In love, women’s strengths need to be observed, because women’s shortcomings are basically similar. As long as they fall in love with a man, they will easily lose their sense of security and get trapped in their emotions, while women only have One difference is not who has fewer shortcomings, but who has more advantages.
It is not the same for men, but on the contrary, we need to look more at his shortcomings. Only by seeing you can you judge which of his shortcomings are within your tolerance, which cannot be accepted, which can be changed, and which are powerless.
Marriage should not be a product of love, it should be a choice after a comprehensive measurement, but after choosing, you must bravely face the problems that may occur after marriage, and be aware of it. Your marriage will not suffer too much setback, because you have already seen the truth before marriage.
Then a second-married woman tells you that this kind of man can't marry, because he can't change these, and he won't change it for you.
Before marriage, he always likes to be troublesome. If he is in love with you, he gets ambiguous with other women, or he likes to chat with strange women. After marriage, this situation is basically unavoidable. A man who messes up the relationship between men and women and even regards "sex behavior" as a game, it is basically difficult for them to learn to restrain themselves.
A man who has bad habits such as gambling, alcohol and drugs before marriage can hardly be changed after marriage, even if he is temporarily changed, but as long as there is a little spark, the nausea will recur at any time , Some vices, some people are hard to change, so it's possible to break the family and die.
Poverty is not a shortcoming, nor is it wrong. The premise is that you need to see clearly, because reality is not a TV series nor an inspirational story. "Poor* Silk" cannot be a successful person just because of his passion.Those who can counterattack are absolutely rare.
If you really fall in love with a poor boy, you must recognize yourself and be willing to accompany him to endure hardships. If you firmly believe that you will not complain, then you can love boldly, and don’t be after marriage. Regret in the choice, let the marriage go to a dead end.
In-laws can actually be included in the scope of investigation, because the most difficult thing to solve in China is the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, and many girls are in a dilemma in this matter. In fact, the shortcomings of in-laws, you have only two choices. Accept or not accept it. changed. The personalities of the in-laws and so on have been cultivated for decades. Many ways of doing things and living habits are basically impossible to change. They will not accommodate you and there is no reason to accommodate you. You can only adapt to them.
Each person’s personality will more or less have shortcomings, such as selfishness, greed, laziness, inferiority, sensitivity, conceit, etc. As the two have been together for a long time, the shortcomings will gradually appear, jade There are slight flaws and no one is perfect. In this regard, neither party can be too demanding, but if one of his shortcomings is particularly eye-catching and you find it difficult to accept, then you have to consider your future married life .
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