Foreword--In human nature, there is unconscious negativeness. We resist it and look at human nature in a more positive light.
There is no difference between good and evil in human nature, but acquired factors are added to them, resulting in different personalities for each person.
Maugham once said: "Despicable and great, vicious and kind, hatred and love, can be mutually exclusive and coexist in the same heart."
People have many instincts and desires, some of which are compatible with each other. There are serious conflicts between our moral senses. They are shielded by consciousness, but they exist exactly, making us fall into endless pain and anxiety.
Until one day, our consciousness illuminates those terrible thoughts, and we finally understand: It turns out that I have such a primitive, ugly, and evil side.
When a person understands his limitations and nastyness, he instead leads to more freedom.
We are all "hypocrites"
When judging one thing, double bidding seems inevitable.
The more people who accuse others of faults quickly and emotionally, the more likely they are to ignore their own faults.
When people evaluate the same selfish behavior (such as assigning a relatively easy job to themselves), they think that what they do is more legitimate, while others do not.
We are too easy to double-label, and it is too easy for us to find sufficient reasons to double-label.
Double standard, as the name implies, is double standard. Two standards are used to measure two or more things.
There are many times when people dislike the word double standard and think that double standard is bad and derogatory.
But we often do this kind of double bidding without knowing it.
If you don't believe me, let us review the double standard phenomenon in our daily life.
1. When driving: walking without eyes!
When walking: How did this car drive?
has no quality at all. Don't know how to be courteous?
2. On the bus: Why are you crowded with so many people? You won’t wait for the next bus?
When squeezing the bus: What's wrong with you walking in, I am not alone.
3. Waiting for the takeaway: Why is this takeaway so slow?
When I met a food delivery company on the road: Why is this food delivery ride so fast!
Human nature is inherently good, no one is perfect, bad people have good times, and good people have bad times.
Similarly, we tend to attribute the faults of others to their character. For example, when lovers are derailed, we think that their character is defective;
and when we encounter the same situation, we will Blame the fault on the outside world.
The worst among us has so much good, and so much evil lies in our kindest person. Evil is something most of us must bring to find every fault of other people.
100-1=0 law
This is of course wrong in mathematics, but it is true in human nature.
There is no shortage of people like this in life. You treat him 100 times well, but he doesn't remember, once you don't let him be satisfied, he will turn his face and deny him, and obliterate all the good things you had done to him.
human nature is the same, the needs of human nature:
first desire: self-esteem, importance and self-worth
includes reputation, power, beauty, sense of accomplishment, desire to win, desire to destroy, desire to express and many more.
The second desire: the pursuit, possession and enjoyment of material and trait achievements.
Third desire: sexual satisfaction
Fourth desire: Pursue happiness and escape pain
Fifth desire: Health
Sixth desire: Security: included The safety of the body, the sense of belonging in the team.
The seventh desire: all forms of love and being loved
The eighth desire: freedom, autonomy, and inviolability of privacy
The ninth desire: new experiences and adventures;
boils down to one sentence : The deepest desire of human nature is to gain the approval of others.
Meat is divided into five layers and three levels, people are divided into three or six or nine levels, and human nature is the same!
Hugo once sighed in " Les Misérables":
p0span is no longer in a certain degree of suffering. I won’t thank you any more for the benefit.”A person’s kindness, under extreme conditions, often shows its sincere edge.
You took out all your savings and bought a family scooter. Someone crashed the car. You must be distressed. It is inevitable that you have to export and hurt people, which may cause a fight.
If you are a billionaire and drive a luxury car and someone hits it, you probably won’t be too entangled. It’s a trivial matter, and your time is more valuable and you can’t afford to delay it.
The delivery boy knows that he would rather crash into a luxury car.Don't want to crash into a low-end car.
Is the richer kinder?
Human nature is interlinked. If you want, you can find countless examples of the poorer being kinder.
What is kindness?
Kindness does not mean that you are touched and dedicated to everything;
It is to give each other a mutual understanding and respect when two pure souls inadvertently collide with each other.
Poor has faith, rich and benevolent.
I think of the sentence in the parasite:
rich people are kind.
Therefore, I think poverty alleviation is not just an economic and social treatment, but mental poverty is the most worthy of support.
Being rich is not only about money, but also spiritual abundance on a material basis.
Human nature is the most difficult thing to think about. When a person advertises what kind of person he is in front of you, it is a talk of experience.
You must be vigilant. It is often not the case, because a person's character is not judged by his self-perception alone, but by seeing his style of work after contact.
In the depths of human nature, angels and demons are together, and we can never distinguish people simply by good or bad!
To empower the kind angels in the depths of human nature, to nourish your own goodness with reflection and gratitude, and to inspire others' goodness with your own goodness!
University has a saying: "The way of a university,In Mingmingde, we are close to the people and stop at the perfection. "
Education has only one ultimate goal, which is to make our soul nobler when we leave.
Kindness is like a seed. The kindness that we inadvertently plant will one day be kind.
No relationship is always indestructible. Only by nurturing the relationship with kindness can you accumulate good luck for yourself invisibly.
Human nature is full of evil. I don’t deny that, but I don’t. It means that we have to give up our goodness because of the evil of others.
In this noisy
, how should we go with the beauty and ugliness, goodness and hypocrisy of human nature Relative?
"Human nature is inherently good" or "human nature is inherently evil" debate has been going on for thousands of years. Is human nature full of good intentions or full of evil?
What is human nature?
Man is divine and animal. The synthesis of, there are good things that you can't imagine, and there are more evils that you can't imagine.
There is no right or wrong, this is human.
No one is more despicable than anyone, no one is more noble than another, you will never be able to Estimate, who will you be?
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