The father is sick, and the daughter helps the father scrub his body. It is only natural for the children to honor their parents. Unexpectedly, many people in the village are discussing their family affairs!
Xiaomei is 32 years old this year. She is an only child. She is the village flower in my village. Not only is she beautiful, but she is also very tall. At that time, many men in my village pursued her, but she refused!
When she went to work outside, she met a man from other provinces. At first, her parents disagreed with them because she was an only child, and their parents didn’t want to marry their daughter so far. They wanted her to marry. Closer to home, it is convenient for parents to visit her.
However, despite the opposition of her parents, she insisted on marrying her, and her parents had no choice but to agree to her, and they married soon.
Just the second year after her marriage, her mother died in a car accident. Her father couldn't stand the shock of her mother's departure. He was heartbroken every day. It didn't take long for her father to become ill too.
Her dad is sick and hospitalized and needs to be taken care of. Because it is her daughter, it would be inconvenient to help dad scrub his body, but my husband is very busy at work and can’t spare time to take care of him, so please A male carer was hired to take care of my father.
Unexpectedly, the male carer hadn’t worked a day before, and my father would be dissatisfied with the carer, saying that the carer did not take good care of him.
Xiaomei listened to her dad saying this,She felt that asking others to take care of her was for a salary, and she would definitely not take care of her wholeheartedly. She would definitely not take care of her relatives well, so she resigned from her nursing job.
Xiaomei told her father, I will take care of you and let me do my filial piety.
At night, Xiaomei did not sleep in the hospital. She wanted to rent a bed. If she thought it was too expensive, she decided to sleep in a hospital bed with her dad. Convenient to take care of dad.
On the next day, when Xiaomei helped her father change and clean her body, her father felt embarrassed and would always block her and even push her.
Xiaomei said to her father every day: "Dad, I am your daughter. You are sick. Who will take care of you if I don't take care of you? Who will let you have no son?
you are sick now It’s just an old child, don’t feel embarrassed! When you get well in the future, you can take care of yourself.
Dad heard Xiaomei say this, and the worries in my heart slowly dispelled, and gradually my father did too. Accepted, I’m no longer as embarrassed as I was at the beginning.
Xiaomei’s dad was discharged after staying in the hospital for more than 20 days, but her dad is inconvenient to move, so someone needs to take care of it.
returned home,Xiao Mei was afraid that it would be inconvenient for her father to get up to go to the bathroom at night, so she often sleeps with her father, which is also convenient for taking care of her father.
For a long time, there are many people in the village who will talk some gossip, saying that her family relationship is very complicated, and that she is sleeping with her dad when she is so old, will she have anything to do, etc., some hard to hear.
Her husband has listened to the rumors outside and often quarrels about such things.
Her husband said that he could not accept her. In order to take care of the elderly, he ignored his feelings. This is no different from living in a different place. He can't bear this kind of life!
Finally they got divorced. After the divorce, there were more people talking in the village...
Conclusion
The difference between men and women, especially for such elderly people who cannot take care of themselves, to respect their parents is also our blessing.
I think it’s not wrong for Xiaomei to be filial to her parents. Why can’t her husband understand her better? There is also a jealousy with the old husband. I don’t know what he thinks. He will have an old day. If his children are not filial to you, what will you do?
I don’t know what the people in the village think. They are a father-daughter relationship, what else can they have? It may be that the people in the village are relatively idle, and they will talk a little bit about the gossip topics of Zhang's parents and Li's family.
Unexpectedly, their gossip would harm a family. If the villagers did not discuss the matter, it is estimated that they would not get divorced.
This is a real thing in our village. What do you think of this matter? Welcome to leave a comment and like it!
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