Plato said: "When love taps on one's shoulders, men who even dismiss poetry will become poets."
Love has a lot of magic power. There is no love in one's heart, he Then he can always be a cold and indifferent person who only considers himself. Once you have love in your heart, you will never be able to return to your former self.
His mood will change because of the person he likes; his behavior will be hampered by love; even his future will start to plan again.
When we find that we are in love with someone, we feel that we have a big secret hidden in our hearts, for fear that this secret will be discovered by others. But at the same time, I am afraid that this secret will never have a chance to be said.
At the beginning of love, we will inevitably be tortured and have a very ambivalent mentality. Want to express, worry about being rejected, want to restraint, but find that this is simply a difficult thing.
In fact, love is not only expressed in language, it can also be expressed in your emotions, eyes, and some hard-to-find details.
Because love cannot be hidden. Even if you want to restrain it, it will only be counterproductive in the end.
When love comes around, even if you love a man very much, a woman will not be too impulsive, but will keep her secrets reserved.
At the same time, women also want to know the man they love more, want to know what type of girl he likes, and want to know all his thoughts.
It is actually very easy for a woman to know the mind of a man. As long as she has a pair of eyes that are good at discovering, she can also find some traces of love in the clues.
If he does not love you, his attitude will be obvious. If he loves you, how can he hide.
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There is no logic in love,It is impossible for someone who loves you to stay sane all the time.
When love comes, it means that IQ plummets. As long as you fall in love with someone, no matter how you restrain or pretend to be indifferent, love can always disrupt your mind and make you do things that surprise you.
You used to be a very calm person, but now you have become a person who can’t think well; you used to be a decisive person, but now you have become indecisive because of love and are constantly in entanglement Among.
Love is just like that, it can change your behavior and change your state.
Bo Yang said: "Love does not develop logically, so you must always pay attention to its changes. Love is not eternal, so you must continue to pursue it."
If he falls in love with you, he will Become such a illogical and irrational person.
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His love is hidden in his eyes, expressions, and attitude towards you.
Sanmao once said: "If you give me the same thing as what you give to others, then I don’t want it."
Love is so different. Once You fall in love with someone, then that person is shining in your eyes. In the crowd, you can see his presence at a glance; your understanding of him is also different from others.
When a man really loves you, even if he wants to hide his love,Nor can it treat you the same way you treat others.
When he looks at others, he can not care, and there is no wave in his heart. But when I look at you, I will become very gentle and try to restrain my feelings. However, the more restrained he is, the more special you look in his eyes.
He thinks he can do it unaware, but as everyone knows, his love can't be hidden. In some inadvertent times, this love has long been shown in his eyes, expressions, and attitude towards you.
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Once you have love in your heart, you will involuntarily care and give.
Leo Tolstoy said: "True love can only be produced after giving up personal happiness."
When we truly fall in love with someone, we completely forget selfishness. this phrase. Because of love, we become desperate and involuntary.
Even if you know that the other party may refuse, you will give it without hesitation; even if the other party does not love us so much, they will become indifferent under the control of love.
Love makes us no longer reasonable, unable to maintain our sense, even regardless of gains and losses. Although we know that love can be painful, we are willing to suffer this pain in the face of love.
What women should know is that as long as a man truly falls in love with you, from then on, your position in his heart becomes more important.
And he can give up his own happiness and gains and losses for you. He doesn't need to get too much, the only thing he wants is your love for him.
Turgenev said: "Only in love can a person show the brilliance of individuality and can display originality."
When a man does not love you, you are just ordinary in his eyes. The opposite sex is no different from others. However, when he falls in love with you, all this is completely overturned, and you become a person who can affect his emotions and affect his state.
When you can't see him, he will be entangled whether to tell you this thought; he will miss you often; he will learn a lot about you.
In front of love, it is not easy to hide this thought. The more you love someone, the more you want to get this love. The more you evade, the more you will suffer and the more pain you will make yourself.
If he loves you, he can't hide it.
.Wei Tingting: an emotional mentor with millions of fans, a multi-platform invited lecture lecturer, helping 1000+ people get out of the confusion of marriage, senior researcher on gender emotion
