The son can marry a good wife. This is his blessing. The mother-in-law should treat the daughter-in-law after the son and daughter-in-law get married, and treat the daughter-in-law as a family, so that the son and daughter-in-law can live in peace, but There are always some mothers-in-laws who feel that their daughter-in-law is not worthy of her son after their son gets married, they will make things difficult for the daughter-in-law and affect the relationship between the son and the daughter-in-law.
After ten years of cultivation on the same boat, one hundred years of cultivation and sleep together, it is a kind of fate that two people can get together. The mother-in-law should not destroy the relationship between her son and daughter-in-law because of her willfulness and carefulness. .
As an elder, shouldn’t her mother-in-law look forward to a happy marriage and a happy family? Why must you establish your own majesty in front of your daughter-in-law and let her daughter-in-law hate you? Does this really make you feel satisfied?
Today’s story comes from the sharing of fan Ding Li.
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Ding Li was born in a wealthy family. Her parents are only one daughter. She went abroad to study in high school.After graduating from university, I chose to go back to China and work in a large company.
Ding Li has never been in a relationship. When she was studying abroad, most of her classmates were foreigners. Although Ding Li received a relatively advanced education since she was a child, she is still very traditional in her bones. A foreigner is a boyfriend.
After she returned to China, her parents kept urging her to find a boyfriend. Ding Li didn’t want to fall in love, but she couldn’t meet suitable people at all. Although some of the opposite sexes are not married in the company, everyone works. Very busy, not in the mood to think about other things at all.
Ding Li has a cousin who found a suitable marriage partner through a blind date. After the two got married, they also lived happily. Her parents also asked her to go on a blind date. Although Ding Li felt a little conflicted, she grew up. Just an obedient and sensible child, so he didn't mean to disobey his parents and was ready to go on a blind date.
Ding Li met her husband Wang Jun during a blind date. In fact, the two of them had met before because their company had collaborated on a project. Ding Li felt that the world was really small, two people. During the blind date, she found that they shared a common topic, and she had a good impression of Wang Jun, so the two began to try to get along.
The married mother-in-law came to live with them .
After two people fall in love,Ding Li thinks that Wang Jun is a very good boyfriend. He is very thoughtful and considerate to Ding Li. The two gradually fall in love with each other, and their relationship is getting better and better.
After the two were together, Ding Li learned that Wang Jun was a child in the countryside. His father had died of illness a few years earlier. He and his mother were left alone. Ding Li felt very sorry for Wang Jun. She felt that Wang Jun had a rough time before. After the two people stabilized their relationship, Ding Li took Wang Jun back to her home and met her parents. Ding Li’s parents learned that their daughter had successfully found a boyfriend on a blind date. Afterwards, they were very happy. They were also very enthusiastic about Wang Jun. Ding Li's parents felt that Wang Jun's family background was not important. As long as he treated his daughter well, it was the most important thing for two people to live well after they got married.
Wang Jun and Ding Li were about to get married. He called his mother and told his mother about it. Wang Jun’s mother learned that her son was going to get married. The only daughter in the city was very happy, so she was ready to come to the city to attend their wedding after the house was properly settled.
Two or three days before their marriage, Wang Jun’s mother came to the city. Ding Li’s parents set a table for Wang Jun and his mother to eat. Wang Jun’s mother felt that her son was really promising. After graduation, I stayed in the big city to work, and now I want to marry a rich daughter as his wife.
The wedding of two people was very grand. Ding Li knew that Wang Jun didn’t have much money in his hands. He bought a house for all the money he earned during the years, so the cost of the wedding was half of one person, Ding Li His parents married a car. After a few days in the city, her mother-in-law didn’t want to go back to the countryside. So she proposed to live with them, saying she wanted to stay here to help them wash and cook.Take care of them and let them go to work with peace of mind.
Ding Li knew that her mother-in-law had suffered a lot to pull Wang Jun. Since the two of them are now capable, they should really let her mother-in-law stay here and take care of their families. Agree to let her mother-in-law live with them.
The mother-in-law was beaten in the face by her daughter-in-law .
The mother-in-law said that she was here to help them wash, cook, and take care of the family, but she didn’t want to do anything at home. She even instigated Ding Li to do this and that every day. Ding Li had to go to work every day. I was very tired after home. My mother-in-law was very dissatisfied with her because of this incident, so she picked her faults everywhere.
Ding Li felt a little tired and told Wang Jun about this. Unexpectedly, Wang Jun helped his mother and accused Ding Li, saying that she was a little disregarded for her family, and Ding Li was a little wronged, she Like Wang Jun, he has to go to work every day. Why can Wang Jun not do anything after he returns home and leave everything at home to her. Ding Li doesn't want to pay attention to Wang Jun and his mother.
Days went on like this. She had been enduring her mother-in-law, and she ignored her mother-in-law's cynicism. The mother-in-law thought that Ding Li was afraid of her, so she started to make her worse.
Ding Li didn’t want to stay at home either,She went back to her family’s home for dinner after get off work every day. Sometimes she still lived in her family’s home. This made Wang Jun and his mother even more dissatisfied. Because of this, Wang Jun had a big quarrel with Ding Li, and Ding Li was angry with Wang Jun. Filed for divorce.
Wang Jun is unwilling to divorce. He thinks it is impossible to find a wife as good as Ding Li after the divorce, but his mother keeps letting him divorce Ding Li, saying that he is now With a job and a house, no wife can be found. Under the instigation of the mother-in-law, the two eventually divorced. Their marriage lasted only two years.
After the two people divorced, the mother-in-law sent a circle of friends and said: "I worked as a free maid for two years, and my son is finally divorced." Ding Li saw the circle of friends sent by her mother-in-law, and saw the following comment. She was very angry. It was obviously her mother-in-law who had been torturing her, and now she has portrayed herself as a victim, and she has become a wicked wife. What is this called? So she quickly commented below: "You are not a free servant. Haven't you been an ancestor for two years? I offer you every day, and you are not satisfied. Now I am divorced with your son. Stay with you."
After seeing Ding Li’s comments, her mother-in-law was very panicked. She immediately deleted the circle of friends. She wanted to get sympathy from others, but she didn’t expect to be slapped in the face by her daughter-in-law. This is really stealing rice.
Ding Li has a very comfortable life after divorcing Wang Jun. Wang Jun’s mother always thinks that Wang Jun and Ding Li can marry a better wife, but she wants more There are many people in this city who are in better condition than Wang Jun, so he has never been able to get married again.
It is reasonable to say that every mother is looking forward to the happiness of her children.If children have conflicts with their partners because of some trivial matters, mothers should actively help them adjust the conflicts, instead of fanning the conflict to deepen the conflicts and affect the happiness of their marriage, but there are always some mothers after their sons get married and married daughters-in-law, Every day, fearing that the world will not chaotically provoke the relationship between the son and the daughter-in-law, the daughter-in-law's dissatisfaction is aroused, and the marriage of the son and the daughter-in-law also has a crisis.
Golden is not perfect, no one is perfect, everyone has their own shortcomings, since the daughter-in-law is married to the son, she is a member of your family. The mother-in-law should tolerate and accept the daughter-in-law, and You should not treat your daughter-in-law as an outsider and find her faults everywhere. The daughter-in-law is also the treasure of your parents at home. You can't suffer every day because of marriage to your family. Your son is married to a wife, not a nanny.
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