Lead:
In the eyes of many of us, when people are old in their old age, as our seniors, the most important thing they should do at this time is to not have to do anything every day, except eating Sleep, no matter how bad it is, just go out for a walk or something. After all, the elderly have worked hard for most of their lives. When they are old, they should enjoy life. In fact, many of us have such a perception that it is very wrong. People should enjoy life when they are old, but enjoying life does not mean that our old people will do nothing in the future.
Because when people get old, if the old people don’t find something for themselves to do, then our old people will easily be inactive for a long time, thus letting their bodies function Gradually weakening, this is very detrimental to the physical and mental health of our elderly. As the saying goes: "Life lies in exercise" means this. is also because of this. Many of our elderly people will find themselves in their later years. It is suitable for yourself or your favorite exercise method to make your body more healthy, and ballroom dancing is undoubtedly the first choice for many elderly people to exercise.
After all, the range of ballroom dancing is not very large. It is very suitable for most of our elderly people to dance. The most important and important point is that if we go to ballroom dancing for a long time, it does. It is beneficial to the physical and mental health of our elderly. Therefore, after our old age, we elderly will choose to dance square dance to exercise. But in the process, our 65-year-old uncle cried out: dance ballroom dance The woman is so bad! Changed 3 partners, and the result was the same. So ballroom dancing is obviously a good thing,But why did you hurt the uncle?
65-year-old grandfather's readme:
I am 65 years old this year, and I retired from a business unit when I was 60 years old. Now my monthly pension is about 5000 yuan Money, when I just retired, I would have nothing to do. My former colleagues and others asked me to go fishing and mountain climbing with them. I had nothing else to do at the time, so I agreed.
To tell the truth, this retirement life of fishing and mountain climbing is really good. While it cultivates my sentiment, I also breathe a lot of fresh air, and I also appreciate some magnificent mountains and rivers. , This made my whole person's spirit and mood become particularly good at that time, and I still remember it still fresh.
But after a few years have passed, I gradually became more tired and sober about this old life. There are my personal reasons and other environmental factors. Then I chose to quit, and since then, I spend more time every day, either playing chess with other old people in the park, or sitting with other old people on the park benches and chatting with each other to relieve my boredom.
Originally, I was very interested in this slow-paced life, but just last year, due to physical reasons, I had an operation in the hospital and stayed in the hospital for about half a year. Just after I was discharged from the hospital, I didn't know what was going on. I suddenly lost interest in everything.
But at this time, my little daughter gave birth to three children, so my wife was called by her to help with the baby. Originally, my mood was very depressed.Now my wife went to another place and was not by my side. At that time, I really had an unspeakable taste in my heart. At noon one day, I went to the vegetable market to buy vegetables.
On the way to the vegetable market, I met Lao Luo , who just retired from my work. I used to have a very good relationship with Lao Luo. Lao Luo was busy seeing my haggard face. Ask me what's the matter? So I told him about my recent situation in detail. As soon as my voice fell, Lao Luo asked me to go to a place with him for ballroom dancing tomorrow.
I used to do ballroom dancing, but I haven’t done it for many years. Now when Lao Luo suddenly said this, I had a ballroom dancing in my heart. Impulsively, so the next day I came to the place Lao Luo told me about. At that time, because I had just gone there and I was not familiar with the place, Lao Luo introduced a woman about my age to be my dance partner.
When she first danced with this woman, everything about this woman was still behaving normally, but a week later, she asked me to buy her a bottle of drinks, I agreed, and a few more days passed. Yesterday, she asked me to invite her to dinner, and I did the same. Whoever thought that a month later, she even asked me to buy her a new dress from the Internet.
I refused at one bite. The main reason is that I think it’s inappropriate to buy her clothes because I’m a person with a wife, so how can I go with my wife? Do this kind of thing? But she still didn't give up, telling me this and that every day, and then I was really overwhelmed, so I decisively left her.
Later, I found a new partner. She was 3 years younger than me. At the time, I saw her talking very well, and she looked very good-natured, so I felt relieved to dance with her boldly. What I never expected was,Before long, she actually asked me to borrow money and said that she would pay me very high interest.
I immediately refused, although I also love money, but I know that these are absolutely deceptive tricks, and I am not familiar with her, she saw that my attitude is so determined, she She actually resorted to "beauty tricks" to me. As soon as I saw that something would happen sooner or later, I made up a random reason to leave her.
But even so, I still didn’t give up, so I went to find a third partner. Originally, my confidence in the third partner was still quite big, but she did not expect it. Compared with the two above, the behavior is better than that. One day when we were dancing, she suddenly acted like I confessed.
Her confession immediately shocked me. I told her clearly that I have a wife. If she wants to find a wife, she can find someone else, but Not only did she fail to do so, she also made various promises in front of me. Even if her conditions were all very attractive, then I couldn’t promise her, "A gentleman can do something or not." Meaning I still know.
After experiencing these 3 partners one after another, my heart is really cool. I never expected that I would just dance a ballroom dance, but this would happen or something Such unpredictable things will come. From now on, I will just say nothing, I will stay at home honestly. Although I don’t want to do this, but if I don’t do this, I really don’t know what else. What better way?
Small conclusion:
It is reasonable to say that after the old age, our old people go to ballroom dancing when they have nothing to do. This is conducive to the physical and mental health of our old people.On the other hand, we have also found something for our old people to do. This is a good thing for "multiple benefits with one stone". What about the decision to go ballroom dancing? The main reason for this is that in the process, Uncle Hou encountered three female dancers who "have their own ghosts" one after another, and what they did was that Uncle Hou had no interest in ballroom dancing anymore. .
In fact, ballroom dancing has been a particularly active and healthy sport for a long time. There is no doubt about it. If it were not, I am afraid that ballroom dancing would have been banned long ago. When our old people go to ballroom dancing, they should keep a correct, positive and sunny attitude to face it, but some of our old people don’t think so. The reality of their dancing is true. The purpose is not for physical fitness or any other reasonable and reasonable purpose. On the contrary, it is more "have a ghost." It is precisely because of the existence of these people that many of us are concerned about the sport of ballroom dancing. The movement has produced a lot of misunderstandings and criticisms.
So, I think, no matter when, ballroom dancing is an active and healthy sport. Our elderly people can rest assured when they are free. Jump boldly. We can’t stop all of us from jumping just because of some people’s ugly faces and bad behaviors. This is completely unnecessary. There is a proverb in the countryside, "Listen to the cries of worms and worms." , Don’t grow crops yet?” That’s what it means. If our old people really meet some "improper" dancing partners in the process, then we just have to stay away from them completely.
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