's favorite girl asks you: "What are you doing?" How should you respond? Give you three seconds, think about it. I believe that most boys will go back to the girl with great enthusiasm, and then stubbornly talk to her awkwardly. Doing this means that you still don't understand women. In today's article, Li Zi went from bronze to king rank, let's analyze it one by one. The replies of different ranks brought different endings. If you understand, and then asked by the girl "what are you doing", you can give her a blushing heartbeat reply.
Bronze Rank
Let me talk about the Bronze Rank first: Ask what to answer. The girl asks what you are doing, but actually she misses you and I am embarrassed to speak straight, and find a way to start a conversation with you. Many veterans have realized this, but they are excited and their brains are hot, and they respond literally without even thinking about it. Generally, there are only two answers.
The first type: "I miss you". I'm grateful, I'm not greasy, this kind of beautiful words blurted out make girls feel greasy and false. How do you ask girls to pick it up? There is also the second type, which is really just what you are doing. "Playing games," "videos," and "Yiyun on the Internet." You have to answer like this. In addition to replying to you, the girl says "Oh, then you continue to be busy." What else can she say?
Even if you ask back "What are you doing", you have to be silent and embarrassed if you can't say a few words. What should you say? The girl who came to you on the initiative is to have a good impression of you, and she must be full of anticipation in her heart. .
silver rank
Some old irons may have been studying with chestnuts for a long time. At this time, I suddenly wanted to understand.They will say "So happy, I saw you message me when I wanted to find you, and I missed you too". Ruzi can teach you, congratulations, you are promoted to silver. This answer is to see through the three walls.
First tell the girl that you are very happy, suggesting that the girl can come to you often, and then say that I happen to be looking for her to chat, alleviating the embarrassment of the girl coming to you on the initiative, and finally I miss you too. Directly sublimate the subject and tell her that you two are in agreement? seems to answer the wrong question, but in fact, the girl’s mind is just right.
So why do you understand women’s answers so much that it can only be considered as a silver rank? Because they ignore the ultimate goal of girls. Although this sentence can appeal to girls, it is only a beautifully packaged "I am thinking of you", and it has no extension. The girls smiled shyly when they saw this answer, and your topic also ended in a scribbled way.
The relationship between many boys and girls has not progressed for a long time because their thinking is stuck in the silver rank. If you want to advance, you have to break the game. Add a little bit on the basis of the silver rank, maximize the value of a topic, and become the golden rank of true love.
Golden rank
The girl asked what you are doing. The boy first said "I'm thinking about a problem." Taking the girl's words naturally, the girl was curious about "What problem?" When the boy waited for the girl to ask according to expectations, he threw a new topic: "Smart people and What's the difference between little idiots? Do you know?" Female: "I don't know,What's the difference? "Boys will directly exert their power at this time." When a smart person thinks of a person, he will say, "I miss you", while a little fool will say, "What are you doing?" This part of the boys know that chatting with girls is not waiting passively and racking their brains to answer the girls’ questions, but to turn the situation wisely and control the ambiguous rhythm in their own hands. Use a sentence you have designed. The correct answer, boldly reverse the wave, and maximize the ambiguous atmosphere of the chat. At this time, the girl suddenly realized that you were in the way. Her emotions at this time must be angry and want to laugh, still carrying Shy and embarrassed. With so many emotions in my heart, doesn’t the feeling of love come up all at once? At this time, no matter what emotion she uses to reply to you, the chat can go on smoothly~
As for the strongest The king's rank has reached the height of superb, they never waste any opportunity. The same is to use the above methods to mobilize the girls' emotions, they will continue to set off the atmosphere and find good opportunities to invite. Huh??? Do you feel that you are lacking? After watching a section? How come girls can develop into dating by asking "what are you doing"? No. Girls take the initiative to ask what you are doing, indicating that they have a strong affection for you. If you have known each other for more than a month, this sentence The words are the proof that she recognizes you.
The words written at the end
Before the feelings come true, it is two people who have good feelings about each other. You dare not boldly indicate The other party will naturally be discouraged by his own mind. But if the other party has expressed his thoughts explicitly or secretly, it is greater timidity not to respond. There are many situations of temptation, which may be vigorous, or it may be just a simple sentence. What are you doing.
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Author | Huang Lizi Ye
First Psychological Chief Writing Group Consultant | Senior Emotional Tutor | The best-selling columnist
