Many people think that marriage is the tomb of love, and that marriage is their own bondage. However, every decision that people make must pay a little price. They want the family as a warm harbor and they want to be single. The freedom of life is impossible. The reason why marriage exists is to allow two people to go to the end in a certain restraint.
However, there are always people who are not satisfied with the present and don’t know how to cherish the present. They think the outside world is infinitely better. The girls outside are always better than the yellow-faced lady at home, but they never remember. The wife's sacrifice for herself and the family. Only when he finally lost did he know how to regret and remember, but no one would stand in place and wait for himself.
The responsibilities represented by marriage should be understood when preparing to get married. Everyone gets married for a down-to-earth life, not for cultivating a husband who is responsible for the family. No one should selflessly pay for each other and for the family, and there should be a reward for giving, no matter how much, this reward is the motivation for them to continue to pay for the family.
Netizen Lin Ming is a man who disliked his wife for cheating. However, after his wife finally divorced himself, Lin Ming felt very sad because of his unmanaged home. In the end, his wife’s circle of friends , Let Lin Ming regret not at the beginning. Let's take a look at his story.
Only the yellow-faced lady who knows the housework
was originally married to Ming Nan and 1span Ming NanThe two have been in love for two years. At that time, they were regarded as a pair of golden boys and girls.
At the beginning of their marriage, when Lin Ming’s career was on the rise, Xu Nannan did not want her husband to worry about the family, so she decided to quit her job, return to the family, and become a housewife, as Lin Ming’s backing. , So that Lin Ming can fight for his work with peace of mind.
Lin Ming was very grateful at first, because Xu Nannan’s work ability is not worse than Lin Ming, although because Xu Nannan is a woman, he may not get as many opportunities as Lin Ming, but as long as he persists, Xu Nannan You will definitely be able to get to a good position.
However, Xu Nannan gave up her future for herself. How could this Lin Ming not be grateful? So at the beginning, Lin Ming didn't let Xu Nannan take care of all the housework, but would share part of it after returning home from work and before leaving get off work every day.
But Lin Ming is ambitious at work. He is unwilling to give up any opportunity, which makes Lin Ming busier and busier. Xu Nannan doesn’t want him to be distracted, and he simply doesn’t let Lin Ming be here. What he did, he almost regarded Lin Ming as the eldest son's support.
But Lin Ming did a good job at work. After only two years of marriage, Lin Ming was promoted to the top management, and his salary is not comparable to that of his peers, and he is leading I also appreciate him very much.
Lin Ming just had money and status, but his mentality gradually changed. Looking at the young and beautiful girls surrounded by many excellent people like myself,Looking at the yellow face woman in her own home who only knows how to do housework and cook forever. Lin Ming's heart gradually became unbalanced. Since ancient times, a beauty who is a hero, an elite like himself, has a wife who can't bring her face to the sky every day.
wanted to divorce his wife and get pregnant
and when Lin Ming had such an idea, he went to see how Xu Nannan was wrong with Xu Nan, and he didn’t even go to bed. In bed, he thought that he was too busy with work and didn't want to disturb Xu Nannan and began to sleep in separate rooms with Xu Nannan.
Xu Nannan is unknown, so Lin Ming was too tired, but since Xu Nannan agreed for the first time, Lin Ming never returned to the master bedroom. Xu Nannan felt that there was a problem with the relationship between the two people, but Lin Ming was always avoiding it. This cold violence made Xu Nannan very sad. In addition to his bad mood, Xu Nannan fainted on the street when he went out to buy groceries one day.
When she woke up in the hospital, she was surrounded by Xu Nannan's parents. Xu Nannan's mother taught her with red eyes, "What's going on with your child, I don't know what's going on when I'm pregnant, and I still run around outside."
Xu Nannan was stunned, and the doctor on the side answered that Xu Nannan knew that he had been pregnant for two months because of a bad mood during this period and Lin Ming’s attitude towards him. , So I fainted because of being too weak.
lay in the hospital for a day,Xu Nannan’s father made several calls to Lin Ming, either he didn’t answer, or he was too busy. Xu Nannan’s mother was peeling an apple for Xu Nannan while cursing Lin Ming, “I feel that Lin Ming has gone in the past year. , Now you have his child in your belly, and he is still busy."
Xu Nannan did not speak, and hurried back home after leaving the hospital. Since resigning, he has relied on Lin Ming and Xu Nannan's heart. She also got softer and softer. She didn't know if she could survive without Lin Ming, and she didn't want her child to be affected by two people.
However, Lin Ming's attitude has improved a lot after knowing that Xu Nannan is pregnant, but he has separated from Xu Nannan more naturally, but this is nothing else, Xu Nannan did not care.
However, Lin Ming was not very happy, because he originally wanted to force Xu Nannan to divorce him coldly and violently, but now Xu Nannan is pregnant, and he is embarrassed to speak again.
Xu Nannan thought that Lin Ming had changed his mind, and did not think much about it during pregnancy. Lin Ming was also happy when he gave birth to a healthy son after pregnancy in October.
was found derailed after the child was completely beautiful, but Xu Nan, the more happy he was after giving birth, Lin Ming Lin Ming became less interested in Xu Nannan. After returning home every day, besides teasing his son,Hardly talk to Xu Nannan.
And Xu Nannan is not a fool, Lin Ming’s attitude is there, Xu Nannan no longer works hard to repair the relationship between the two, only regards his son as his center of gravity, and Lin Ming is a pair of superficial harmony couple.
Lin Ming also began to appear a lot of girls around, do you know that he is married and think he is a high-quality object, or just want to climb Lin Ming and get a comfortable life. Although Lin Ming insisted on his bottom line at the beginning, after repeated comparisons, Lin Ming finally derailed.
Paper can't contain fire, not to mention that Lin Ming is doing very rampantly, but Lin Ming did not expect that Xu Nannan was very calm when he was discovered by Xu Nannan.
Xu Nannan asked Xiao San to leave, but she sat down and said that she wanted to have a good talk with Lin Ming. It has been a long time since Lin Ming saw this calm and calm look on Xu Nannan's face, just like Xu Nannan's self-confidence at work back then.
"You actually have no feelings for me long ago, before the birth of my son, but it doesn’t matter. I have given up on you a long time ago. My only hope now is before my son is sensible. , You can continue to pretend, don't hurt the children."
Lin Ming somehow agreed, but after that, he did not continue to cheat. Xu Nannan didn't care about him more and more, but began to pay attention to himself. Lin Ming gradually discovered that Xu Nannan seemed to have changed back to the way he used to be, but he had no feelings for himself anymore.
By the time the son was nine years old, the two had been sleeping in separate beds for ten years. The son knew it well, and finally asked about it in one day. Lin Ming unexpectedly, Xu Nannan Without covering up, she bluntly said that she and Lin Ming had no feelings anymore, and asked her son if he could accept their divorce?
The son has been carefully educated by Xu Nannan, and he is also a little mature. After careful consideration, the son said that as long as his parents are happy, he is happy. Xu Nannan touched her son's head with tears in her eyes, and Xu Nannan received the divorce agreement the next day.
It turns out that Xu Nannan has already found a job and a place to live, but she doesn't want anything, just the custody of her son. Lin Ming felt very shameless because of Xu Nannan's request, so he agreed very happily, waiting for Xu Nannan to come back and beg himself.
However, as soon as Xu Nannan left, Lin Ming stayed in the empty home alone. One night Lin Ming worked overtime and went home, looking at the mess, and suddenly it was very sad. , Took out her mobile phone and saw Xu Nannan posted a circle of friends, it turned out that Xiu received her first month's salary.
However, Xu Nannan’s text is inconsistent with the picture. “Sleep in separate beds for ten years, and finally free.” Lin Ming burst into tears when he looked at this line of words, but at this time he regrets it anymore. It's no use.
Lin Ming originally had a happy and consummate family, but because of his temporary achievements, he drifted away. He felt that the wife who gave everything for herself was not worthy of him.Amidst the accumulation of cold violence, Xu Nannan gradually became chilled. After ten years of persistence for the child, he finally chose to be himself and left Lin Ming with the child.
There are many such men in life. In order to achieve their careers, women choose to return to their families and give up their future. However, such sacrifices rarely receive the gratitude and understanding of their husbands. . Especially after their husbands are successful in their careers, they have a few wives who can remember them, and they will be praised affectionately if they are not cruelly kicked out of the house in the end.
Therefore, as a woman, you must remember that whether you want to be a good wife or a mother, you must have your own ability and protection, sacrifice everything for others, and be that person. When you are no longer dependent on yourself, you will have nothing. Only when you hold a down-to-earth guarantee in your hand can you never be afraid of the hardships of life.
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Do you have such a developed man by your side who doesn't love the wife of chaff?
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