The status quo of many people: I have not even talked about a serious relationship, and I started to be urged to get married
Many people did not get married, not because marriage is not important, but marriage Very important.
Grandpa Mao said that anyone who does not want to get married is a hooligan. Ideals are sometimes beautiful, but reality is often so undesirable. Either dislike you for being ugly, or dislike you for having no money, no one wants to do it, no one wants to improvise.
I want to find tall, rich, handsome, white, rich and beautiful, and then live a happy life. I am afraid that such a dream can only be found in dreams! If you are jealous of talents, you can also put it in love. In real life, there are very few tall, rich and handsome, and Bai Fumei can be together happily and happily. Too perfect, marriage life is always not long.
When talking about marriage, people always think of gift money involuntarily. So how much gift money can depend on the quality of the marriage?
Each answer has its own merits. Some people think that the more gift money, the better life after marriage. Those who have this point of view can guess without thinking, it must be the woman's parent.
They think that the gift money is a guarantee for their daughter after marriage. If one day the couple quarrel, or there will be a time when the relationship breaks down. Then the gift money can be used as a guarantee for the daughter's life, so she won't have to worry about living funds for a while.
Because of this gift, the man will treat his daughter better. And it can make the mother-in-law feel that her natal family is behind her back, so that her children will not be wronged. In case of an urgent need for money one day, you can help.
The neighbor’s brother is thirty years old this year,I talked about a girlfriend who is a teacher, who is about to get engaged in the near future. Don't need cash money, but also paste three houses. In the words of my mother-in-law: "How are people so good!"
After all, getting married in rural areas now costs a lot of money. If you want a house or a car, you also have to pay a cash gift. ten thousand. This is still a fourth-tier city, and the purchases are generalized. If they are at a good price, I am afraid that these are not enough?
For ordinary people, it is really good. Marrying a wife is like picking it up for nothing, can it be bad? But when you think about it, isn't that true anymore? If you don't need the gift money, will your in-laws look at you? To speak out is just to find a good daughter-in-law.
No gift money now, maybe more after getting married. After all, human nature has a little bit of greed. There will be no pie in the sky, and the sky will not pick up a daughter-in-law in vain.
I hope to marry a good daughter-in-law as people say after marriage, after all, I still yearn for a better life. No gift money is just to value this person and think that he has the ability. Marriage is always the same, either for money or for people.
What is love, how many people will understand? And we are just ordinary people, looking for love, being loved, or loving others all our lives. If you are happy, you may not understand it in your life, but you may understand it in your life. Being in love together is also a good happiness. You love it or not, it's all there, no more and no less.
The most important thing is that two people must know how to tolerate, understand and trust each other, and never leave them forever. The most meaningful thing for two people to be together is: to make each other better
May you work hard and be loved throughout your life, have everything you want, and let go of what you don't get.
Topic of this article: Do you think the amount of gift money can determine the happiness index of marriage?
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