text/Zhang Xiaonuan
A woman who can get angry, never loses her temper, but can accurately judge the level of contradiction, distinguish which situations need to get angry and which do not, know how to grasp the big and let go of the small, and are in the core principle. After the assault, express anger straightforwardly, just like Qiao Sanli subdued the bad mother-in-law this time. She is not easy to get angry. If she gets angry, she must be sent to the point.
Qiao Sanli has not endured her mother-in-law for a day or two, but she has been "stopping the soldiers."
Sanli is not the kind of person who "holds her breath", she just feels that there is no need to get angry.
Until she saw that Wang Yiding was exhausted for her brother’s wedding house, and when she saw that her mother-in-law’s evil behavior seriously threatened her family, she couldn’t help it anymore. She chose to stand up and take the mother-in-law system with just one trick. The submissive post.
As Fu Seoul said on the stage of " Wonderful Story": In a marriage, don’t show your trump card easily, don’t just cry. Hang up for two troubles and hang up three times, and hang up at the most critical time.
Similarly, "fire" should also be sent at the most critical time, not just casually.
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When Qiao Sanli visited her mother-in-law for the first time, she knew that her mother-in-law was not a "good crop".
Sanli is actually very smart.
She came here for the first time, in name, but in fact she touched this "pre-mother-in-law" thoroughly.
Everyone gathered around a table to eat. Wang Yiding would only bury his head and dry the rice, while Sanli was watching while eating.
She found that her mother-in-law puts vegetables into a bowl of Yining more than one serving.
It can be seen from this,The mother-in-law's heart is partial, and Yi Ding's status in the family is not high.
This also indicates how you will survive in this home in the future, and how you can survive this situation better.
Furthermore, it is the time to wash the dishes after eating.
At first it was Sanli and Yining’s girlfriend to clean up together, but the mother-in-law made trouble and pushed all the dirty dishes to Sanli, let her wash them alone, and drag Yining’s girlfriend to the living room to chat. NS.
Actually, in that era, it was normal to go to the in-law’s house to do housework for the first time. It’s no better than now, when girls come to the house as guests, and their hands don’t touch the sun.
But her mother-in-law deliberately embarrassed Sanli, she indeed lost her status as an elder.
However, Sanli did not resist, but chose to stay in the kitchen and clean all the dishes.
This kind of thing, no one will be happy in his heart.
But because Wang Yiding was vying to share with him, and not embarrassing everyone at the first visit, Sanli endured it.
Actually, in the eyes of Sanli, washing the dishes is nothing wrong with it. This can only show that at most I have a cautious mother-in-law who is not harmful and harmless.
So, she chose to take a step back.
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Tolerate this kind of thing, the first time there is a second time.
When you choose not to care about it for the first time, she will choose to repeat the same trick on you.
For the first time you do not resist doing housework, then all the housework in the future will most likely be left to you.
Sure enough, after marriage, Sanli took care of almost all the housework at home.
Once early in the morning, the mother-in-law with one hand on her hips, the other commanded Sanli to mop the floor, just like the landlord’s old wealth was exploiting the family’s long-term workers.
Instructed, but also picky. I didn't drag it clean here, and I need to drag it there again.
Faced with such a mother-in-law, if it is Simei, she might challenge her on the spot. It's a big deal, who is afraid of whom. No matter how bad it is, she will scold her thousands of times in my heart.
But Sanli did not. While she was working on her head, she replied again and again: Okay, mom.
As a result, because of the slippery ground, I tripped over and almost miscarried.
Fortunately, the child is saved.
When such a big thing happened, Sanli didn't hold a grudge against her mother-in-law, so she still chose not to care about it.
When I needed to take care of me most, I went to warn Wang Yiding to see my mother-in-law as soon as possible. Taking care of her mother-in-law is important, and I am afraid that there will be other moths.
Sanli’s idea is very simple. There is nothing wrong with herself, and there is no need to intensify conflicts. Besides, she is now in the early stages of pregnancy, which is more dangerous. It is not worth anger for these things.
03
However, when Sanli retreats and then retreats, her mother-in-law has to make an inch.
If you repeatedly endure "grief" but fail to get a "full" word, then it will be a matter of time to resist.
When Sanli saw a blood-stained face returning home, she saw her husband working hard to raise a parasite-like brother, and she made up her mind when she was suffering, and The mother-in-law fights.
My mother-in-law has been thinking about Sanli and Yiding’s deposits. This time she used "Yining to get married and needs a marriage room" as an excuse.Forcing Yiding to pay.
In this matter, Wang Yiding has always been very useless. He has no position of his own and is left to the slaughter of his mother and younger brother.
looks bitter, as everyone knows, everything is to blame.
In order to raise money, he has to carry Sanli on his back. Wang Yiding can only set up a stall after get off work every day to earn some extra money and subsidize his younger brother's life.
In order to occupy a little booth, he fought with others and went home with blood stains.
Sanli was very angry. That night, she couldn't sleep all night, looking at the darkness outside the window, like her unknown life. She knows well that in the face of her mother-in-law's evil deeds, her husband has no power to resist, and it's fine to bully herself. Now she starts to bully her husband again, whether the child will also bully the child after the birth is not impossible.
For her husband and the child to be born, Sanli decided to fight back against her mother-in-law.
Sanli is not like Simei. She is very shrewd. She hit the nail on the head to fight back against her mother-in-law, giving her mother-in-law a hard blow.
Early the next morning, Sanli prepared a passbook containing the half-year rent of their young couple and gave it to her mother-in-law.
The mother-in-law who got the passbook was overjoyed.
At this moment, Sanli said: This passbook is not only about the room fee for me and Yiding, didn’t Yining want to buy a house some time ago? As brothers and sisters, we should help, but we also have a family and we will have children to raise in the future. This kind of thing, I have hands and feet, and I can't stretch out my mouth like a vegetative person. You just said that you should be self-reliant, so how can you wipe people's oil at every turn. So in this passbook, there are me and a half-year room fee, and we won't have any more.
Sanli thought it was enough to click, but who knows, her mother-in-law is reluctant.
Mother-in-law: Sanli,This is not right. As much as one Ning needs, of course one can get how much. They are brothers, both surnamed Wang.
Seeing her mother-in-law was so unreasonable, Sanli couldn't bear it, and released the most ruthless words.
Sanli: Mom, you may have forgotten that it was before, but now it’s different. Yi Ding married me, and I and Yi Ding’s family will not only have the surname Wang. I am pregnant with Yi Ding's children. Our children can be named Wang or Joe.
Sanli really said the most cruel words in the softest tone.
Sanli's implication is: mother-in-law, you can stop it, if you dare to make any crooked thoughts on me and Yiding, I will let the child in my stomach follow my surname , See where to put your old face? See how your neighbors laugh at you.
In just a few words, the evil mother-in-law was completely restrained.
Yi Ding's mother looked shocked, looking up and down Sanli, the perverse and sensible daughter-in-law who was at her mercy was like a different person.
frightened her and didn't dare to refute a word.
Sanli took advantage of this opportunity to shudder Yining again and relieved his anger for grabbing a pager.
Sanli: Oh, by the way, mom, that pager, just keep it for use as soon as possible, it's okay. But, now this little girl has a very high-sightedness, she has to be a little real to learn, otherwise, let alone a high-end pager, it would be useless even if the big brother is pinned to the waistband.
Sanli's remarks not only appeared to be magnificent, but also belittled the shameless behavior of her mother-in-law and Yining grabbing a pager, and gave her mother-in-law a good lesson "If you want to chase girls,It relies on real talents and real learning, not a pager, without real talents, it is a waste of everything. ”
After saying this, Sanli didn’t stop for a while, turned and left the living room, leaving her mother-in-law alone to reflect.
04
Everyone has a point in his heart that cannot be touched Some people are dignity, some are past, some are relatives, and for Sanli, it is her husband who is her own family.
No matter how her mother-in-law bullies herself, it doesn’t matter. Shinobu.
However, once the mother-in-law touches the husband and child she wants to protect, she will become a warrior and fight to the end.
Because for a woman, there is nothing better than her husband and children. A more important person, there is nothing more important than your future happiness.
usually does not get angry, once a fire starts, it must be a fatal blow from the root cause.
As mentioned at the beginning, women who can get angry never lose their temper, but can accurately judge the level of contradiction, distinguish which situations need to get angry and which do not, know how to grasp the big and let go of the small, and after the core principles are violated, they are straightforward. The expression of anger.
And Sanli became more advanced. She did not show the anger of flaring her teeth and dancing claws. Instead, she used the calmest posture and the gentlest tone, said the most ruthless words, and subdued the evil mother-in-law with one move.
Author: Zhang Xiaonuan, May you and me meet in warm and comfortable words and grow together
Originality is not easy, plagiarism must be investigated!
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