National Day is coming soon. I called my grandfather in my hometown and wanted to pick him up in the city for the festival. He refused in one fell swoop and directly responded to me with two words: no.
I thought he was angry with me. I blamed me for visiting Lao Zhang's house during the Mid-Autumn Festival and didn't return to my hometown to see him. So I patiently said all the good things, and asked my son to call my grandfather a few times, trying to attract him with my child.
Grandpa usually likes great-grandson the most. Every time I call him, he will chat with my son. Although communication is not smooth most of the time, it does not affect his enthusiasm.
But this time is different. He still did not agree. Grandpa hesitated for a while and said: Lao Zhang, who opened a small shop in the village, is in poor health these days. Accompany him. When this matter is over, he will come to see his great-grandson again.
After listening to Grandpa, I can’t help but think back to when Grandpa Zhang’s canteen was the busiest place in the village more than 20 years ago. At that time, grandpa Zhang’s canteen was the most lively place in the village. Whether you are an adult or a child, you always like to go to his canopy. Turn around.
My hometown is in a small village in southern Jiangsu. There are thirty or forty households in the village, which are distributed on both sides of a small hill. The scenery here is beautiful and beautiful.
The village is relatively remote. It is more than 20 miles away from the nearest market. It used to be a dirt road. The last time on the street was not easy. It took nearly an hour to ride a bicycle. It was just a town. .
Later, Grandpa Zhang opened the first small shop in the village, and it is the only one so far. His home is at the entrance of the village, so he will pass by his door when he leaves the village and enters the village.
Grandpa Zhang is very kind in business, like some daily necessities, such as: oil, salt, vinegar, towels, toilet paper, toothpaste, toothbrush, etc. The prices are similar to those on the street, and there are some snacks, tobacco and alcohol. , It’s not expensive either, you might just buy it on the street just a few cents cheaper.
And his attitude is very enthusiastic. Whether you buy something or not, as long as you see it at the door, he will greet you enthusiastically.When you go shopping, he will just stuff a candy for you and take it back for the child to eat.
Therefore, most of the things that everyone can buy at his commissary will be bought at his house, unless they are not sold at his house, they will go to the street to buy them.
In childhood memories, I like to follow my elders to the commissary. Every time I can get a candy from Grandpa Zhang, or sometimes a small balloon, sometimes the elders are in a good mood, and I will buy a pack of other snacks. .
Grandpa Zhang’s house bought a TV very early. I remember that when I was a child, there were two popular TV series, "Wu Zetian" and "Joking about Qianlong". At that time, after dinner every night, many people would go to Grandpa Zhang’s house to watch On TV, he is also generous, putting the TV series at the entrance of the commissary for everyone to watch.
Sometimes adults will buy some beer and sunflower seeds, and chat while watching TV, while children watch TV for a while and play with their friends for a while, full of fun.
Sometimes it’s too early. Grandpa Zhang’s family is still eating. When we see our children pass by, he will pick up some dishes for us. Sometimes it’s a few peanuts, sometimes a piece of meat, and sometimes , He would take his chopsticks dipped in a little wine and give us a sip, and laughed at us with a grin.
But I was really happy at that time, maybe because I was young, only five or six years old, there was nothing to worry about, every day I wanted to run to the commissary, and sometimes adults could not find their children, they would go directly to the commissary. Find, find the right one.
Later I went to school. Every time I went to school, I would pass by the commissary. Grandpa Zhang usually sits on the lounge chair at the door. When he sees us going to school, he will tell us to study hard, and then give me two candies. Sometimes If we are in a good mood, we will directly give a bottle of soda, we are very happy.
Later I went to junior high school and moved to the city. At the beginning, I would go back to my hometown every week. Later, as my studies became nervous, I went home less often. I went home once a month. Go back only once in a few months.
Every time I pass by the village entrance, Grandpa Zhang sees me and asks me if I am not used to studying in the city? Can learning keep up? Have you been bullied by others?
I was the first in our village to go to school in the city,So every time I go back, it is quite lively. Generally, when I walk from the entrance of the village to my house, the folks on the way will greet me enthusiastically, and they will also ask me about my studies, encourage me to study hard, and then strive to enter the university.
After I arrived in high school, my family bought a house in the city, so I seldom go back. I only go back to visit my grandfather during the holidays.
Later, I went to university, and after graduating from university, I stayed in the capital city to work. Then I settled down here. I went back less often. I went back two or three times a year.
In the past 20 years, great changes have taken place in the village. Every time I go home, I have a refreshing feeling.
In the past few years, the traffic in the village has become more and more convenient. From the mud road in the past to the sand road in the later period, and then to the cement road directly built into the village, the road to the street is very smooth, and there is no need to worry about rain or snow anymore. The weather is up.
The living standards of the villagers have also improved a lot. The old brick houses have also been replaced by all-in-one buildings. Several houses have enclosed yards and built small villas. The yards are planted with flowers, flowers and grass, which look very Is envy.
The bicycles are almost invisible. I almost bought motorcycles and battery cars. I also bought a car when the conditions are good. Now it takes more than ten minutes to go to the street.
As people’s living standards improve, more and more people are beginning to pay attention to children’s education, so many uncle generations have moved to towns or cities in order to provide children with a good educational environment and living environment.
Most of the people who are still in the village are old people of the grandfather generation, and a few of the uncle generations. The village is not as lively as before. Many people have built houses when the conditions in their homes were relatively good at first, and now they are They were all idle and moved to live in the city.
Those who have sons and marry a daughter-in-law have to live in the city, and those who have daughters, who have married and moved away. Now when I go back to the village, I rarely see people of my generation. Only during the New Year is it more lively and you can see the big Most folks, this is also the busiest time in the village every year.
My grandma passed away a few years ago. My parents wanted to bring my grandfather to live together in the city.Grandpa refused. He said that he was not used to life in the city and had no people he knew. He was very uncomfortable every day. He occasionally came to play once. He also wanted to go back to the country after a few days and missed his old partner. In the future, we would have to follow him, send him back to the village, and then take turns to go home to visit him occasionally.
Last year, my grandfather was unwell. I took my child back to my hometown for a week. My grandfather was able to take the great grandson with him, and his mental state improved a lot. During that week, I took annual leave and did not have the pressure of work. The country is also very comfortable.
Grandpa Zhang’s commissary is still open, but the business is not as good as before, because now it’s convenient for everyone to go to the street, some things will be bought together when they go to the street, and the total number of people in the village is also small, so consumer demand will naturally increase Most of the young people have moved out, and the remaining ones will also shop online. The old people will also have food and drink sent by their children at home, and there is nothing short of them.
Only when cooking at home find that some seasonings are missing, or some small daily necessities suddenly broke, will I go to Grandpa Zhang’s house to buy it, or if it is a guest at home, like me, I brought my children back. The old people will buy some snacks in advance and come back for the children to eat.
However, although Grandpa Zhang’s business is not good, it is still the busiest place in the village. I stayed in the village for a week. Grandpa would take my son to Grandpa Zhang’s house every day. I also followed him several times. There were more people in the canteen than I saw in the village.
Why, because the village is dwindling, and most of them are old people. They usually like to drop by at home when they have nothing to do. Grandpa Zhang’s family is at the entrance of the village and the geographical position is superior, and his door is relatively empty, so he made cement. In the past, his house was very lively, so gradually everyone got used to visiting his house.
Grandpa Zhang is also a lively person. It doesn’t matter whether he has business or not. The most important thing is to be able to chat with fellow villagers. He bought 3 sets of chess, and the supply exceeds demand every day. There are people playing chess on the three tables, and there is a lot of money on the side. There was a group of onlookers. At first I thought that a group of people were doing something together, but when I saw it in the past, I realized that it was playing chess.
The quality of the masters is quite high,Watching chess is not a true gentleman. After the game is finished, the person watching the chess next to you will say which move you just made is wrong, which calculation is wrong, and so on. Sometimes you have to talk about other people’s stinky chess baskets. I was so mad and ignored each other for several days, but after a few days it was better again.
And the grandma is here to wash dishes, choose dishes, chat, there are more people here, it is more lively than at home alone, when it's time for dinner, grandparents will go home to cook and eat together, and have a rest. Will come again.
Sometimes they will bring a la carte and cook together at Grandpa Zhang’s house, and then we will eat together. Sometimes when it’s time for a meal, Grandpa Zhang’s house will make a meal and they will also call some lonely elderly people. Eating there, everyone did not dislike the quality of the food. They were all folks for decades, and they were not so polite, so they stayed and ate together.
When I was over there, Grandpa Zhang also left me for dinner, but my family was too crowded, so I was not embarrassed, so he asked Grandpa to take the kids home for dinner, and Grandpa Zhang asked me to bring my family with me next time. Came over for a meal and said that I hadn't been in the village for many years, and it was rare that I had to go to his house for a meal once I came back.
Grandpa told me that the most lively thing is actually every New Year’s holiday, because every few days of the holiday, the children will come back, there is no time to come over to play, after the festival, the children left with the children, the old people again It was the most difficult time to recover from the desertedness of the past.
At this time they will come to Grandpa Zhang to chat, play chess, and talk about the current situation of their children. Whose child has made money in recent years, who has added grandchildren and granddaughters, and who grandchildren are looking for Daughter-in-law, short in the parent, everyone talked with gusto.
Some people would say that the kid still wore open crotch pants back then, and now he married a wife and gave birth to children. In other words, the baby in your family was able to adjust his skin when he was in school, and he often made troubles in the village, and now he is all promising.
Old people like to hear others praise their children for their promise, and their children are praised, and they are happier than being praised by others. If you say that his children are not good at all, they may be sulking with you for a long time.
Every time the children come back, they will bring a lot of food and drink to the old people to play.At this time, Grandpa Zhang's house became like an exhibition hall, and the old people would compare each other.
How much money does the child give, who brings what wine, who buys new clothes, who buys a new mobile phone, and who takes the elderly out to travel, these will become the content of the comparison, and then can After talking for ten days and a half month, I wish everyone in the village would know that if they were satisfied, they would go home with a satisfied look.
Sometimes old people will take wine and snacks from their children to Grandpa Zhang’s house for dinner, and give everyone a taste. No matter how good the gift is, it’s not interesting to enjoy it alone. Take it out and share it with everyone. , Hearing other people’s praise is much happier than being melancholy by myself.
Grandpa said that they were a few old wine bugs, so they drank different wines from all over the country, and they made a lot of jokes because they were drunk. In the past, the conditions at home were not good and I was reluctant to drink expensive wines. Later, when the conditions were better, I became accustomed to drinking cheap wines, so I became more reluctant to drink expensive wines.
Now that their children come back to visit the elderly, they like to buy some good wines. In fact, they don’t need to drink such good drinks at all. They just want to drink some ordinary drinks. Every time they have a good wine, they always get it from Grandpa Zhang’s house. , And then meet a few old neighbors to bring an order together, let Grandma Zhang help to do it, and we all have a taste together.
Over the years, they have drunk a lot of wine, such as Moutai, Wuliangye, Jiannanchun, Jinzunyin, Gujing Gongjiu, , Luzhou Laojiao Tequ _span_span 144span, Xifeng Liquor _span_span 143 , Dongjiu , almost all tasted. For them, the quality of the wine is second, and the most important thing is the excitement.
After drinking wine for so many years, in addition to local wine, they still feel that pure grain sauce-flavored wine is more accustomed.After drinking, they can continue to talk for a long time. Sometimes the old brothers are not convinced by each other, and they will fight for the alcohol. In the end, other people persuaded and persuaded them to stop.
He also said that the "12987" wine making process of the sauce wine that I told him last time made him show his face in front of the old buddies. In the past, they only knew about drinking, but they didn't know the wine making. How complicated the process is, the brewing process of "12987" is: 1 production cycle in 1 year, 2 feedings, 9 steaming, 8 apportioning and adding koji, and 7 wine taking.
Everyone said that Grandpa is now also a cultural person, and he has been able to drink culture, but later I asked Grandpa to talk about other things, and Grandpa didn't know how to make everyone laugh again.
Grandpa said on the phone that Grandpa Zhang has been in poor health since the beginning of this year. He is also over 80 years old. He has been to the hospital several times, and his children have come back many times for visits. He also knows get ready.
The old people in the village are basically fine during this time and will go to the canteen to chat with Grandpa Zhang and comfort him. Grandpa Zhang is already inconvenient to stand now. They are all lying on the recliner and sitting in front of the store. He also thought more openly. He took out the wine he had treasured for many years and distributed it to several old drinking friends in the village.
Grandpa Zhang also said that the shop would not be opened after he left. He was not willing to suffer from Grandma Zhang and asked Grandma Zhang to go to the city with her son. In the future, if the brothers wanted to drink, they just took the key here to drink. He gave the key to the village chief to keep.
I can't remember when Grandpa hung up the phone. I only remember that my eyes were blurred with tears when my wife called me. The appearance of Grandpa Zhang in my memory was blurred, but what emerged in my mind was the kindness of his youth.
Parent's beloved son, the plan is far-reaching. The old people have worked hard all their lives, hoping that their children will grow up and go out of the countryside, but what have we done now?
After living in the city, I don’t want to go back to the countryside to visit the elderly. Like myself, I always use work as an excuse, but I really want to go back. It’s only three or four hours’ drive away.But except for some festivals, I rarely go back. Now I really blame myself and regret it.
The old people want us to be talents and we want to make money, but they don’t ask for anything in return. What they want is not the material things we give them, but our company. It’s rare to go back once. Can be happy for a long time.
I think of the scene when my grandfather took me when I was a child, and every time Grandpa Zhang used to greet me, my heart could not be restrained and became excited. This National Day, I decided to bring my wife, children and parents, and go back to the village to watch. Look, I hope to see Grandpa Zhang again for the last time.
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