Relatives who are not related by blood are familiar strangers, familiar strangers, not as good as true strangers.
Time is like an arrow. Yao Ce has passed away for half a year. However, the 28-year miscarriage case has not been resolved with the death of one of the parties. On the contrary, it is also because of "truth" and "property". The reason went to court.
This matter was originally the private matter of two families, why is there a lot of noise on the Internet? Why is it still unresolved? This is a human issue worth pondering.
Originally, the matter was indeed a matter of two families, but there was something wrong with the handling of the two families, which caused it to become a public opinion incident. Family incidents, using online platforms, will definitely Leading to a situation where both lose out.
In real life, everything has two endings, one is tragedy, the other is comedy, is happy, is tragedy, it depends on how the person concerned handles it.
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1. Blood determines the greatness of maternal love
Xu Min is indeed a very great mother, she is a typical great mother in the parental world, too , The typical representative of most mothers, the thinking of most mothers is: "Everything for the child, everything for the child".
Therefore, she is very attentive to the training of Yao Ce. Since Yao Ce was born into their home, she has been taking care of his life carefully, and then carefully nurturing him, hoping that he will become a talent.
Not only she, but all the relatives in her family love Yao Ce very much and hold great expectations, especially her old father who is helping Yao Ce with his pension.
It can be said that their family gave the best to Yao Ce. After all, there is only one child in a family, two people have a unit, and they can only give birth to one child, which is still a boy. Of course it will be doubled. Loving and nurturing.
However, Yao Ce is a lucky and unlucky person. Fortunately, before the age of 28, his life was envious of many people, because he has a parent who loves him so much, and there are so many around him. Loved ones.
Unfortunately, after the age of 28, everything has changed. After all, he is not Xu Min’s biological son. Before, Xu Min worked all his life and wanted to train his son to become an officer. It can only be tolerant again and again.
Even though her son Yao Ce was so unbelievable and did not make Xu sensitive proud, she would still do everything for Yao Ce, pay for him to buy a new house, marry him, and everything for him.
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However, the final truth is that the son who has worked his entire life to cultivate for it is not his own.
This kind of truth is a big blow to a mother. Anyone who is a mother can understand, and only a mother can understand. Xu Min’s mood is conceivable, and her hard work , Not a word of sympathy can be replaced.
However, the final processing method was originally developed in a good direction. Both sides recognized their relatives, and Yao Ce was also relieved to treat the illness. Then, the two families were originally happy, but in the end, it was a reversal of public opinion on the Internet. Boom.
After all, we are all bystanders, we don’t know the details so much, and we can’t make any assertions. In the process of handling this matter, who is right and who is wrong, but in the end there will be a situation where both lose and lose. Neither family wants to see it.
However, it will eventually come to this point. In fact, it is the most important factor in blood relationship. After all, even if the son does not look like his parents, they still have no doubts about his son’s life experience. Is it his biological son?
The life of her biological son has been delayed again. Therefore, only the maternal love with blood relationship is truly great. This is understandable. People are selfish. No mother is willing to see The life of one's own child was delayed.
has blood,Can tolerate everything, without blood, and can destroy everything.
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2. Relatives without blood relationship are not as good as strangers
At the beginning, I couldn’t understand Xu Min. After all, she raised Yao. Ce, she should have a lot of affection for Yao Ce. Therefore, during his illness, the best thing she should do is to make Yao Ce recuperate instead of crying on the Internet.
Later, she gradually understood that it was not easy for her, because she paid too much, compared to Guo Wei's adoptive mother, that was ten times and a hundred times more, and one person paid too much. , But in the end it is such a truth, I am definitely not reconciled.
Not reconciled to her life's efforts is just like this. Not reconciled to her own son is an ordinary life. After all, she is a person with high emotional intelligence. She only wants to make her son a talent.
When she finds that she has a bad son, but it is not her own genes, only she knows the mentality of collapse, and no one can empathize.
After all, the son who has been raised for 28 years is not related by blood. The parents’ genes affect the child’s life. However, Yao Ce does not have the genes of their husband and wife, so it’s not easy to think about the journey along the way. He's unbelievable, and the life of his own son.
In addition, during Yao Ce's illness, there must be a certain disagreement between the two families. Therefore, they gradually became familiar strangers, without feelings and responsibilities, some of them lasted a lifetime. remorse.
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Relatives who are not related by blood, once they are strangers, they are not as good as the real strangers. It cannot be said which side is the problem, but both sides are the same. After all, there is no The blood relationship can't hurt each other anymore.
people from their two families, and the later relationship,It is also the familiar relationship between strangers, not even strangers. After all, no stranger is not sympathetic, but the two families hurt each other.
Because there is no interest relationship between strangers, and there is an interest relationship between familiar strangers, after Yao Ce passed away, the issue of the house fate has not been clarified, and there was a conflict of interest between them.
Therefore, they have also changed from relatives to familiar strangers that are not as good as strangers. This phenomenon is caused by the word "profit" after all. Both parties retreat in their interests. No Wouldn't it go to court?
Actually, they didn’t recognize each other's relationship clearly. Although they were relatives before, they only found out that they were relatives who were not related by blood. Then, the benefit should be clear, otherwise, it can only be seen by the court. .
Only when you have a blood relationship can you know how to feel distressed. This is a manifestation of the instinct that blood is thicker than water.
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Conclusion: 28 years ago, they were relatives, 28 years later, they are people who are not related by blood. Even relatives who are related by blood will have conflicts because of their interests. Not to mention the relatives who are not related by blood. Therefore, the benefit must be clearly scored, otherwise, it will only hurt both sides and it will not be a win-win situation.
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