Text丨Love Talk at 10:30
I am here, waiting for the wind, and waiting for you.
Is there pure friendship between men and women? For the answer to this question, most people believe that there is no pure friendship when the opposite sex gets along. In other words, when the opposite sex gets along, friends and lovers are often just a step away.
Maybe, the person next to you, you think you are just ordinary friends, but his heart is silently liking you.
After all, it is difficult to say clearly about feelings. Moreover, if the opposite sex gets along for a long time, the psychology of two people will definitely change. The main reason why no one goes to pierce all of this is mainly because the two people worry too much.
And, instead of direct confession, most people prefer to "hide" such a kind of "hidden", touching and tentatively with the other party in a calm manner.
You know, people have different ideas. Maybe you think it’s a good fit between you, but he may not think so.
Therefore, when you are in a relationship, you must learn to be more sensitive. Especially in the face of those who like you, you have to know it well.
A sign that someone likes you: borrowing things frequently
always asks you to borrow your shoulders when you are in a bad mood
is a fast-paced life nowadaysNo matter how good you are and how strong your heart is, you will always want to be comforted when your heart is empty in the dead of night.
Generally speaking, when two people are just friends of the opposite sex and have no extra ideas for each other, the most borrowed at this time is companionship and chat.
But if, whenever he encounters something unhappy, he wants to be with you, and even frequently asks you to borrow his shoulders, hoping to get comfort from you.
This time you will know in your heart that the relationship between you has broken through ordinary friends.
You should know that when a person is weak in his heart, he still thinks of you and hopes to get your comfort. This kind of performance is to like you.
Being alone with you, getting different comfort from you, just shows that this is an expression of love.
This is like, When you encounter something that goes wrong, you will tell your best friend your heart, hoping to get comfort from her. And people who like you have this kind of mentality.
Therefore, a person likes you for signs, and frequently asks you to borrow your shoulders, and always wants you to comfort him when he is in a bad mood.
deliberately said that he was in trouble and asked you to borrow money.
In people’s impression, borrowing money is just to mention an emergency method to others, and has nothing to do with liking.
However, in relationships, if a person always tells you that he is in trouble and needs to borrow money from you. When paying back the money, I can always find a reason to eat with you and go shopping. In such a situation, you must know in your heart that he likes it.
The reason why he has such a performance, and it happens frequently, maybe he really encountered difficulties, but more I think it is because I like you.
It’s just that for some reasons, it’s not easy for him to tell you directly, and it’s not good for him to express his intentions directly, and only through this method can we increase the contact and connection between you.
Actually, does a person really like you? In the process of getting along, you can feel something through his performance.
In other words, he can think of you the first time he encounters difficulties, which means that you can give him a sense of security and make him feel that you will help him when he is in the most critical situation.
Also, he asked you for help once or twice, and you did not refuse. It can be seen from the side that you also have that meaning for him. It's just that your layer of window paper has never been pierced.
Therefore, you need to know that in your relationship, a sign that someone likes you, frequently tells you that you are in trouble, borrow money from you for help, don't know.
Conclusion:
The relationship between men and women,It's always so subtle that people can't guess.
There is just one thing. When two people communicate more frequently and contact each other more often, the relationship between ordinary boy and girl friends will become unusual.
As we are in the big social family, we must always understand what people around us think about ourselves, especially those who like us.
If you feel that the person likes you, and you happen to like him, you may as well make a positive response to guide him, let him pierce this layer of window paper as soon as possible, and bring the two people together.
You must know that feelings cannot withstand waiting. No matter how good a relationship is between two people, there may be a third person at any time to destroy this relationship before it is clear.
Therefore, in order to avoid such a situation, once you encounter that person in your relationship, you like yourself, and you happen to like yourself, you must take the initiative.
Even if you don't respond well, you can let the other person feel your true feelings through some side performance, so that he can speed up his pace to pursue you.
Of course, if you really don’t have any idea about him, you might even think that the two of you are inappropriate. Then you have to make a positive response, and I wish him to find the other half in his heart as soon as possible.
Remember, in a relationship, you can do something that hurts him if you can’t hold the other person’s likes to yourself.
"You can not love, but please don't hurt." There are some emotional debts that you can't owe, and you will never be able to repay them. Take it easily, and don't let it go!
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