The day of marriage is a very important moment for both men and women. After being married, they will be a family. It’s a shame. Unfortunately, some people don’t understand this truth. Marriage is like a child’s play in their eyes. .
1. On the day of the wedding, the groom left the bride to pick up his ex-girlfriend
The first bride is now single, but she will never forget the heartbreaking moment on the wedding day, just as she was sitting in the house waiting for the groom to come and marry herself , Suddenly there was a riot outside the door, and my best friend quietly told her the situation: The groom is gone!
The bride was stunned at the time, thinking that the bridegroom regretted it, but who knows the real situation might as well regret the marriage , it turns out that this bridegroom was to pick up his ex-girlfriend went, the ex-girlfriend sent him a message He said that he would give him a red envelope for his newlyweds, and the groom decisively threw down all his relatives and friends and went downstairs to greet him.
At that time, the bride knew nothing. When she got into the car and the groom went to the restaurant, the groom actually strongly1strong thought he was "magnanimous" told her about it. The bride became angry and asked the car to drive back. This marriage is over!
2. On the day of the wedding, the man’s ex came to provocation
There were a lot of bad things on the day of the wedding. There was a bride who was being held by her father to the groom, telling her good feelings on the stage. The door came in , a woman , dressed in a fancy dress, interrupted the wedding process and insisted on coming to the stage to present flowers to the couple.
This woman is the man’s ex-girlfriend ,The two were childhood sweethearts, and both parents knew each other. They broke up because they were too tormented in a long-distance relationship, but after they broke up, they were still disconnected. has always been called "brother and sister" .
Until the day the man got married, the woman couldn't bear it. She deliberately came to the wedding banquet to spoil the situation. She told the "past events" that the bride didn't know, and she yelled after being framed by the security guard.
3. On the wedding day, the woman entertains all her exes
The "feast for the ex" was very popular in the past few years. 's stalk, some maverick young people like this kind of personality behavior, so they set it up on their weddings. The "predecessor table" is added.
A bride did this, and only two people showed up at the table of the ex. They had no feelings for the bride, and they fought when they drank. The scene was very ugly.
A bridegroom did the same, but no one at the table of his predecessor did not come. Not only did he not satisfy his "personality", but instead gave birth to some gossip , many people think that others The product is so bad that the predecessor is not willing to join in.
Fourth, the wedding is the opening ceremony of the future
Judging from various real cases, marriage or love is very "selfish" thing, it only happens when two people admire each other Sweet happiness can only be obtained when people are . One more person in is always superfluous .
The predecessor is not everyone's capital to show off. Some people think that is "remembered" by others. can show their charm,In fact, this will only hurt the lover's feelings, consume the other's vision for a better life in the future, and become a thorn in 's heart .
In the future life, because of the existence of this thorn, the injured party's patience for life becomes worse, the tolerance for the lover is reduced, and some people are very smart and even choose to run away. If you don’t give the other party a chance to continue hurting yourself, the marriage will not be completed, because the injured person can't see the future hope.
5. Entering the marriage hall, how should you treat your ex? How can parents help their children get out of trouble?
Two people broke up, whether it was regret or anger, whether it was helplessness forced by reality or walking from love to hate, the end is the breakup. After separation, the two people are going forward, each has its own direction, and then It is difficult to return to the state of loving each other.
Some young people are very easy for to struggle with their ex, reluctant to give up , or feel that is unwilling because of their long-term emotional and material involvement , unwilling to see their former lover marry someone else.
This is a very selfish sentiment , to put it bluntly, when was together there was no courage to break through the obstacles of reality , broke up and did not want the other person to find their own happiness, was too possessive Strong is not a good thing.
If parents find that their children have such a situation, they must be to enlighten their children as early as possible ,Communicate more with your children, let them have an object to talk to, give more understanding in the communication, let them vent their negative energy, so that they can reorganize their emotions and feelings, try to say goodbye to the past, and move forward bravely.
Many parents will rudely think that the child’s reluctance to give up to the ex is a "failure" performance. chooses a very rough solution , which is to arrange a blind date for the child . In fact, this is not the case. It worked for everyone.
Children are immersed in emotional entanglements with their ex. When they are on a blind date, it is easy to compare with their ex, , and picky. It's hard to cheer up.
The child is in emotional entanglement. What he needs most is to talk and understand , and gradually realize the shortcomings and bad things of the other party or himself during the talks again and again, and figured out this time What is wrong in the relationship, realize that the relationship between the two sides is difficult to reconcile, and don't get into the horns with unrealistic ideas.
During this period, parents must become a excellent listener , and don't scold the child's predecessor frequently, so as not to arouse the child's disgust. After talk a few times and stay calm for a long time, the child will gradually get out of this unreliable relationship.
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