In the process of growing up, we have heard countless words. There are beautiful sentences that make us calm after listening;
There are inspirational sentences that make us full of passion after listening; there are also sentences that speak our inner feelings, which will resonate after listening.
And the next three sentences are about experience and advice. Hope that after we read these three sentences, these three sentences can leave a mark in our hearts.
is the darkest before dawn. In this sentence, dawn and darkness can change positions
For some reason, whenever I want to accomplish something, if the front is too smooth, my heart There will be a bad premonition soon. And time after time. Of course, this may be related to Feng Shui.
But the next short story I want to tell, maybe we will think it is related to life. The story goes like this: a mouse fell into a half-full rice tank, and it was accidentally overjoyed. After there was indeed no danger, he began a "happy life" in the rice tank. You can sleep after eating, and you can eat after waking up. Soon, Mi Cang. He was about to bottom out, but he couldn't get rid of the temptation of rice after all and stayed in the tank. Finally, after eating, he realized that jumping out was just a dream, and there was nothing he could do.
When too comfortable, it may be a precursor to a storm. A person's awareness of danger cannot be lost in one's life. Losing the sense of danger can endanger the quality of life in the slightest, and endanger survival in the severe case. Always remember: Before the darkness, the dawn.
In ancient times, and Shang Zhou were obsessed with wine, and finally ruined and ruined. Today, Bo Liangen, the former party secretary of the Inner Mongolia Supply and Marketing Cooperative, lost his feast and was sentenced to death.
As a person, we all have some weaknesses that a person should have. We want to lie flat and have fun in time. However, this world is controlled by the " energy conservation ". Simply put, we enjoy the blessings that we should not enjoy. Later, we will receive sins that we don't need to suffer.
At the age when he should be struggling,We choose to relax, choose to fall in love. On the day when the college entrance examination is released, we will see our sky turn gray. When we should abide by the rules, not violate the law and ethics, and work seriously, we choose to opportunistic, break the rules, and only for our own benefit. One day, we will be cast aside. Enjoy the light of dawn, but forget that the darkness that belongs to us will always come.
In this era of rapid development, we never know what will happen in the next second. What kind of technology will emerge and what kind of policies will be promulgated. The light will not last forever. Only when we work hard and don't relax, will we make our dawn longer and the darkness shorter.
People don’t have to be too persistent, it’s right to give up at the right time
There was a beautiful copy on the Internet: "If a watch doesn’t go correctly, it’s wrong every second Yes, but if this watch stops, then it is accurate at least twice a day. I mean: stay awake is better than move forward blindly."
We always thought: "Persistence is victory". However, one premise is overlooked, that is, your direction is correct. However, it is impossible for everyone to find their own right direction. This requires constant experimentation and constant expansion of ourselves before we can find our direction.
So, if we are too persistent in one place and spend a lot of money and time, it is difficult for us to find our direction.
There are two possibilities for unsuccessful things. The first one is that everyone often talks about not working hard enough. And the second one is not suitable. The second one may have to do with a lot, it may be our personality limitations, it may also be our background limitations and so on.
Most people say that unsuccess is attributed to not working hard enough and failing to enter university because of not working hard enough. No one sees us ever thinking about falling asleep during the day to understand a topic; no one sees that we have struggled to surpass others In the middle of the night; no one saw the kind of trembling we were in class, for fear of missing a point of knowledge.
We can’t make money by doing self-media full-time because we don’t work hard. No one sees how competitive self-media is now.The editing process; therefore, many people have overlooked the second and most important factor, that is, this is not our direction and we are not suitable.
We may not be suitable for reading, we may read the wrong way, we have to change it. We may not be suitable for self-media, we may focus on the wrong direction of the content, it is difficult to attract the audience. There are still many things in life, all because we are not suitable to lead to no results. Feelings are like this, careers are like this.
Therefore, we don't need to be too persistent, it is right to give up in time. There are often multiple roads in life. When we choose one of them to go on, the scenery of the other road is not irrelevant to us. Those roads are still there, some may be overgrown with weeds, and some may be rebuilt, making it easier to walk than the original one.
Don’t be tied up by the so-called morality
We have been taught morality by adults since we were young. We must not lie. We must help each other and give up seats to the elderly on the bus...
But we will find that there must be something like a lie. The person we helped stabbed us in the back. We didn't give up our seat because of our physical discomfort, but we were ridiculed by the old man standing next to us.
This society sometimes does not praise good people so much. More often, a good person is equivalent to an honest person and a person who is easy to be bullied.
The devil was admired by everyone for saving a person; the angel was scolded by everyone for hurting a person. Everyone only remembers that the devil saved one person, but forgot that he injured tens of millions of people; everyone only remembers that the angel injured one person, but forgot that he saved tens of millions of people.
also don't know where this "rule" comes from. To put it bluntly, this is moral kidnapping. To bind you with so-called morality will never proceed from your perspective.
Don't want to be bound by the so-called morality, do the following two things:
1. Don't put yourself too high
We are just ordinary people, we have things we want to do, and we also hate Don’t think that you should maintain the posture of a saint and want to influence sentient beings.
2. Have a strong attitude
This plays a decisive role in a person's aura.Why are you kidnapped by morals? The bottom line is that we are not strong enough. Most people who like to kidnap others morally are weak, and Mr. Lu Xun once said that the weak like to swing a knife and stab the weaker.
We cannot become demon because we are afraid of being scolded angels. Our hearts must still be kind, our hearts must still be beautiful, and we must still be warm and pure. It's just that this kindness and love has become more relaxed and stronger.
Sanmao once said: “How is the heart like, there is a long distance away, and there is no or a boat _span 23span that can help others. . On the road of life, we alone are the only ones who overcome obstacles. And these three sentences are our sharp edge.
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