Although love is easy, marriage is not easy.
It is not an easy task to love someone for decades.
So before entering the marriage, every woman will carefully test and screen, so as not to be trusted.
Many times, letting you recognize whether a person is genuine or fake is often not a big problem such as cheating, but a small problem in life.
For example, if you have a meal together, if a man has these three habits, then he is not used to how good he is to you, and leave as soon as possible!
pick and choose meals
I wonder if you have not encountered such people.
When we first met each other,Planning to have a meal together and get to know each other.
After the dishes are ready, you find that he has to pick and choose each dish.
Even if this dish is thousands of miles away from him, he has to stand up and hold the bowl, and in a difficult posture, pull his favorite food into his bowl; by the way He turned over the dishes he didn't like, and didn't care if they fell on the table.
Some women are very kind and will comfort themselves: "Maybe this person is casual, does not see me outside, and likes to go straight."
Is this really the case?
People who are truly informal can eat more of their favorite dishes, and will never ignore table manners and choose all dishes at will.
A man who does not care about his manners at the table and does not respect you at all will not be any better to you when he is together.
This kind of person’s heart,He is extremely selfish and lacks empathy.
You have been wronged and told him that instead of comforting you, he will let you find reasons from yourself; not only that, he will squeeze benefits from you until you treat him After it is useless, I leave you aside and never get back to each other.
A man who truly loves you, whether at the table or alone, will maintain his demeanor and education. not only doesn't choose the food, but also asks your taste carefully, keeps it in mind, pours water for you, take care of your stomach and emotions.
big and small love
Some men regardless of their ability to handle the size of the person, it is like Call others.
The cutlery that can be easily reached as soon as you reach out, you have to call the waiter to take it for yourself, the food is right in front of you, you have to put it in the bowl.
you refuse,He sighed and said that women nowadays don't know how to take care of men, and they can't live by marrying home.
If you agree, he will assume that you have accepted his pursuit and try to take advantage of you.
In the final analysis, this kind of man often has no abilities, and always wants to make himself face by calling others; he is inferior and conceited, and he always feels that others look down on him, so he always wants to convince others.
If you live with this kind of person, you have to worry about your affairs, and you have to take full responsibility for his affairs. If something goes wrong, it means you are not. Anyway, he claims to be the head of the family, and he is born to be served by others.
He is with you, not because of love, but because of your soft-hearted and good talk, treating you as a free nanny, and driving it at will; if you meet this kind of person, leave as soon as possible.
a bill on something
the current social climate,Some people think that women can’t talk about money in their relationships. When they talk about money, they worship gold girls. It seems that as a woman, one has to do nothing and devote all of her to a man, so that it can be called true love.
Many women are trapped by this atmosphere and become more generous in their relationships than men. As long as spends money, you should take the lead, for fear that the other party will think that you are worshiping money and the purpose is not pure.
Some men have seen this, and they have troubles when they check out. They either go to the bathroom or go outside with the phone pretending to be busy with Mr. Zhang. People greeting.
Maybe he usually treats you well, maybe he talks with you late at night, sometimes you are willing to lie to yourself, maybe he is really busy this time, next time will be fine.
But what are the facts? You will find that next time you check out, he will still suddenly "have something" and no one will be seen.
Tu Lei said: “People who like you will give out red envelopes. People who love you will be willing to spend money for you. People who spoil you will want to buy you gifts instead of Those who love you cry poor to you.
a man crying poor to you,It's not necessarily really poor, but more that he thinks you are not worth the price of a meal.
A man who refuses to spend money for you does not actually treat you as his own. In his mind, you are just a crossing platform in the journey of life, staying by your side, just temporarily stopping, and leaving after filling up the gas.
is a person who is truly worthy of your trust. He is afraid that you are under pressure and will quietly pay the money before you finish eating; if you have to invite him to watch a movie, he will not come. Refusal will not take into account the "man's dignity" and make you feel uncomfortable.
This is how the relationship is. It’s like this. It’s getting closer with each other, and it’s better to cross in the long stream.
No matter how much the person in front of you loves you, don't surrender yourself. Have a meal with him and see if he has the above three habits.
If unfortunately you have won a few, then you should understand that the person in front of you is not someone who can stay with you for a lifetime!
