I don’t know if middle-aged people now have such feelings. As people reach middle-age, we begin to miss the past, especially when we think back to some childhood friends who grew up bare-assed, and want to have the opportunity to meet again. Look back at the years that have passed. It’s just that the time flies, waiting until you really see those playmates who shared the joys and sorrows with you in the past, and talked with you all the time, only to find that each other has already become the past tense, or perhaps the other party has long forgotten. In the past days, it has become estranged day by day, leaving only a feeling: it is better not to see!
Recently, perhaps with the increase of age, the attitude of the online gentleman has also undergone subtle changes, gradually less enterprising and hardworking, but more leisure and health Perhaps because of this, my eyes began to gradually turn to the surrounding areas of my life. I accidentally found out that there were so many childhood playmates who grew up together in the surroundings of my life. It’s just that, When they met, although they communicated familiarly, they didn't seem to have the feeling of childhood.
Recalling carefully, perhaps each of us’s life experiences have been turned over in the past few decades. We have achieved our own differences through our own learning, entrepreneurship, life, and hard work. Life is high, some have become dignitaries, some have become rich and tyrants, some have unlimited life, some are still struggling to survive, and some are even struggling with the poverty line like online monarchs. Therefore, between each other, It's no longer the kind of ignorant teenager who didn't distinguish each other, didn't distinguish between high and low, and didn't ask the way forward.
The brothers who used to live and die together, cry and laugh together, fight and play together, each toil for the family; the playmates who used to grow up bare-assed, although close at hand, are rare to run for life. See; the tablemates who used to sway their youth together have long gone to different things, standing at different heights and admiring the scenery of life. After the wheels of years have passed, the dreams and beliefs in people’s minds,Changes have taken place long ago, and only parents, children, family, and money are left.
Because of this, when people reach middle age, every time they see young people, for the so-called brotherly loyalty, for the so-called brotherhood, for the so-called confidant, not hesitate to offend The law, there are many emotions, maybe this is what people often say, people are not in vain! It's a pity that after the wind has passed, when the years have passed, and when you are getting old, you will find that everything is just a flash in the pan, nothing more than a passing moment. The only thing that really accompanies you when you grow old is the unforgettable memory. , And the family bond of flesh and blood.
To borrow a famous saying from the ancients: It is better to forget each other in the world! It vividly describes the mentality of childhood playmates with each other. It's just that I waited until I grew up and realized that the result was not like this. If I had to describe it in the most true embodiment in reality, it would be more appropriate to say: childhood playmates, it is better to see each other! Because between each other, there is no more affection, friendship, affection, and more just comparison, temptation or test between each other.
Some people say that when a person is about to die, his words are good! It contains profound philosophy, because everyone's life only becomes extremely simple and lovely when he is young and ignorant of world affairs, and when he is near liberation before he is about to die. On the contrary, the middle age is the most complicated period of thought between people, and it is also the period when everyone shoulders the heaviest burden. It is not only necessary to bear the parents and the elderly, but also the children and descendants. Therefore, it is not allowed. If you don't restrain your mind and face the reality, how can you have a leisurely feeling, to evaluate the childishness of childhood, to evoke the tenderness of childhood, and to regain the romance of your youth?
It’s not as good as seeing you as your childhood playmate in middle age! At the very least, you can still retain the trace of nostalgia that remains in your heart!
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