share of people: Wei Yonghong
life wisdom Journey Out:
"life wisdom" first order of 82
I am Wei Yonghong from Shenzhen. After four days and three nights of study and sharing in the 82nd phase of "Wisdom of Life", I learned about my "file package". I have always used violence against my father. The way to solve the problem is very disagreeable, has always been stubborn, and has been stuck in that kind of emotion.
I think fate is too unfair to me. Whenever something unsatisfactory happens to me, especially when my child is in this situation, I always ask myself why I have to suffer double pain? My father doesn't love me, and my children always "do it right" with me.
Now I know that it is precisely because I am stuck in that emotion that I can't extricate myself, causing my energy consumption to be so severe that I have no energy to love my family and myself. I feel that my father does not understand me, my husband does not understand me, and my children do not understand me. But how can I understand my father for so many years?
now I want to come,Father has many advantages. He never starves our family in order to save money. Instead, he tries to make us eat well. From the time I was in junior high school, my father gave me ready-made meals to the school every three to five, and he always helped me deliver the rice to the cafeteria in exchange for meal tickets. He always does all this in silence without saying a word, but I always take these silent contributions for granted.
Now when I think of it, I was beaten when I was a child because I was too stubborn. This is the case with cattle, the same with ducks, and even more so when I was beaten. No matter how far things go, whether I can control the ending or not, I always insist on what I think is right. Since I was little, I have suffered countless losses because of my character, but most of my life has passed, but I still haven't understood my father's good intentions! He used his cruel heart to teach me to learn how to adapt and learn to accept! !
I am grateful to Teacher Zhaohui for giving me guidance! We will meet many people in our lives, each of them is different, and the way we get along with us is also different. It is joy to get along with those who are good to us, and it is not good to get along with those who are not good to us. But we must all be grateful! People who are not good to us are here to improve our cultivation! If we can't get along with anyone in peace, it proves that our cultivation is not enough.
Thanks to Senior Chou Jie and Senior Jin Ying for their selfless help and care! Your selflessness makes me feel moved and ashamed! Just like what Teacher Bao said: My pain is because my desire exceeds my virtue! I want to improve my virtue.
I am grateful for what my father has done to me. Because of my fear of my father, I was able to study hard and pass the college entrance examination. I became the only college student in our family and the first college student in the village. Life now. Thanks for everything my husband has done to our family,Thank him for his tolerance for me all the time! It is because of the strong backing of my husband that I have become more confident than before, and it also makes my life worry-free. Thank my child for letting me know my problem!
Thank you family for your care and blessings! We must love ourselves and others, with more links and less emotions, so that we can be happy and happy every day! Energy is constantly improving!
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