Foreword: I am thirty-five. Although I don’t have the appearance of Xishi, I have an indifferent heart. In my opinion, if you don't meet a partner you really like, you can be alone in your life. Some people say that I am picky and demanding, but I think that people should respect their own heart for the rest of their lives. If you consider the feelings of others and ignore your own heart, this kind of life would be too tiring.
In order not to miss any chance to meet a good man, I have never rejected a blind date. After countless dating occasions, the most impressive is the most recent one.
I met a strange man on a blind date, and I can see the clues from the socks
Frankly speaking, I am getting older and less interested in blind dates. But this time the second aunt introduced me specially. In the idea of respecting the elders, I decided to take a look.
The second aunt said on the phone that she had found a location, so that we, the parties involved, would like to know if it is appropriate for each other to participate.
The second aunt also added that I heard that this man is very rich in his family and he wears brand-name clothes. It is also because of pickiness that he placed the order. She let me seize the opportunity.
I think what a high-quality man is that makes the little old lady so excited, I'm going to learn it.
I arrived at the designated coffee shop at the appointed time, and the so-called high-quality man was already sitting there early.
Look at the distance, you should not be tall, you are wearing a Jack Jones brand, this should not be where the rich can go!
He was playing with his cell phone there, and he didn't see it until I sat down. Judging from this, this person probably didn't pay much attention to the blind date.
The man gave a witty smile, and quickly got up and motioned for the waiter to bring coffee. at this moment,Seeing the Omega watch on his wrist is particularly dazzling, I still wonder if this is a low-key rich man.
He served skillfully and attentively, and then he asked for warmth, and then he was planning where to go after drinking coffee later. It seemed that the first time I met him, I gave him a good impression.
This man talked eloquently, saying that he had traveled to more than a dozen countries and was very obsessed with foreign customs. At the same time, he is advocating the reform of the medical industry, making me wonder if he is working in this industry? After all, the second aunt had never told me about his occupation, so I asked me about everything when I met.
After he showed off his knowledge and talents, I started to get straight to the subject and asked about his profession.
This person said that he is a freelancer and has plans to start a business in the future. I think they are all about forty years old, and still talk about the future? Would it be a bit unrealistic.
Just as I was not sure whether this man was an exquisite man by looking up and down and tapping sideways, I lowered my head to see the clues in his socks.
It is said that people who pay more attention to quality pay more attention to details. Just when this man raised his legs to show off his knowledge, I actually found that he was wearing two socks of similar but different colors. This is the size of the upper class. avoid.
From this, I finally judged that there was a "pseudo-exquisite" man sitting in front of him. No matter how much he talked about, I could see through it at a glance. see.
The more you see the mountains and dews, the more you want to cover it.
Next, this person invites me to watch a movie. He said that he is a gold card holder and asked me if there are any movies I like to watch, so he can do so. If is still an ignorant girl, she will definitely be attracted by his "strength", but she has already experienced countless times and has become an old aunt, so I have to wait and see.
After arriving at the cinema,He first bought a drink and guided me to sit in the rest area, and he went to buy a ticket. It's better for me to be respectful, so I drank a drink and waited by the side to see what kind of pomp he would arrange for me?
I just waited for a long time and found that the person hadn't bought the ticket yet, as if he was arguing with the conductor. I think it was because I wanted to book a place and was refused?
went over and took a look at it out of curiosity, only to see where is the reserved place, he did not choose the ideal seat to reason with them!
I pulled his sleeves and reminded him not to make things worse. Only then did he accept the arrangement suggestion. It was just that when he paid the money, he saw him expertly open Meituan. It turned out that he planned to buy the tickets for these two seats on the website too!
Seeing me sticking aside, he immediately explained that he didn't bring his VIP card and wanted to dispel my worries. I chuckled and laughed, and thought to myself: This person is really enough to pretend!
I was absent-minded throughout the whole movie, thinking that dating such a "pseudo-exquisite" man would waste so much time. At the end of the game, this man wanted to use his BMW X1 to send me home, as if showing off his car. This trick is okay to deceive the little girl, but it's useless to me. I declined him and slipped away for a reason.
Blind date invites me again, please visit the sea view room
Since the last meeting, the blind date guy cared about me every day and showed his affection for me.
One day, he said that there was a property by the sea and he wanted to show me a tour. It just happened to be boring, so I agreed.
Along the way, he was showing me that the price of a sea-view room has been so high, saying that the house there is worth tens of millions, which is a fancy show. Although didn't know 100% about this man after the last contact, his character who loves to blow is certain.
After entering the room, he took me around in each room, like a skilled salesperson, introduced me to the characteristics of each room design.
I thought to myself,If this house belongs to him, at best, it means that he is a "nouveau riche" who doesn't stick to the details. It's nothing great. There is no need to be so hysterical.
However, a detail in the room made me suspect that he was borrowing the room for a show again.
Seeing him lying on the window, lingering about the scenery outside, I also sneaked into the outside living room and walked around.
At this moment, I saw the coffee table cabinet ajar, with a photo frame showing a corner inside. I instinctively wanted to push the photo frame inward, but it fell out in the opposite direction. This turned out to be a wedding photo. The hero and the heroine are about the same age as ours. They are probably the owners of this house!
I think it must be the man who loves to blow it up again. He keeps saying that it is his house, but who owns it is still unclear?
Thinking of being very likely to be deceived, I feel even more disgusted with this blind date man.
The blind date man tried to keep me in this house for the night, but I strongly refused.
After returning, I reported the details that I had learned to my second aunt. She was a little surprised at first.
My aunt told me that this person was also introduced by her colleague. I heard that he was quite affluent, but she didn't know exactly what it was like. She said that in this case, she helped me to find out in detail.
Actually, in my heart, I don't think it is necessary anymore. A man who likes to brag and show off the landscape is not to my eyes, even if the conditions are good.
Next, I blacklisted the man and officially rejected him. Just when I was calm and calm about this experience, my second aunt called anxiously and said that what she had learned was wrong. She asked someone to inquire. This person's family situation is not very good, and her parents are just ordinary workers. There is no formal occupation. The second aunt asked me with concern whether I was dating him, and if so, let me stop the loss in time. I smiled and hung up.
In the past thirty years, nothing else has made much progress. It’s pretty accurate in terms of knowing people.Although I have become a "golden fighter", I never wronged myself to have an inferior relationship. After all, I have seen so many tragic stories in marriages, and I have a profound truth: once a woman chooses a weird one My partner, her life is almost ruined. Instead of talking about an unhappy relationship for the eyes of the surroundings, it is better to eat and drink and enjoy a high-quality happy life alone.
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