Wen丨Xixiang Youqing
Time is not long, I hope you will see each other in my words!
Chapter 01
There is a classic line in the TV series " One Servant and Two Masters": "If you love a man deeply, you must let him know and don't let him pretend to be confused "
In the world of emotions, many women always like to play guessing games with men when they get along with men. It seems that they will feel uncomfortable if they don't let men guess their thoughts.
In fact, male thinking determines that men do not like guessing. They prefer women who know how to express and are willing to take the initiative.
Therefore, from this perspective, when a woman and a man are together, they cannot be too "boring". Otherwise, your "boring" will make a man mistakenly think that you are playing a guessing game with him.
In short, you have to move and toss so that men will prefer you.
As the saying goes, "Crying children have sugar to eat". If you are extremely sensible, then others will naturally ignore you. This is the case in love, too sensible and indifferent, but will not be cherished and loved.
For the expectation of love, every woman hopes that she can get the preference of the one she loves and become an exception to him.
But in fact, a man loves you, it is not the most lucky thing, a man prefers you, that is the most beautiful appearance of love.
has such a sentence: "You are making trouble, he is laughing", this is the best state in love. Unfortunately, many women go in the wrong direction.
Chapter 02
They long to be favored and favored,I think that being sensible and giving is the best way. Love is just the opposite. The more you toss, the more you can be particularly favored by men.
Of course, this kind of tossing is not unreasonable, nor is it self-willed. If you show tossing as "preferable and arrogant", it will naturally be counterproductive.
To manage a relationship well requires skill and wisdom, and good control is one of them. The right toss is to prescribe the right remedy, and you will get twice the result with half the effort.
So, as a woman, you have to understand that men who are particularly fond of women know how to toss people:
will act like a baby and always trouble each other
You have to know that men like "little women", not "women".
For men, being needed by a beloved woman is a thing with a sense of accomplishment. In a relationship, if you can do everything and can do everything, then he naturally has no sense of existence.
In this way, the relationship will change, and he will live a life of a person, and although you have the original intention of causing less trouble, you have become the most miserable woman.
So, to get along with men, you have to learn to act like a baby and learn to trouble each other. Although this is very tossing, men actually enjoy it.
A man who can become the one you often talk about and think of when things happen, he will feel full of happiness. At the same time, your frailty will make him full of protective desire.
In this way, he will only prefer you more and more, and even treat you as a little princess to dote on you.
Like to be jealous, with a moderate temperament
Smart woman,They all know how to be jealous in a timely and moderate manner.
In a relationship, if you want a man to prefer you, then first of all you have to let the other person feel your love and care. doesn't have a man, and doesn't want the woman he loves to be jealous and spoiled for himself.
is like Gu Tingye in the TV series "Knowing it or not, it should be green, fat, red and thin". After he married Minglan , he spent most of his time wondering why Minglan was not jealous.
Later, he expressed directly and strongly that he hoped that Minglan would be jealous. It wasn't until Minglan spoiled him for him that he lost his previous troubles and was as happy as a child.
You have to know that being jealous means caring and afraid of losing. This is also the performance of loving someone. Therefore, in the process of getting along with a man, your jealous "toss" will make him prefer you.
In addition, when you are jealous for him, you can also make a small temper appropriately. You will find that in the face of you who is so troublesome and tossing people, he has a spoiling heart in his eyes.
On the contrary, if you are always plain as water, calm, and have no strong reaction to everything about him, then he will naturally lose and love you will be reduced.
Pay attention to the sense of ritual and create freshness
Love needs a steady stream of freshness. Once the freshness disappears, love will be fragmented.
In reality, most of the so-called "seven-year itch" has faded because of the freshness, and the relationship between two people has not developed into a family relationship, so breaking up is the only choice.
Therefore, another way for women to toss is to focus on the sense of ritual ,Constantly create freshness. Although the process seems to be tossing, the freshness increases unconsciously.
For example, every holiday with special significance, you should celebrate with the other party, and you should not take it in a single pass. You should pay attention to birthdays and anniversaries.
In addition, there must be a regular trip of two people every year, even once. You know, travel is also a way to quickly increase relationships.
At the same time, at any time, you must not slack on yourself, such as dressing up and keeping your figure must persist, and learn to ask the other person’s opinions.
In short, the more you toss in these areas, the more fresh you will feel.
Chapter 03
The more women toss, the more men prefer. Just like Cheng Lisha in the variety show "'s Wife's Romantic Travel ", she is the one who was spoiled by her husband as a little princess.
Cheng Lisha's husband Guo Xiaodong has been out for filming all the year round, but his love for her remains undiminished, and the reason is the toss of Cheng Lisha.
She is very good at acting like a baby, and she always feels sweet and protective at any time. At the same time, even if the two are not together, she will make many calls every day.
Although Cheng Lisha's performance seems very tossing and "competitive", it does make Guo Xiaodong feel her care and love.
Women should remember that at all times, men need a sense of presence and freshness. So, to put it simply, this is tossing, but these performances are actually to make men always have a sense of presence and freshness.
People are like this, if you give him what he wants, he will naturally give you what you want.When his demands are met with you, he will love you more.
In short, love is a game, and toss is "advance as retreat".
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