The emotional world of adults is always incomprehensible. We can always see some married people around us. They already have marriages and families. However, they still go to find a lover with their partner behind their back.
Especially some married women, their husbands look good, handsome, But, I can't figure out why they still look for lovers outside? The three women said what they were saying.
1. Self-reporter: Ms. Gao
My husband is indeed handsome and handsome, a talent. However, I still betrayed him. When I first fell in love with my husband, I just saw his handsomeness at a glance. It was his appearance that attracted me deeply.
I thought that a handsome man, his life will be as regular as his appearance. Therefore, my husband and I quickly got married without getting a deep understanding. He really liked being clean and tidy at the beginning of the marriage.
He will share the housework with me. Although he is not doing very well, but he has this behavior I think he is quite good. Moreover, he is very good at loving people and taking care of others. He also has his own business, and he is especially good at making money. is more willing to spend money for me, as long as it is what I like, he can satisfy me, he will secretly buy home and give me a small surprise, so I also love him deeply.
But,As he and I got married for a long time, he began to change slowly. He became more and more careless about the family, his attitude towards me was very cold, and he didn't care about the children. At first, I thought it was something difficult in his career, so I would obediently not want to disturb him.
I am afraid that he has no time to pay attention to me and my children because he is busy with his career. Therefore, I will try my best to be the "great" woman behind him and not mess with him. However, after a long time, I found that he was very wrong. He always went home late, and he still smelled of woman's perfume.
These abnormal performances made me feel a little uneasy. A woman's instinct told me that he had fallen in love with another woman. As expected, I found out that he really had an ambiguous relationship with other women outside.
I realized that he was busy not going home to make excuses for his cheating. When I learned about his cheating in marriage, I tried to save him. I often make something he likes to eat for him. To be honest, I am a gentler woman, I hope to use my gentleness Probate him again.
Sometimes, I will give him some warnings in high profile, I hope he can wake up. But,I tried all kinds of methods and ended in failure. He didn't stop because of this. On the contrary, he thought it didn't matter if a woman like me betrayed.
Seeing his relationship with me go further and further, how can I be calm in my heart? I told my mother-in-law about his behavior, and I hope my mother-in-law can persuade him and let him take care of his life. Unexpectedly, his mother-in-law could not help him.
In this way, the gap between me and him is getting deeper and deeper. I have suffered from insomnia all night and all night, and we shed countless tears in the middle of the night. However, if he changes, he has changed. My recovery is just a superfluous act.
Because I can’t get my husband’s heart, I also thought about divorcing and returning to his free world. However, seeing two young children pitifully, I will be at a loss in my heart, wondering what to do?
After internal struggles, I decided to stay and take care of the children. I gave up the idea of divorce. However, I still have an unhappy life. Later, because of my concerns, I often go online to tell strangers about my concerns.
Until later, I met him in the same place. It turned out that he was very close to our home. When he knew what was going on with me, he would comfort me every day and help me out of the emotional vortex. With his comfort and enlightenment from the original burden-bearing mind, I will feel much better.
It’s been a long time,I also gradually became dependent on him and had a good impression, until later I completely fell in love with him. This is the reason why I have a handsome husband with Yin Jun and still go to find a lover.
2. Self-reporter: Ms. Wang
To be honest, when I was young, I was ignorant and always wanted to find a handsome man to be his husband. So, as long as I see a bad-looking boy in a relationship, I will never talk about it.
So, among the many suitors, I picked the most handsome man, and that is my husband. Ever since I met my husband, I have been infatuated by his looks. I feel very face-saving when I fall in love with him.
Not only is he handsome, he is also from a good family. Then the two of us got married soon, but after we got married, I found out that my husband was only handsome. In fact, he had no dreams. He was just a idle boy.
He knows all day long to hang around with some alcoholic friends and he doesn't even know how to live a down-to-earth life, and my character is a more dreamy woman. When I see my husband, I know how to eat, drink, and do nothing all day long. I despise him from the bottom of my heart.
I also thought about leaving him, but because of the problem of raising children, there is always no consensus, and there is no way to divorce because of property.
Later, I also started to start my own business, let busyness dilute my unhappiness in marriage, when I have my own business, I will forget about life when I am too busy. trouble.
It may be that our values in life are different, and our pursuits are different. My husband basically doesn't have much communication, so I will spend it for the children and the elderly. But don't mention how depressed I am. Until later, I met a professional partner. Although he looks very ordinary, he has dreams. I can't finish talking with him.
Every time I do business with him, it always makes people feel happy and comfortable. After getting along for a long time, we have a good impression, and the two of us have also developed a lover relationship.
This is the reason why I have a handsome husband and look for a lover. I later realized that the most important thing is that a man has responsibility. He is handsome, and it is useless without responsibility or responsibility.
3. Self-reporter: Ms. Tian
My husband and I were introduced by someone to get married. When we first met him, he looked quite energetic, so I didn’t worry about it. Talked about love. At the beginning, I felt that my husband was not only handsome but also very kind, and he would also hurt others.
so I married him,After I had a child after marriage, I slowly discovered that my husband was really too honest. Honest men always don't make much money, so our days after marriage are always tight.
Because of this, I am always dissatisfied with my husband. Later, I met a man from the same village. He often helps with the life of our family. Although he does not look like my husband, he is particularly capable.
He is an engineering boss. Because of our poor family conditions, he often helps us. Later, I also had a good impression of him and finally got together in a confused manner.
The reason why I look for a lover is because my husband is too useless. Although he is handsome, he can’t be a meal!
Conclusion:
Marriage life is like the relationship between shoes and feet. Only the shoes that fit will make you comfortable. There are many beautiful shoes, but only the most suitable shoes of.
Marriage is the same, a man’s handsomeness is actually not important. The important thing is that this man can truly love you for a lifetime and give you enough security. This is the most important thing.
