For a while, people often commented on the Internet that XX is really a ruthless person. This is often a compliment to a person at the highest level.
The term "ruthless" mostly refers to people who strictly manage their behavior and thoughts, and those who can be "ruthless" on themselves are also relatively successful people.
The natural enemy of man is inertia. It is human instinct to enjoy pleasure and work badly. Everyone likes to live a comfortable life, and no one is born to endure hardship.
As the saying goes: If you suffer from bitterness, you can become a master.
No one's success has ever fallen from the sky. People's success is always inseparable from hard work and luck, but opportunities are always reserved for those who are prepared.
If you look closely, you will find that the more "cruel" women around our lives, the more happier they are than others, and the reasons are all here.
"Heartlessly" invest in yourself, learn knowledge and gain insights
01), many people say: Women must be cruel to themselves.
The woman mentioned here is cruel to herself. Not only is she willing to spend money on herself, but she is also willing to spend time and energy on herself. This spending contains profound truth and meaning.
The so-called time is something that will continue to pass even if nothing is done. Therefore, the most precious thing in life is time.
A woman who is truly "cruel" to herself, willing to spend money on her own learning, arm her head, learn as much knowledge as possible, and make herself smart and wise.
Women who are truly cruel to themselves, devote their time and energy to learning knowledge and increasing their knowledge.
02), there is a real example in life: a female psychology professor who is nearly fifty years old, although she has published many psychology books, the students brought out are also full of peaches and plums. It can be said to be successful.
However, she did not lower her requirements,She still insists on learning all kinds of new knowledge every day, even if she holds online meetings with students, she keeps trying new software.
In order to learn knowledge outside of her research field, she spends more than 200,000 yuan to study psychological counseling at her own expense. In her words, she enjoys it every day.
It is a wise choice to know how to invest time and money in your own study. Compared with women who spend money on over-dressing and useless socializing, the gap in life will be bigger and bigger.
"Cruel" to make themselves self-disciplined
01) Some women who are "cruel" to themselves are not gluttonous in order to lose weight; for the sake of health, they insist on fitness not to be lazy; for the quality of life, they do not Random buying things, minimalist life.
They never indulge themselves, do what they should do, and don't waste any time and energy to do meaningless things, even if they want to.
They always keep themselves clear-headed, firm and decisive in doing things. These seem easy but not easy to do. This is a manifestation of inner strength and only self-disciplined people can do it.
In the TV series ", the ideal city ", Su Xiao encountered a challenge as soon as she went to work at Tiancheng. The department leaders deliberately made things difficult for her and asked her to do a lot of work in a short period of time.
Because of her strong professional ability, she was valued by the general manager of the company and promoted her to department manager, which caused dissatisfaction and jealousy from other colleagues.
02). Therefore, other people knew that the time was tight and the task was heavy, but they deliberately did not cooperate with her work. In desperation, she had to complete the workload of several people alone.
Su Xiao didn’t have time to eat. When she was hungry, she could just eat something. She worked overtime all night and was very sleepy. She lay down on the table for a while. When other colleagues came to work the next morning, she was still printing dizzyly. material.
The hard work is not in vain. Su Xiao has made outstanding achievements with his own hard work, won huge profits for the company, and helped the company win many bids.
Su Xiao not only challenged herself time and time again, and allowed herself to reach new heights one after another, but also won the recognition and respect of others.
A woman who can be cruel to herself is always self-disciplined and excellent, and will eventually become a person who is appreciated and admired by others.
"Heartlessly" change his shortcomings and become better and better
At the beginning of man, he was like a piece of uncut jade. If you want to make yourself a valuable work of art, To endure the pain of carving with a knife, this is a painful process of transformation.
If people want to become a successful person, they will also go through this process. Only by constantly changing their original shortcomings and shortcomings, and constantly improving themselves, will they become better and better.
Although the splendor of life is not limited to achievements, but life without achievements will definitely not be splendid.
A woman who is willing to "cruel" to change herself is often as calm and indifferent in her heart as a lake, because in the process of their transformation, they have gone through numerous challenges and even tribulations. They are calm after seeing big winds and waves.
As women, we try our best to make ourselves an outstanding "ruthless person", low-key, intelligent, thoughtful, knowledgeable, and capable of independent thinking, so that we can become the different splendid fireworks in the world.
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