A good way to fix a man: be "bad" for him

Text: Southern love and North love

Use the most heart-warming words to take you into the emotional world and unravel the emotional fog.

writer Alan de Botton said: "The less you like a person, the more confident you are and the easier it is to attract him." Once something is too emotional, it is easy to get caught up in the other party's behavior, and care about things that you once thought you could not care about.

All his dynamics make you feel curious. You want to take a man's heart, but before you know it, you have been trapped by the other party.

When a woman meets a heart-moving person in her relationship, she wants to treat him well, but her endless giving will not necessarily bring the other person's touch, and sometimes it will be counterproductive.

If you don't want to pay the wrong way, you must learn to be cruel. In your relationship, you must be a little bit "bad" to a man.

always maintains a sense of mystery, is moderately alienated, and occasionally loses temper, which makes men inseparable from you.

keep a sense of mystery,Not easily seen through by him

Some people say: “Don’t make a blank sheet of paper for people to see through.”

A woman can be simple in a relationship, but it can’t make people feel like a blank paper. , People lose the desire to understand.

wants to keep a sense of mystery, and occasionally surprises, so that a man can't guess your careful thoughts, and leave him with a daydream to find out.

The best feelings, can't love too much, keep a sense of mystery, leave some space for yourself, and let each other have a chance to breathe.

likes a person, but you can't unreservedly. If you put your past, current experience and past together in one mind, you will share with him, on the contrary, you will lose a lot of fun.

Emotion is a part of life. If it is just a glass of transparent boiled water, although it can quench thirst, it does not bring passion.

Mystery is the best preservative for feelings, just like looking at flowers in the mist, the dim beauty, the most sultry.

Some people say: "To keep his heart, we must maintain a sense of mystery."

Only by maintaining a sense of mystery can men continue to be interested in you. This kind of relationship is the most unstoppable.

You must treat each other sincerely in your feelings, but you must not have a full view, keep a sense of mystery, and not be easily seen through by him, in order to let him dream.

moderately separated,Let him worry about gains and losses

Cai Kangyong said: "I don't think being too warm is a good position to maintain a good relationship with others. If you are bound by the word warm, it will be more difficult."

In relationships, a good sense of proportion can increase the temperature and be moderately alienated from men, which will make him suffer from gains and losses, but will cherish you.

Sometimes, if I like someone too much, I want to stick together all the time. However, if a woman is always the active side in a relationship, it will increase the possibility of not being cherished.

Most men are possessive, but the difference is strong or weak. If they are always sent on the initiative, they will lose their curiosity and interest.

Occasionally disconnect or go out on your own. Don't think of a man as the only one in your life, let alone go around him. Instead, he will take the initiative to find you and want to keep an eye on news about you.

This is the reason why you want to get caught.

Good feelings, all know how to keep the right distance, trust each other but not over-dependence, have you in my heart, but not all of you.

This kind of relationship will not let yourself get lost, and men will cherish emotionally independent women.

will lose their temper,It’s not right that he is compliant

Yi Shu once said: “Being a woman has to be like a painting. Don’t make a dress. After being tried by a man, no one buys it and tries to disability. It’s hard to sell at a 50% discount.”

In feelings, you will not get pity when you accept it, but you will be valued if you have your own opinions and attitudes.

When a woman is in a relationship, she must have a temper, but not lose her temper so that a man can take a high look at you.

are men and women who eat and drink. Everyone has a small temper, but a smart woman loses her temper and can eat a man.

Some people say: "Emotional stability is a person's greatest emotional intelligence," a woman who loses her temper is the highest wisdom.

Women who dare to express their opinions and opinions are more than promises in times of trouble, and make men look at them differently.

As the saying goes: "A woman who can act like a baby is lovable."

In front of a man, a little temperament, acting appropriately, will arouse a man's desire to protect.

Don't be an old scalper who bears the burden of humiliation in your feelings. The feelings need to be released, and you have a little temper, but add a little spice to the feelings.

In the plain and watery life, a unique atmosphere is needed. As long as you don't lose your temper, adjust the atmosphere appropriately and change your feelings.

To eat a man, sometimes he has to be "ruthless", to be a docile little sheep, obeying all the way, and the one who is wronged is yourself, so why bother?

In relationships, no matter who you meet, you can’t lose yourself.

There are many ways to eat a man. These methods are only effective if he really wants to go with you.

Don't be a fool in your relationship, nor be a blind person who deceives yourself.

He loves you, so you can have these "bad" tricks, otherwise, it will be to hide your ears and steal the bells.

It’s not easy to have a relationship, and you can do it and cherish it. It is your blessing to eat a man. Don’t let good luck run away. No matter who you meet, you can keep on cherishing the relationship.

encourages you!

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Author: A free and easy girl who is not afraid of the future, does not think about the past, can afford it, and let it go. A freelance writer, willing to use words to warm your heart, to accompany you, and to give you strength.

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