Some people say that the older a man is, the more attractive he is, and the older he is, the more popular he is. After I listened, I couldn't help rolling my eyes. That being the case, why didn't you see a young woman and chase the uncle madly, and instead followed the young and gold "little milk dog".
The charm I understand is not age, but the temperament that comes from a man. such as mature and stable, humorous and so on. This is the hormone for men to walk.
The charm of men is somewhat related to age. You can't ask a young guy in his early twenties to show a particularly stable side. At that age, he was more impetuous.
Immature and ignorant men are often not favored by women. Because they feel that being with such a man is like bringing a son, and there is no sense of security.
It seems that the age group when men are truly attractive is between 30 and 40 years old. After that, he was old and more twilight. It's just that in reality, most of the men in this age group are already married, and those who don't have become "older leftover men" in the eyes of the world.
Compared with older leftover women, I think the situation of older leftover men is even more embarrassing. Because they have more responsibilities, the pressure is naturally greater.
Most of the leftover women in the same age group are independent,The capital with choice, on the other hand, the older leftover men do not have a better right to choose.
A child lives in the heart of a man. It’s just that some people can’t distinguish between ideals and reality, so that they forget to do what they should do at their age.
I have always felt that when people reach a certain age, they should do things at this age. For example, getting married and having children does not mean that you can avoid it if you delay it.
The farther back, the worse. It is better to get married sooner rather than later. The son of my cousin’s family is handsome. When walking on the street, girls can’t help but look more.
Logically speaking, on his terms, it is not difficult to get out of the order. But with such superior innate conditions, he was shocked that he hadn't used it well, and he was even a little puzzled.
Family members have asked someone to introduce him to a blind date. Many of the women like him, but he doesn't like him, either because he dislikes his education, his height, or his temperament.
In short, there are always reasons why he doesn't like it. He feels that marriage is a life-long event. You can't be anxious and sloppy. Instead of regretting it in the future, it's better to keep the quality of it to a minimum and minimize the risk.
What he said also makes sense,The unsuitable will be more tormenting, so it is better to look for it slowly, and you will always encounter the right one. It's just that he is his age, and there is not much time to choose before his eyes.
almost all men of his age have married wives and have children. The eldest child is in elementary school, and he is still up and down in the crowd, and there is no sign of getting out of the singles. It's no wonder that his parents are so haggard that they don't think about eating and drinking all day.
The beloved son of his parents, he has far-reaching plans. Poor parents in the world. Their wishes for their children are actually the same. They don’t want to be rich, they just want happiness and satisfaction in the secular sense.
Because of this, the cousin and his wife will be urged by stitches. My cousin is also more individual. His left ear goes in and his right ear goes out. Despite his parents’ anxiety and worries, he still goes his own way and lives a particularly chic life.
The cousin saw that I had friendship with him and had a close relationship with him, so she secretly asked me to persuade me. Entrusted by others, loyal to others. I also had to reluctantly agree, no matter what, I hope he will be happy.
To this end, I organized a game where everyone had a drink and chat, and the atmosphere was more relaxed and cheerful. I saw that everyone was drinking too much, so I found the right time, pulled him aside, and asked him what he thought and why he didn't get married at this age.
he smiled bitterly,Do you know who they introduced me to? They are all divorced, and some even carry a drag oil bottle.
I think he is prejudiced, and divorced women are also good. You can't knock down a boat with a bamboo pole. No matter how I persuade him, he just won't listen, and even threatened "I would rather die alone, and don't marry a divorced woman."
is so angry that I want to beat him up without looking at my age. I am 38 years old. I need a house without a house, a car without a car, not to mention a deposit.
If someone is willing to marry him, don’t pick and choose. According to his standards, it is estimated that he has to continue to be single, and it will be a long way off.
Good love, even if it is late, it doesn’t matter. I believe in this point. It's just that some people will have prejudice against divorced women and feel that they have different degrees of problems, either because of their temperament, or something else, or they are too strong.
In short, there must be a problem, otherwise it will not go to the point of divorce. People who think like this, I laughed. , of course,Some divorced women did divorce because of their own problems, but some were forced to divorce. The root of the problem is not in them.
People like the latter are worthy of beautiful love. Because they are worthy and worthy. Former colleague Xiao Xu is lucky. Once I ran into a girl in a shopping mall, I have never forgotten her since then, looking forward to seeing her again.
He told me that when he saw the girl at the first glance, he decided that he was the one who was going to marry. I also laughed at him, how could he be so sure, you don't know each other, what if someone gets married.
After being told by me, he was a bit lost. Because feelings need to go in both directions to make sense, and he has only one side. If he wants to develop further, he needs other opportunities.
Maybe God heard his prayer, or maybe there is a fate between the two of them. When they met again, Xiao Xu took the initiative to ask her for contact information, and at the right time, he expressed his intentions.
Even if the girl is married once and is a divorced woman, Xiao Xu doesn't mind, and regrets that she didn't meet it earlier. I don't know how to say the love between the two of them. In short, it is very touching.
Now he is already the father of a pair of children, and his life is very happy and sweet, I really envy others. If he backed down and minded, he wouldn't be as good as he is now.
people often say,Those older youths are left behind because they are not too picky. I think there is a bit of truth, just like my cousin, according to his own conditions, wanting to get married is a matter of minutes, but he is picky, and he is still alone at the age of 38.
If he is the same in the future, sticks to his own opinion, prefers to die alone, and does not want to marry a divorced woman, then he will be a bachelor for all his life.
Of course, since he knows that he does not want to marry a divorced woman, he can find a leftover girl of the same age. I guess he is not happy again, he thinks they have tempers and are difficult to serve, so it is better to find some young girls.
I can understand his pick and choose, but on his terms, there is not much choice. To put it awkwardly, he is really worthless except for his good looks. There is no house, no car, no deposit, let alone a stable job. Such "four nos" older young people are really hard to get off the bill.
Maybe he will understand one day that marriage does not necessarily have to be the one he loves, but it must be the one with the highest match. Some people may not understand. In layman's terms, A good marriage must have something to do.
is like a 38-year-old leftover man. The reason why he refuses a divorced woman is because he covets youth and beauty. Unfortunately, the other party does not have one, so he has not come together. Please remember that marriages have their own pictures, and they are willing to unite together.
If you think about it,What is there in your body that is worthy of being coveted by others. If not, then quickly develop it, otherwise you will really die alone.
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