girl, there was a boy who was a few years old. I have said that more important than venting bad breath is to have good looks.
I admit that there are too many things in this world that are more important than the so-called demeanor, such as making money, such as homework, such as livelihood. But love seems to be a bit different. When a group is angry, because it is confined to the past, it loses this little demeanor, it is indeed less beloved and charm.
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The so-called break-up involves more than separating from a group and deleting contact information. The view is that we can no longer share our thoughts with each other. Breaking up requires us to face and deal with the impact of our predecessors, and even Experience part of self-reorganization.
Therefore, breaking up will determine your ego. You will feel that some of the things that make up your sense of identity are moving away, and you can also want to automatically peel off the traces left by the other party on you, so you feel a lack of self.
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Together, the more people feel that they lose their growth in contact, the more they can feel the general destruction of themselves after breaking up. But it is precisely this kind of destruction that brings us the key to reunite with ourselves. You need to put the attention that was originally placed on the other party back to yourself, and distinguish which of your current self belongs to you, which is left to you by the other party, and whether there are some that you had before you entered the contact, but because This relationship was lost.
After examination and selection, you will use these fragments, and you will gradually form a new self, independent and incomplete in the future. After all, no matter how much influence your predecessor has on you, you are the protagonist of the days to come.
Those who leave are no longer a part of you, and those who stay, belong to your future.
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