But things backfired. I was more rebellious when I was in school. I spent the whole day thinking about playing and not interested in learning things, so my academic performance was always the last few in the class. When my parents saw that I was not learning the materials, they told me to go out early to learn a skill.
I didn't want to do my first job after a few months in a car repair shop. I ran to deliver food. After a while, I went to sell the car. I changed several jobs back and forth.
Finally I found a job in an electronics factory, where there are many girls. My mother said that if the job is not well done, she should find a daughter-in-law to marry as soon as possible, so that she can hug her grandson.
So I steadfastly went to work inside. I love a girl named Afang, she is the plant manager of our group, she is very beautiful! There were a few boys in the factory who liked her, so I went to find Afang every day, and offered her gifts to invite her to dinner and watch movies, and I usually gave her warm greetings! After more than a month, she was moved by my sincerity and agreed to be my girlfriend.
So we became the envy of everyone in the factory. Every day we went to get off work and got off work together. When on vacation, I accompany her to go shopping and buy her clothes. The salary of the electronics factory is not as high as more than 4,000 yuan a month, including food and housing, but since I am with her, I am a moonlight clan.
However, in order to be with her, I am also willing to do so. Fang saves very much and sends the money I earn every month to the family. A Fang's family is also in the countryside. I heard that she still has an older brother. Because of difficulties in life, her brother divorced her sister-in-law, and the child was left to be raised by her brother. But since his divorce, his brother went outside to work and ignored the family, and the child was left to her parents to take care of.
Knowing her family background, I feel sorry for Afang even more,A girl bears so much pressure! So I try to give her the best within my ability.
This is how we talked about love for a year. I think the relationship between the two people has reached the stage of marriage and marriage, and we will discuss marriage with A Fang.
So the two parents sat down to discuss specific marriage matters. Fang's parents demanded 200,000 beauties. We were a little shocked when we said this number. After all, this number is not as high as ours.
When parents heard it, they said whether the bride price was too high. The other parents said that this is not a bride price. This is their pension money. They counted how much money they spent on raising their daughter. My daughter must not be able to go home every day after she is married, so the money is a subsidy for them, and there is no dowry.
In addition, we are required to buy a house in the city, and the real estate certificate must write the names of two people.
We can accept the latter. After all, two people must have a house if they want to live in the city.
But 200,000 beauties, plus a down payment of two to three million, and money for banquets, how can an ordinary peasant family have so much money at once?
In the past few years, I have been working outside to earn money. I have eaten and drank and I have no money left. Now that I need so much money, I can only make my parents think of a way. It doesn't make me feel good to see my parents frowning.
In the end, the parents took out all their savings and borrowed money from relatives and friends to barely collect enough gifts and bought a house.
Finally I got my wish and married A Fang back home. I secretly determined that I must work hard to pay the debt as soon as possible, and then take my parents from my hometown to enjoy the happiness!
So I got rid of the problem of spending money in the past,The monthly salary is handed over to my wife for safekeeping. Our husband and wife can save more than half of the salary of more than 8,000 yuan a month. I believe that the foreign debt owed by the family will be paid off soon.
But until last year when my father accidentally fell from a tree when he was playing chestnuts in his hometown, he broke his leg and had to be hospitalized. I took my father from his hometown to the big hospital in the city for treatment, and he needed surgery. First, I paid a deposit of 20,000 yuan, and I asked my wife to take out our savings and use it first, but my wife hesitated.
I repeatedly asked her to say that now there are four or five thousand dollars left in the card, and I am embarrassed. After saving for a year, it shouldn’t be the only money?
She finally admitted that she privately gave her parents 2,000 yuan a month for living expenses, because her nephew spent 1,000 yuan a month in kindergarten, and the children had to eat, drink and buy things. I can’t get mad after hearing it. I’ve been married for a year and I’m still supplementing my parents’ family. Do you have this little family in my heart?
I don’t care about arguing with her, so I can only find another way, because the money I borrowed from relatives has not yet been repaid, and now it’s even more difficult to borrow money. In the end, I could only borrow money from a few websites on the mobile phone in an emergency.
Finally, my father's leg was successfully operated on, and the result was not bad! A big rock in my heart fell to the ground.
After my father was discharged from the hospital, I discussed with my wife to take my father and mother to our house for care. After all, life in the city is convenient for everything. But my wife said that we still have foreign debts that have not been repaid. They have come to increase consumption and burden us. After all, consumption in the city is high. After we have paid off the debts, we will take them over to live together. I think what my wife said is reasonable and I agree.
So I sent my father and mother back to my hometown. When I parted, I saw their rickety bodies and gray hair. I felt very uncomfortable. It's the son's filial piety,Let them work for me at this age.
After I got home, I solemnly told my wife that you should stop subsidizing your mother's house. We are under great pressure! My wife nodded like a child who made a mistake, and I couldn't bear to blame her again.
I thought that this happened like this, but I didn’t expect that some time ago I just walked to the door from get off work and heard a burst of laughter from the house. I opened the door to see the daughter-in-law and mother-in-law and The father-in-law sat on the sofa watching TV, talking and laughing, and his nephew. There were a mess of large bags and pots and pans on the floor of the living room.
I never heard my wife say that mother-in-law and father-in-law are coming home! Why did you come suddenly today? Out of politeness, I greeted them and dragged my tired body back to the bedroom. My wife saw that I came back and explained to me that my parents came with my nephew today and didn't tell you in advance!
I said it’s okay, they will stay a few more days and stay with you!
The wife wants to talk but stops, I say you have something to say!
She said, this time my parents did not stay for a few days and left, but planned to live with us. My little nephew’s school at the kindergarten home is not good. My parents wanted to go to a private kindergarten in our community, so let me tell you!
I immediately roared, are you crazy? Your mind is flooded, don't get into it!
When my wife saw me scolding her, she raised her voice and yelled at me, what do you mean, am I not discussing it with you?
I said, are you discussing this? See if your parents brought the luggage over! You speak with the same attitude as informing me!
Hearing our quarrel, father-in-law and mother-in-law came in. As soon as they came in, it was not that they blamed me. My anger was ignited again.All of this is caused by you! When you gave birth to a daughter, you asked for pension money. Even if you gave you 200,000, it was not enough. You also asked your wife to subsidize you every month. What about my parents? After raising me so big, I wanted to buy a house for them to live in. Your baby girl can't say that the burden is heavy. Now you just moved here without saying hello to discuss with me. It's too deceitful!
I didn’t expect my wife to tell me what I said to her parents, and she would say something to me. If you don’t agree with my parents to live in, we will get divorced!
I said, leave it! Don't regret it! I slammed the door after I said it!
That night I thought about and finally decided to divorce! This is the best choice!
