entrepreneur Feng Lun said a very intriguing remark:
"A person's true greatness is not to lead others, but to manage oneself." _span4pspan _span1 span1 A game between yourself and yourself.
At any time, not to give up the requirements of oneself, to manage oneself well, is a person's greatest ability.
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management image
You have a certain degree of self-discipline for yourself, knowing that you will also spend some time to organize yourself.
and often people in middle age, more directly, will ignore these after marriage, marriage is like a hurdle, married, don’t care anymore, the demand for the opposite sex is gone, and the image will slowly Not in pursuit.
This is how the middle-aged greasy man is called. Originally, with the devastation of the years, he got older, and his body and mind were not as diligent as before. He wanted to treat things as simple as possible.
In the life of ordinary people,Who doesn't have the pressure of firewood, rice, oil and salt, all trivialities? There is still energy to manage the image.
So the most important thing to manage your image is to manage your own mentality, learn to fight time, love life, like fitness, keep your mouth open, and wear your legs, no matter what your life is_ span4span
Whenever, don’t give in to life, don’t bow to the years.
The best skin care product in the world will always be your self-discipline and impatience.
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manages the body
has been a hot search.
A real estate chairman in Zhuzhou went to the hospital due to long-term fatigue and physical discomfort, and was found to have myocardial ischemia .
The doctor asked him to be hospitalized immediately for observation, but he didn't take it to heart, and he still tweeted in the circle of friends.
who ever thought,Only five days after refusing to be hospitalized, he died suddenly.
In one night, the academic qualifications and wealth of the prestigious schools he was proud of were all in vain.
Only young daughters and young wives are left alone in the world.
Apart from sighing, this also sounded a wake-up call for each of us.
Just like a netizen said: "Health is 1, and everything else is 0. Once there is no 1, there is no point in adding 0."
, all overdrawn health Afterwards, they must be repaid hundreds of times.
Managing the body is the most important investment in the world.
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03 03 Those who will ride the wind and waves, those who don't fall and are swallowed. "When you get into trouble, your mentality explodes. As a result, you make a mess of simple things;
You will find that as long as you do nothing under your control, you will fail.
Be angry with one's relatives, be angry with one's lover, be impatient with children, everything in life seems to be against you.
The more successful people are, the more they will manage their emotions.
The founder of has never been known in the industry, and Zhang Yiming has never been known for his temper. He was angry.
In fact, during the two years when the company’s business conditions continued, he had been anxious and irritable. It brings people around.
Really mature people know how to manage their emotions.
they should never lose their temper.Things that don't come in a hurry.Don’t mess around because of anger, and don’t use bad emotions to influence others.
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_span0pstrong The noise at night made him unable to sleep.
The next day when he was about to go to work, he met the neighbor upstairs. When he saw him, he quarreled and said a lot of bad things.
later learned from other neighbors that it turned out to be a little bit out of the house. Later, thinking about it, he was deeply impressed:
Those who know make speculation and blame, because you don't know what the other person has gone through."
In this world, no one can really understand another person.
It seems that there may be unknown injuries behind the domineering person. The person with a bright smile today may not cry last night.
Sometimes a word you carelessly may be an injury to others.
The old saying goes: "The benevolent is not responsible, and the good is not judged."
At any time, don't talk about hurting people and do less impulsive things.
manage your words and deeds in order to repair your heart.
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1span 1span 1span , It’s not that if you have more friends, it’s easy to walk, but if you have a good way, you will naturally have more friends.
You are in an upward circle of friends, and you will also upward. You are among a mob, and you are also one of them.
has always agreed with a sentence:
"To manage your interpersonal relationship,Instead of letting your interpersonal relationship manage you.
Eliminate unimportant people from the circle and concentrate on maintaining true beneficial friends. Those who truly understand life.
I like very much. A sentence from Wang Xiaobo : _1span4span _1span4span _1span4span _p7span1p
Since I exist, no matter what, I have to take responsibility for myself.
People are alive, and only when they are responsible for themselves can they be responsible for others.
Self-management is the practice of each of us in a lifetime.
