Foreword:
The original meaning of generosity is to be casual in situations.
In interpersonal communication, everyone likes to get along with generous people,
because the generosity of such people will make us feel comfortable with them. Careful.
We all hope that we can be generous people, because generous people have a greater mind.
, but in other respects, people around us will be disgusted and alienated.
In addition to family and work, people spend more of their life dealing with people.
Many people make friends all over the world, but they still feel very lonely. There are also reasons why many people have insufficient EQ and IQ.
But in many cases, generous people may not please people around them, and even make people feel tired.
In the end, there are so few friends, and I don't know what caused it.
What we cannot do without is the connections and connections, which are very important to a person.
It will be easier to do things if you have a certain number of contacts, and you need to accumulate them by yourself.
But the thing about people connections is not obtained by our blind devotion and tolerance.
When we have the strength, others will respect you more and more.
is not a good thing to be too generous in interpersonal communication, because it is too generous and others will feel that you are easy to talk,
will often not stand firm, so it is difficult for people around us to trust us.
I will gradually become a pleasing personality, which will only make myself more and more wronged.
1. Don’t be too generous to refuse other people’s requests.
Although friends need to help each other, it depends on their own ability to help a person.
Don’t agree to everything.This will only make us embarrassed in the end.
will waste our time and others will not be particularly grateful to you, so there is no need to swell your face and fill you up.
You have to know that someone who really treats you as a friend will definitely consider you and won’t let you help easily.
If you are always looking for you for small things, then we must stay away from such people, they It's just taking advantage of you.
We must stick to our principles. Of course, it also depends on the situation. We must resolutely reject what we cannot do.
can save us a lot of trouble, and others will not easily bully you.
2. Don't always be generous, or you will get into it
A person’s attitude towards you often depends on yourself,
when we stick to our principles in the process of interacting with people And the bottom line,
others will not offend you easily, and even respect you.
If you always behave friendly in the process of getting along with people, then no one will take you seriously,
even your existence will be forgotten,
but some people around choose not Respect you, don’t forbear, and you must refuse, or the other party will have to make an inch.
We must have our own bottom line when we are a human being. When others touch our bottom line, we must let them know how good you are.
3. Don't overpay, or you will be insatiable
If the relationship between people is good, we must know how to be courteous, because we all hope to get rewards after we pay.
If the other party does not return, Then this relationship should stop here,
because he is with you simply because he wants to take advantage of you and is not willing to pay,
is insatiable,After encountering it, we must stay away, otherwise it will be meaningless to be around us.
People are not tolerant and tolerant in exchange for friends,
is to rely on their own personality to conquer the people around them.
We should not be too generous, otherwise we will not be looked down upon.
We must reject those who should refuse, and have our own propositions and attitudes.
Only in this way will our road become wider and wider, and there will be more and more friends around us.
To please the new personality will eventually only cause everyone around you to leave you.
Being generous is a good thing, but being silly and generous will destroy us.
The so-called friends are those who have difficulties to solve together and enjoy the blessings.
is not a person who pays and a person asks for it. This is true friendship.
Concluding remarks:
Whether it is friendship or family love, we must distinguish clearly before giving, and don't silly heart out.
People should keep some of their own minds in the face of harm.
After all, each of us is very fragile and not as strong as we imagined.
We should do less self-deception, and many times we need to keep some The only way to protect yourself is to protect yourself.
So when you are more generous in these 3 places, others will look down on it.
The above is all the content shared for everyone today. I hope everyone can re-examine themselves.
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Today’s topic:
Where is the bigger the place, the more you will look down on you?
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