Hello, everyone, I’m Lao Chen, I didn’t go to work today, I’m free, and chat with everyone about life.
In the workplace, if your leader says: I feel at ease for you. After you hear it, there may be a warm current in your heart, thinking that if the leader trusts me so much, I will work hard and live up to the trust.
But I don’t think so, friends, let’s see if I’m right, and welcome suggestions!
I think the meaning of this sentence is: Actually, I have never trusted you, because I don’t say it with my mouth, I don’t need to say it. , Only if you don't want you to notice that he is investigating you, will he deliberately appease you.
I have experienced it myself. My boss and I are playing very well on the surface, so many colleagues think that I am his confidant, his right-hand man, and even Many times there are many things to ask me, because they think I must know, but by chance, I heard a conversation, the content is as follows: Who is he recently in the company with whom? Is there any relationship with a female colleague that exceeds the relationship between colleagues? Do you use the company's resources to do other things? Hearing this, I myself smiled bitterly. Is this necessary? So scheming?
Actually, as far as I am concerned, I am dealing with the relationship between me and them only: colleagues are colleagues, and for bosses, they are just acting on the occasion. I do my job well. As for the rest, life is like a drama. I just think this person is too dark inside, right?
Tell a piece of historical facts and understand the history of Ming Dynasty . We all know that Zhu Yuanzhang wiped out all the heroes before his death, with the purpose of clearing obstacles for his grandson.
The founding hero of the Ming Dynasty had a Song Guogong Feng Sheng,After being promoted and promoted, he became proud. He spent the whole day enjoying himself, harassing the people, and making the people miserable. So someone sued Zhu Yuanzhang, saying that Feng Sheng’s family was illegal and that there were a lot of weapons in his family, and he was plotting to rebel. Feng Sheng was frightened after hearing this, for fear that the head of the leader will be separated some night.
Soon, Zhu Yuanzhang summoned him into the palace with the same expression as usual. They put on the banquet, and the two changed their cups. Zhu Yuanzhang said to him: Brother, I have heard about this, but you can rest assured, ordinary people , I have everything to say, I will not believe these rumors. Feng Sheng, who was originally panicked, felt like a stone fell to the ground after hearing this. He thought to himself that the emperor still trusted me very much. So he went on drinking.
I don’t know. I returned to the mansion that night. After a short time, he vomited blood. After a while, he died. I realized that he was drinking the poisonous wine prepared for him.
Maybe your boss said to you: I trust you very much. In this case, I express his trust and appreciation to you, but you really dare Letter? We have talked about this topic in the previous articles, so you can review it if you are interested.
In short, everyone knows about the unspoken rules of the workplace. It’s impossible to make friends with leaders. You can only listen to the boss’s words. Maybe one day you will be sold and you will be sold for him. Count the money.
The human heart is separated from the belly, and on the surface it is polite, and I can't figure out what moths are in my mind.
So we usually face things. We have to act on the scene and have accidents on the spot, but we have a mirror in our own heart. We should be smooth in dealing with people. It does not mean that we take the initiative to achieve a certain goal smoothly, but we should be more appropriate. We have to know how to respond if we offend ourselves.
Thanks for watching, I don’t know if what I said is right or wrong, I hope you can comment on it.
Hello everyone, this is Lao Chen, see you tomorrow.
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