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We all hope that we are a blessed person. If we want to be blessed, it depends on our different attitudes and practices towards people and things. .
The great poet Bai Juyi When he was an official in Hangzhou, he once went to ask a high-ranking monk what is the main idea of Dharma.
The monk told him that the meaning is to do good, not evil.
He disagrees very much, thinking that this is something everyone knows. The eminent monk told him that this is indeed a truth that a 3-year-old child knows, but some people will not take the initiative to do good deeds even when they are 80 years old.
This sentence awakened Bai Juyi. From then on, he did his best to serve the people.
At that time, there was a drought in Hangzhou, and many officials were unwilling to take care of it. So Bai Juyi led everyone to repair dams and drill wells to solve the public's water problem.
These actions not only made him a lot of political achievements, but also won the hearts of the people.
, can you say that he is not lucky? But in modern life, some people have lost their blessings because of their jealousy.
Xiao Liu and Xiao Yan are colleagues in the same office, and Xiao Liu is Xiao Yan's supervisor.
but Xiao Liu has been a little panicked recently.Because Xiao Yan's business capabilities are very strong, he has helped the company make a very good performance and has become the company's business backbone.
Xiao Liu was very afraid of losing his position in charge, so he designed to frame Xiao Yan, talk ill of Xiao Yan everywhere, and spread rumors about him.
Due to Xiao Liu's frame, Xiao Yan not only did not receive the bonus by the end of the year, but was also told to transfer to an insignificant position.
Xiao Yan resigned in anger, and Xiao Liu was smug and drove away a strong competitor.
But the good times did not last long, and Xiao Liu was not as capable as Xiao Yan, so he couldn't help the company make a lot of performance. Therefore, not long after, Xiao Liu was laid off by the company.
As for Xiao Yan, I heard that he has found another good job. The salary and bonus are several times higher than the original company.
Xiao Liu just threw away his blessing because he framed others.
There are three things in life that we must avoid, otherwise, not only will we not be without blessings, but we will also fall into embarrassment.
01: Avoid controlling others
Some people like to control others, they like the feeling of having power in their hands, and they also dislike those who do not follow their requirements.
Some parents control their children at home. Even if they are married and established, many parents still control their every move, every word and deed, and even control the education of their grandchildren.
They are used to being a patriarch, but forget that the child has grown up to be a person with an independent personality.
Some leaders like to control their employees very much. When employees want to leave, they will try all kinds of ways to hinder them, but they don’t really want to keep talents, but want to continue to control those who can do it. Living obedient slave.
They like to give orders very much, and they don't want employees to disagree with them.
Some people also like to control their friends. They will make various suggestions for their friends, interfere with their private lives, and seriously exceed the boundaries of their friends, and the relationship between the two will finally fall to a freezing point. .
Therefore, the first thing you must learn to be a human being is to put away your control.
In this world, everyone's views and opinions are inconsistent. Children need independence, employees need freedom, friends need privacy, and no one wants to be controlled.
Don’t control others, but learn to understand others’ opinions and ideas, respect others’ practices, and don’t interfere with others.
Being a tolerant person and a person who respects the wishes of others, blessings will come naturally.
02: Don't talk without faith
Some people like to brag. Today they said he had cooperated with a big project, and tomorrow they said he bought a house in a wealthy area. He will also tell you who can introduce you to successful people, or what projects will take you to make a lot of money.
But when you believe it to be true, you will find in the end that he is just cheating.
Actually, it's nothing to meet bragging people. The most frightening thing is to meet people who pretend to be pitiful and come to borrow money from you.
These people will borrow money from you for various reasons, and they promise to return it within a certain period of time. But after borrowing money, they will disappear without a trace.
When you urge them to pay back the money, they will pretend to be more pitiful and even want to borrow more money from you.
This kind of unbelieving person is very scary, we should try our best to stay away.
We should also try to avoid being such unbelieving people. If others come to us to do something, if we agree to it, we must try our best to help them accomplish this. Even if the final result is not good, we finally tried our best.
We must never promise other people's things, but in the end we didn't do it, or we completely forgot to do it, which will make others' impression of us greatly reduced.
We must be someone who is very honest, so that others can feel that we are reliable, trust us, and maintain a good relationship with us.
Being a person who believes in words, a lot of blessings will come naturally.
03: Avoid frame and revenge
In the workplace, we all generally hate one kind of person.Villain. They will do whatever they can to frame you, trample you, and ultimately leave you no place in the workplace.
also has many news reports, and some wounding cases are due to retaliation.
The husband retaliated against his wife, employees retaliated against the boss, partners retaliated against other partners, etc. Their retaliatory heart has caused countless families to be hurt, and many people are heartbroken.
People naturally have grievances when they encounter unfair things. But we must learn to relieve these resentful feelings, instead of transforming into a force of hatred, to frame or retaliate against others.
Framed up and revenge others is the most undesirable behavior, because it may not only harm one person, but also the whole family of others.
We should be a good person. Of course, this does not mean weakness, but we must never use improper means to harm others.
We can choose to use legal means to protect ourselves, or we can choose a completely separate approach, but we must have the most basic conscience and do not do things that violate morals.
Be an upright and kind person, blessings will be attracted to you.
is written at the end:
People who are blessed are generally more generous and kind, and their gentle heart will make blessings linger on them for a long time, and they don’t want to leave.
We must learn to be open-minded,Learn to look down on everything, maintain a peaceful state of mind, and make your world brighter.
May we all be a blessed person.
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