Regarding derailment, admitting mistakes is not true, and forgiving is not true.

In fact, human nature cannot stand scrutiny.Anyone who cheats will inevitably have a fluke.

Those who confess wrong are simply because after weighing the pros and cons, they chose a choice that is more beneficial to them.

Any pitiful and innocent is just paying for the final purpose. As long as the benefits are maximized, apologies or regrets will become meaningful.

But a mistake is a mistake. This kind of mistake will not go back to the past once.

In the entertainment industry, the most typical is the marriage of article and Ma Yili, from the article being cheated, to Ma Yili finally choosing to forgive and show her love. The divorce ended dismal.

In fact, anyone with a discerning eye can see that, since the incident, all the behaviors of the two people have been in harmony.

After the derailment was exploded, the article chose to admit his mistake, but did he really think he was wrong? Or is it that admitting mistakes was the only optimal solution that allowed you to continue to be in the entertainment industry?

I think the latter may have more ingredients.

In fact, whether it is the entertainment industry or the bloody plot around us, how many people are sincere about the apology of the cheatingers? If you are sincere, how can you choose to betray?

Forgiveness is not true

It will disappear.

But as the "bystander" of the whole incident, your pretense is pitiful, and it may be just a drama in the eyes of the other party.

The reason why I chose to forgive is nothing more than considering too many factors involved. As for love, it may never happen again.

Just like many lost and recovered marriages, a man returns to the family after he derails, and a woman always forgives the old thing and chooses it again. This matter should not be mentioned, but how true is the woman's forgiveness?

In the movie " Wanjian Chuanxin ",At one point, her husband Ma Xuewu was found cheating by his wife Li Baoli. Li Baoli chose to forgive him for the sake of her son who was going to school and for the family.

But after returning to his family, Ma Xuewu deeply felt the hostility and discrimination from Li Baoli. His status in the family is even worse than before.

If the former Ma Xuewu was at home, but a strict wife, then Ma Xuewu now looks like a slave at home.

Li Baoli often used cheating to stop Ma Xuewu's mouth, making him feel that her life was too depressing. This also paved the way for his subsequent suicide.

In fact, everyone knows that Li Baoli's forgiveness is not because she still loves Ma Xuewu, but because she cares about the children who are still in school, and cares about the world's evaluation and vision.

She is also choosing to maximize the benefits.

When in a relationship, both spouses are just seeking benefits, then the relationship is actually dead in name. All apologies or forgiveness are actually nothing more than self-deception.

start over again

and return to normal ’s old relationshipIt's better to let this dead love die and let each other fall in love again.

This behavior seems difficult, but it is also the best way to restore marriage.

I remembered this story before: 0 _span1p She swore to know that she was wrong, but the girl cried and couldn't speak.

She wanted to forgive the boy, but she couldn't pass this level of her own.

The two people calmed down for a long time, but after all they chose to break up. But boys do love girls, so he chose to pursue it again.

At first girls resisted this, even disgusted with it, but years of feelings have allowed boys to understand girls better than anyone, and understand girls’ preferences, habits, and even the time of aunt.

In order not to disturb the normal life of the girl, the boy chose to rent a house close to the girl, although it would take him twice as long to go to work.

He will give some surprises to girls,In special periods, some warm babies and so on will be given to girls. She will also prepare the girl’s favorite snacks and fruits...

Just like that, he persisted for a year, even though the girl did not give him any response during this period, he still insisted on it. Do.

Later, a girl got acute appendicitis appeared in time, and the boy was treated in time. , Take care of her until recovery.

The two came together again and fell in love with each other again.

This story sounds unreal like a fairy tale, but it actually happened to us.

Believe in love

, many of us will have this kind of feeling that we will never keep in exchange after giving ourselves. When it is ruthless hurt, we choose to shut ourselves down instead of believing in love.

But in our later days,We will still meet many people who pursue ourselves and even make our heart move, but we don't dare to love anymore.

We will be afraid, we will be afraid that this relationship will die like the previous relationship, without disease, and not want to live. So we chose to never start.

But until the one we love has gone away, we found that we can still fight our lives just like the last relationship, even if there is no result in the end, at least worthy of our own life, but it is too long Night.

Either that person is gone, or he doesn't love anymore.

What is left for us is not wounds that will heal, but regrets that can never be made up for.

If love hurts people, then the wound will eventually heal;